posted January 30, 2004 01:15 PM              

The other is to plan it out, yet it may subconsciously place "expectations" on that child, and they will sense that too. We assume our future children are going to "fall in line" with our expectations. But what is usually the case is, they end up rebelling against WHATEVER it is you think you're about.

You can be the "perfect" parent, and yet have a child who grows up to have many problems, or become someone we don't even recognize.

So I think the intention during the time of conceivement is very important. Perhaps a better way is to look at the placement of the slower planets to see how they will align when the child is born. For example, Pisces in Saturn is common in people who end up with hardcore drugs problems.

I would want to think my parents conceived at a time when their hearts were full of love and when the time just felt right somehow. Afterall, whatever happens, that child will teach you lessons you need to learn NO MATTER WHAT.

with love & support,

.gloria

posted January 30, 2004 03:06 PM              

But, in my own observations, I've found that the Uni-Verse knows exactly what it's doing when putting families together. There's usually at least 1 commom bond within every family, be it the elements same or complimentary, or the mode, so they "get" each other, even if they square each other, or even quite often you'll see the same sign or couple of signs repeated within the same family.
I have a Taurus dad, and a Taurus sister, both born on the same day in May...
I have a Saggie mom, and I'm Saggie rising, as is my little sister.
My daughter is also a Taurus, and she has Saggie rising as well.
My younger sister is a Gemini, my older sister (the Taurus) is Gemini rising AND moon. My Saggie mom has a Taurus moon. And so on...

posted January 30, 2004 10:36 PM              

Something like that would very much depend on the details of each chart, so you have to go with each situation. If you had two specific birthdates and times, then we can get specific.

I mean... even if we all agree that Aqua's tend to be detached, very cerebral, and nonpossessive... how would you explain marriages between Scorpio's and Aqua's?

Or Aqua's and Leo's?

You may find people who don't like Aqua's, but you'll rarely find an Aqua who doesn't like them back anyway.

.gloria

posted January 31, 2004 01:07 AM              

It's dependant on who the Aquarius enjoys spending time with BACK the most. They're grazers in conversation, skipping to another subject like lightening if the current one isn't doing it for them. They don't want to be your mama either. They'd prefer if you didn't whine too much about your life. They'll be supportive and all, but then they'll avoid you, cuz they'll consider you a downer. They do have many strong opinions, which they'll happily share with you, but if you start to rant about your own strong opinions, they'll get this glazed over look in their eyes. They are very funny though, and have all kinds of little stories to tell, of things that happened to themselves or other people...and they'll insist you do social things with them, like come out next weekend, or come to an exhibit of some sort with them. They're totally into birthday parties, especially surprise ones for other people. They have a real sense of occasion, and are always trying to get others into the spirit of things...But I'm just rambling now.