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SparklingSag
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posted November 26, 2003 08:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi all,
I've posted before but I'm confused about a libra male. Basically, it feels like he goes hot and cold - one minute paying attention to me and then next ignoring me! I don't get it. Is it indecision?

I'm a sag sun, leo moon, libra venus...
I only know his libra sun and nothing else.It's hard to ask people when they are born so I don't know the rest of his details...

Can anyone help or have experienced libra men?It would be appreicated:-)

SparklingSag

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sthenri
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posted November 26, 2003 09:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ask him, he'll love to tell you his birthdate and time. It's on his birth certificate and he can get it from his mother. If he's a Libra sun he is probably close to his mother.

Libras LOVE to tease, so he is warm one minute and then expects you to chase him the next. A libra likes the other to take control and guide him, to tell him what you would like him to do. Once you give him social activities that you are a part of, and he has something to do, he will never leave.

Libras are social and they need to be part of a bigger picture. They are devoted but need a home base, chances are he likes to entertain around his home or invite people to his home. He would like a gift that would enhance his home or you could offer to help him make dinner or fix something.

Libras are real homebodies most of the time, in their thoughts.

Libras love to TEASE, but they want to be caught and normally like to be forced to stay around.

Natasha
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Cancer/8th house Moon

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SparklingSag
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posted November 27, 2003 03:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks so much for replying and the tips :-)
It makes sense - the teasing and being sociable - he is certainly that!

Thanks for that.

SparklingSag

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moondreamer
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posted November 27, 2003 06:15 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi SparklingSag

I am a Libra male and i would LOVE to give you advice.
If you are having a dinner for two at a libra's house, bring lotsa good wine, there is nothing better then to start the night drinking wine.
Also when you start a conversation you should talk philosophy and esoteric subjects in particular.I LOVE to have a discussion on those subjects.
I love telling people my birth details(I do not know why).
I do like to entertain at home as I feel I am more in control then in public(maybe it has something to do with my Leo rising).
Charm the living daylights out of your Libra lover.(gosh I wish I was him.)
those are my two cents worth of advice.
Lots of love
Mark.

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SparklingSag
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posted November 27, 2003 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi,
thanks moondreamer!,
I do wanna charm him....but because he is attractive and charming i'm not sure whether he is just flirting or likes me. I have leo moon so am a warm talkative perons but when you really like someone I get a little shy...I have cap asc so at first impression I may seem different to the real me!

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SparklingSag
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posted November 27, 2003 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi again,
sorry to keep going on about libra guys but I did my chart on astro.com and I see that I have mars in Libra - is mars the kind of man you are attracted to?

Any help would be appreciated!
SparklingSag

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Sagittarius 03°04'59 11 direct
Moon Leo 13°06'46 07/8 direct
Moon is technically near the end of house 7 and is interpreted in house 8.
Mercury Sagittarius 17°34'27 11 direct
Venus Libra 17°47'41 10 direct
Mars Libra 04°23'56 09/10 direct
Mars is technically near the end of house 9 and is interpreted in house 10.
Jupiter Sagittarius 17°45'38 11 direct
Saturn Scorpio 10°16'58 10 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 08°58'35 11 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 28°00'28 12 direct
Pluto Scorpio 00°45'31 10 direct
True Node Gemini 15°57'52 05 direct


House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Capricorn 22°46'06
2nd House Aquarius 13°20'25
3rd House Pisces 07°21'50
Imum Coeli Aries 07°21'50
5th House Taurus 13°28'14
6th House Gemini 20°29'20
Descendant Cancer 22°46'06
8th House Leo 13°20'25
9th House Virgo 07°21'50
Medium Coeli Libra 07°21'50
11th House Scorpio 13°28'14
12th House Sagittarius 20°29'20

Major aspects
Sun Sextile Mars 1°19
Sun Conjunction Uranus 5°54
Moon Trine Mercury 4°28
Moon Sextile Venus 4°41
Moon Trine Jupiter 4°39
Moon Square Saturn 2°50
Moon Trine Uranus 4°08
Mercury Sextile Venus 0°13
Mercury Conjunction Jupiter 0°11
Venus Sextile Jupiter 0°02
Venus Square Ascendant 4°58
Mars Sextile Uranus 4°35
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°45

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sthenri
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posted November 27, 2003 09:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like the other post about pets said, Libra men like to treat their mates like pets. So be fun and entertaining and pettable. Eat his food and play with his toys. Find his favorite object usually an electronic device and ooh and aahh. He likes to be petted too, massaged and hugged often.

