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Topic: PLEASE SHARE YOUR WISDOM WITH ME EVERYONE
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ineedlove
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posted October 31, 2003 08:14 PM
 
Hey everyone!
The guy I'm interested in is a cancer with a leo asc.-i think (July 5 1980 Algena, Eritea i think 10am)
And my birthday is (May 8 1984 9:48 am Queens NY)
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*I would like to ask u all a few questions
1-Can u please do an astrology reading on us?
2-In the astrology chart does it show compatibilty and faithfulness?
3-Does it show that we will ever be together romantically?
4-Does he think about me as much as I think of him?
5-Is his true intensions of me good-and can I trust him?
*6-Also can u please give any clues on how we can make this relationship work I do care for him although we have only known each other since late August.-- This is the story-- 
See I know this guy from work he has my heart and I have feelings for him. He said that he likes me and that he finds me attractive. And we were supposed to go out 1 day, he invited me to go somewhere.
GUESS WHERE HE INVITED ME....
to a parking lot* -YES a parking lot. So I declined....DID I DO THE RIGHT THING NOT TO GO WITH HIM TO THE PARKING LOT? I mean I trust him cause we work together-but a parking lot I don't know!?!? On the phone he says that no girls are tying to be with him romantically! I really wanna know more about this guy's astrologically! I'm intregued by him his birthday is July 5 1980 I think his ascendant is in leo cause he's so bossy. I want to love him. But I need to know if he would be fathful to me or not! In the astrology between us do u show that we will be fathful-better yet do u show that we will ever be TOGETHER ROMANTICALLY? Please let me know what I should do I want to be his girl he has a lot of girls that are his friends so im confused as to why he dosent have a girl friend I think of him a lot do u think he thinks of me too. I will do anything please just let me know about him IT'S DRIVING ME INSANE!!!!!!! THANKS A MILLION -U GUYS ARE THE BEST I MEAN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  KATIE
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theFajita3
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posted October 31, 2003 08:32 PM
ineedlove I cannot help you because I am not an astrologer. But I can tell you to give things a shot no matter what faithful or not faithful stuff shows up in the chart! Every rose has it's thorns, and sometimes, it's better to have loved and lost than never loved at all, and you never know what will happen. Don't you agree? I just don't want you to wait to hear about his chart before you give things a shot! Doesn't mean you two have to rush out and get married and hope to God that you both never look at another soul! Life is short, I encourage you to be open that you may meet many loves in your time. And just because two people don't work out forever doesn't mean you can't still be friends, and how great is that, to have friends that you have shared special time with. And maybe he wants to meet you in the parking lot to kiss you! I don't know. Tell him on the next date you want to upgrade  You have a great personality and I am sure he sees that! ------------------
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ineedlove
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posted October 31, 2003 09:40 PM
OHHHH THANK U SOOOOOOO MUCH FOR YOUR LOVELY INFORMATIVE REPLY!!!!! I APPRECIATE ALL WISDOM THAT ANYONE HAS TO TELL ME! THANK U AND IF GIVEN THE CHANCE I WOULD LOVE TO BE HIS GIRLFRIEND -I JUST WANT TO MAKE HIM HAPPY! AND U HAVE A WONDERFUL PERSONALITY AS WELL NAMASTE!THANK U SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
theFajita3
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posted October 31, 2003 10:24 PM
namaste isn't my name, it just means that the light within me bows down to the light within you Danita is my name.Don't worry, if it's meant to be it'll happen and I'm no wiser than you my friend! ------------------
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Redwood
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posted October 31, 2003 11:36 PM
Maybe he just wanted to show you his car.
I know this sounds soooooo unromantic but
It's a guy thing. lolOn a more serious note..... The above could be true. If he is new to USA, He's come to this country and has worked hard for what he has and where he is at. As for the charts, I can't say much other than regardless what aspects he has he ultimately has free will. There is no chart that can decree 100% guarantee if one is going to be faithful or not. Trust your instincts. AND going along with the above...
Remember where he is from. His culture and upbringing is very different. Many countries do not percieve infidelity as we do. It is quite customary for a man to have and be with more than one woman. Learning more about him, his culture and upbringing will help you to determine whether he is right for you or not. Keep in mind TRYING or assuming one can change someone usually ends in disaster. Then the one who tried to change them begins blaming and insulting the individual...seething in scorn. so much yet they fail to see where they are responsible for their initial intent. I'm not saying that this regarding you but in general to all out there in the world when one falls so madly in love and finds themselves at odds with their love's traits, It becomes a mission to "change" the individual to ones own way of thinking and feeling. As beautiful as it is that you want to make him happy, Always remember happiness comes from within. Do not loose yourself in the process.
Blessings,
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trillian
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posted November 01, 2003 08:37 AM
Sorry, but I don't have to look at his chart to think he's a bit of a jerk.
A guy who asks you out to the parking lot is not a guy interested in getting to know you. C'mon, be sensible. If he wanted to show you his car, he'd say so. If he wanted to kiss you, well, the parking lot?? You made the right choice, the choice of self respect, to decline. If you want a relationship, then you deserve to be respected. If he wanted to know you, he'd ask you to go for a cup of coffee, a dinner, a lunch, a walk in the park.
And the way you wrote this make it seem like he asked you out, that you had plans to get together, and then you were blindsided by those plans simply being going to the parking lot. Sheesh. And what does trust have to do with work? Trust is earned. I get the feeling you don't know the guy well, so how can you trust him? Laci Peterson (the woman in CA who was killed last year) was married for years, pregnant, and there are serious indications that her husband was not trustworthy! I'm sorry, I don't want to be negative, I know it's not what you want to hear. But maybe it's what you need to hear. So, I would say, go for it, but be wise. Tell him if he finds you attractive and wants to get to know you, you'd be inclined to get to know him, too. If money is an issue, go dutch, pay for yourselves. If he is someone truly meant for you, truly worthy of you, then he will agree. If he doesn't, then you will know that he is a 'put out or get out' type of guy. I wish you the best. But sometimes it's best to be wise in the ways of the heart.
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trillian
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posted November 01, 2003 08:39 AM
One more thing. Wanting to make him happy is all well and good, but make yourself happy too. If he doesn't have the same ideal: "I just want to make HER happy," then it will be a lopsided relationship in which neither of you will ultimately be happy.IP: Logged |
juniperb
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posted November 01, 2003 08:53 AM
Well said Trillian  Love and trust yours-elf first then the rest will fall into place. juniperb  ------------------
If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. ~James Herriot IP: Logged |
theFajita3
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posted November 01, 2003 01:12 PM
I agree Trillian. While we may fall for someone and really really want to please them, we have to hold ourselves in first regard. It's also good to remember this in case things don't work out with that person, we are not crushed, because we still have ourselves and have take good care of ourselves.------------------
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ineedlove
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posted February 07, 2004 05:48 AM
I just want to thank everyone for their reply's ...... and all we're right about the kissing thing because when it was time to leave he made me wait in my car while someone gave him a jump....because he wanted to say goodbye to me since I was leaving to ny at the time.... and he did try to kiss me but I pulled away because I had a cold I feel so bad.... but we did hug close before he tried to kiss me.... awww i miss him y love has to be like this... and ever since i pulled way from him when he tried to kiss me this hasnt been the same... although I do catch him staring at me sometimes......i really love him and I don't know why....we sorta look alike tooo it's wired
but thank u for listening everyone
im obssessed huh lol 
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