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Topic: Taurus and Aries Locking Horns
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knctrnl22
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posted September 04, 2003 02:05 PM
 
I have an ex girlfriend who is an Aries and I am a Taurus. There are many things that I like about her Mentally and Physically. Basically about 5 months ago we broke up after a 3 year relationship. We have been communication ever since and have been hanging out now for about 2.5 months. The biggest problem that I have with her is that she contradicts everything that I say having to do with finances. She contradicts a lot of what I say actually. Yesterday we were contradicting each other and then she said I don't want to talk about it anymore. After that I didn't feel like talking to her for the rest of the evening and went home. That night she said she couldn't believe me and called me several times acting very irrational. I think I might have ****** her off pretty bad by ignoring her. She has hurt my feelings a lot and I am always stupid and give into her. I just cannot believe how full of herself she can be, how can a person be so full of themselves. The funny thing is that she admitted to me that she does like to challenge me. She also likes to hit me as hard as she can its sort of a game that she likes to play, she also likes to play I got you last, she is 20 years old! I enjoy playing with her too but sometimes I don't feel like it and then she gets mad. Is there any hope for a Taurus and an Aries? I know that I come across as a know it all to her and she just wants to prove me wrong. I don't know what to do if I am too nice to her than she gets all full of herself. I think that I will just do what I canIP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted September 04, 2003 02:18 PM
It seems that when you're with a woman for awhile... they will contradict everything you say, right OR wrong, just to spite you... it's like their little form of rebellion...  They do that rather than speaking of what's REALLY bothering them because they're either embarassed that it started over some minute detail, that you'll write them off as drama queen (over-reacting), or they can't vent anyway else so why not purposely make your life a living hell by disagreeing with you on everything no matter what... Seen it happen many times to me, my friends, and men all over... But for you... if it's only happening over money, why don't you just NOT talk about money with her? Or is it happening with more than money issues? IP: Logged |
knctrnl22
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posted September 04, 2003 03:12 PM
I should be more careful on what subjects I choose to discuss with this Aries girl.Thanks for the tip-Lost Leo How Old Are you? curious IP: Logged |
Zerep
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posted September 04, 2003 03:13 PM
It's hard, try an aries father & a taurus daughter..... a constant struggle.IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted September 04, 2003 04:54 PM
Hi, I'm a Taurus and I have found Aries friends to be very trying. In the end, I still prefer the company of an Aries as a friend than a lot of signs, but in small doses. Aries can be loud sometimes true, but their advice is stellar. It's like dealing with someone with a mood disorder, you have to ask what caused the mood, and say I will be back later tomorrow in the nicest way you can.A firm polite No, will go a long way. After she hits you, say No, that scares me, I don't like that. Then make up a reason to leave her alone for a while. She will get it right away since Aries likes to be friendly. Taureans have a tough time with Aries because we can feel dominated easily. Make sure to let her know what you feel when this happens, and you are right, there are certain subjects you just can't bring up if they are none of her business. That is her life, this is your life, there has to be some separation. Another big issue for Taurus, is having a physical boundary. Don't let anyone take over your life, Good Luck,
Natasha IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted September 04, 2003 05:17 PM
Ya know, a good friend of mine ever since college is a Taurus. He got real upset about me being aloof and not communicating in the ways he wanted, like calling him on the phone more, dropping plans to hang out, etc. etc. I thought to myself, erm . . . a phone call once every 2 weeks and occasional e-mails is good for me. Hanging out is cool when he comes out to Davis to visit Glen and me. Since he didn't want these offerings, well of course I had the feelings of a rejected friend. I left him be and didn't get mad or throw tantrums. Several years later, he wrote an e-mail and we exchanged phone numbers. We chatted on the phone last Christmas Eve and did a lot of catching up. I guess my friendship is different from yours. He eventually had to accept to leave me Be as I had always done the same for him. IP: Logged |
WychOfAvalon
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posted September 06, 2003 03:15 PM
I'm an Aries female and although I've never dated a Taurus...I do have to say this: Never ignore an Aries unless you DO want to **** her off. heh
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we dreamt we'd be the ones - and we would never lose.. you made me speechless - and fearless - yet it made you fearless too.. oh how we dreamt to be so fearless - no matter what they do.. i don't know where you are now -we shared a dream of being together.. you led me to the light, yeah - for this i would like to thank you forever IP: Logged |
GeminiAries
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posted September 06, 2003 04:11 PM
AMEN TO THAT.
ARIES DEMAND "ALL" OF A PERSON.
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knctrnl22
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posted September 06, 2003 04:50 PM
Thank you ladies for all of your comments.They are very much appreciated, how are all of you, tell me about yourselves. I am a 22 male from Minnesota IP: Logged |
WychOfAvalon
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posted September 06, 2003 05:16 PM
I'm procrastinating. I'm supposed to be writing a detailed history of Wicca this weekend and I'm not ready to get into it just yet today.
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