A Libra man would like a girl, a kitten, a roomful of cushions and big screen tv after dinner, just to play around. Everything soft and cuddly is very Libra, so bring pamper his ego and bring over some strudel.

Natasha
Taurus

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firestar
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posted November 29, 2003 02:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey moondreamer...

What are your birth details?
Do you agree with Plato's position regarding
immortality?
Just curious.

Natasha...lol...I can't remember if those descriptions were for both male and female, If I do that, I have an excuse, I have a pet sitting business...sometimes it is hard to just leave it all at the office...*g*

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SparklingSag
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posted November 29, 2003 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,
I just had an email from my first love ( also a libra) after about 2 years. It was a lovely surprise. He was wishing me a happy birthday....wow, I can't believe he still must think of me after so long.
But anyway, since I was asking about libra men I thought I would share that with you :-)

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dafremen
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posted November 29, 2003 08:15 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also a Libran male. We do love to talk about imaginative or mentally stimulating subjects. Food is a biggie. Give us lots of delicious tasty food and fun fun fun. Bills are never a good subject with anyone, but least of all with Air signs. We do need lots of move around move around so try to keep up and go with the flow. The worst thing to do is to put the brakes on the activity or the ideas as they're a flowing. One thing that Air signs tend to do when they're together is to FLOOOOOW. (But we also have an alarming tendency to get lazy as all getup without warning. Sorry. Oh, and you better give US plenty of warning if you want to change plans.)If you're a Sag, that shouldn't be a problem, but remember, going with the flow means leaiving any latent realism and skepticism a bit behind. (No doubt your Libran will pipe in with his own nagatives if you are too positive, take them for what they are, not criticism, but just the natural tendency to try to balance any strong opinion to one side or the other with a similarly weighted opinion of opposite polarity.)

Finally, and most importantly..flattery will get you EVERYWHERE with Librans. Our vanity is usually enormous and requires huge doses of "that's sooo interesting...tell me more" (which we're always blah blah blah ready to do.) Make it sincere though, we can usually see right through a lie. Oh..and don't forget that Venus is the influence of LOOOVE. As cold as Librans might seem emotionally sometimes, they are creatures who need to know how devoted you are to the partnership and to them. (nevermind how we zip around like farts in a mitten ourselves.)

daf

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proxieme
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posted November 29, 2003 09:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Farts.
In a mitten.


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proxieme
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posted November 29, 2003 09:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Although I would've thought that they just would kinda seep out.

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proxieme
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posted November 29, 2003 01:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
daf - I wonder why my Aqua beau doesn't seem very much like your description of Air Sign people...or perhaps I'm just too air-signish to notice.

*shrugs*

*skips off*

*sees keyboard*

*begins to pound own head with keyboard due to extreme boredom while at work*

*sighs*

I've forgotten how to amuse myself.
Well, that's not true...I just can't do any of those things here.

*twitch*

ADD's kicking in.

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dafremen
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posted November 29, 2003 04:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aquarians are FIXED Air signs and the least Air signish of the bunch. Remember who their co-ruler is...good ol' dependable, Saturn.

Tell me the man isn't from outer space and you'll need to bust out his chart stats!

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proxieme
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posted November 29, 2003 07:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He is, in his own, wonderful way (but my Aqua Moon is conjunct to the degree to his natal Sun & we both have 1st house Uranus..es...Uranae...?, so I quite enjoy his eccentricities).

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proxieme
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posted November 29, 2003 08:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But here's his chart, anyway ('cause I _always_ like showing off charts) - his birthtime is anytime from the time shown to about 30 minutes before...he *is* a Scorp Rising, though:

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Diandra23
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posted May 24, 2007 10:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I couldn´t help on bumping this hihihih

i´VE RED all the descriptions about Libra man and it exactly fits his personality :P

He always wanting to be doing something,he just gets nuts if he has nothing to do..and starts say:" So,what can we do?" hihih - even if we are watching TV he seems to be impatient and wants to do FUNNY activities.

Well, his vanity is THERE to say the least :P - he does like to ear compliments,and just doenst get it if passes sometimes without me saying to him nice things.

Yeah, he does like me to say what to do - new and exciting things and he loves to eat ( i dont know how he can eat so much and stay elegant!)

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posted May 24, 2007 12:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok... I have read it all and I have to say that the Libra Male described above must have a water ascender or a water moon cause I tell ya... We are not all balls of fluff.

I am a Libra and I generally view the sign as the balance; The balance of both Musculanity and sensitivity. The person as descibed in the posts above sounds way too... Frilly.

In general, a Libra wants an equal mate; Someone who will not dominate and someone who will not submit. If you want to submit, you're too boring. If you're gonna be uberly dominant, you have self-image issues. You're a Saggitarius so you would know the importance of personal freedom. Just remember... Lovers = Partnership .

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Diandra23
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posted May 24, 2007 01:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Xodian,

i thought it was pretty accurate cause my bf has aqua moon and cancer rising

I do love his tenderness and way of thinking,as me being a libra asc i pretty much understand why he acts some way or another.

Of course not only the sun sign describes a person;dont misunderstood me - i do love Libra man!
Yeah, BALANCE is the key word

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Azalaksh
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posted May 24, 2007 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Xodian ~

I just love the way you write!!

quote:
The balance of both Musculanity and sensitivity.
Is "Musculanity" a combination of "Masculinity" and "Muscularity"???

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Xodian
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posted May 24, 2007 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I try to generalize the whole concept without being to overly politically correct .

What do you want me to say? Balance of Aggressive directive compulsions and sensal seductive allure complex? Lol!

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alcheme
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posted May 29, 2007 07:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alcheme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am dating a Libra male and have a few friends that have been in relationships with Libra men.

From what I have seen, if a Libra is not quite sure they want to be in a relationship (or want to be in a relationship with you) they do the hot / cold thing. From how it has been describe, these cold periods are periods of reflection and their attempts to come to conclusions about their feelings (they are air signs, so they like to get to the objective truth about their feelings which can take a while). It would seem to go: do a little, crunch a little, do a little, crunch a little, and so on. That being said, Libras are Cardinal signs, and while it may take them some time (at times) to come to their conclusions, once they have made up their minds they generally go with full force. With some Libras / relationships, this can take months, and with others it can be very quick. My boyfriend and I just "clicked", and we were already discussing moving in together after knowing each other for only a couple of weeks. I know another Scorp female / Libra male couple that similarly "clicked" and within a month he was professing his undying love and hinting at marriage (in that amusingly sly Libra way). I have heard that Libra men and Sag women do go well together, especially in the have fun together department.

I would suggest, though, establishing a solid friendship and romantic relationship prior to starting a sexual one. Libras tend to place a high value on sex in a relationship and lots of it (which is awesome), but without first establishing the foundations for a greater relationship, one could wake up one day to find that the relationship is solely a sexual one with not much else sustaining it.

Sexually / intimately, though, I have heard that Libras tend to prefer (atleast initially) for the other person to make the first move (or a first move). I think it probably has something to do with their sense of "harmony". Making a move on someone that is not ready would be uncouth and bad for the relationship. They like to get the go ahead first, then they can be quite...yummy...quite...

Well, those are the only things I can think of off the top of my head. Hope it helped...

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Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Gemini
Asc: Capricorn

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Diandra23
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posted May 30, 2007 07:43 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Alcheme, welcome to LL

in my own experience,my dear Libra and I went going on a 3 month try-period before we got the 1st step and meet each other.
till then,we built a tender and nice friendship where we started to trust ech other and then,came the moment when we realised that couldn deny what we were feeling for each other. One month after meeting,we started dating
Surprinsigly enough,it was me that made the 1st move intencionally cause I realised he was being a little shy or insecure. ( and me being a Virgo hihihi)
So, I was caught by suprise when later he said to me that he didnt made the 1st move cause he thought i would consider him to be too fast or not a respectfull guy (he´s only 24) - i smiled and thought he was te sweetest guy i´ve ever met - and even now i think the same!
Concerning intimacy you´re totally right. He considers it a sacred thing and just believes in making love ( different from sex) with love. For him, he must trully love and trust the other person to be able to give himself on that matter.
Once committed to the other, he´s the most truthfull and loyal person in the world.
It was me that again and counsciously made the ast move ( i already knew he wanted to move to the next step), and cause i already knew him,realised he wanted me to make that move torwards it hihihih
Now that i ~know his personality im counscious that deep inside, he is a bit insecure behing that confident mask. He knows waht he wants and feels,but somehow he´s afraid that the other doesnt have its depth of feelings torwards him 8 like he has torwards us)

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