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Topic: DOES THIS MEAN IM GETTING MARRIED SOON??? PLEASE TELL ME....
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ineedlove
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posted February 07, 2004 06:03 AM
 
I just went to http://www.astro.com and I noticed that the current transits for chiron is in capricornmy natal venus is in taurus
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my natal jupiter is in capricorn and I read on here that when jupiter and/or venus is trine or conjunct the transit chiron then u will be getting married soon? Oh please tell me.....cause i'am wayyyy legal to get married.....oh please let me know what this aspect means Thank u everyone!!! IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted February 07, 2004 09:36 AM
Why are you so eager to be coupled? You are only 18yrd old? If a man truly loves you tell HIM to wait ten years until you are done figuring out YOUR life and career. If he still loves you, he'll be around, if he doesn't he'll be out in a month.Take Care,
Natasha
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pixelpixie
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posted February 07, 2004 01:16 PM
I need love~
I don't want to seem as if I am talking down to you, but I think it is the only way to get it across......
I had a baby at eighteen. I love my son, he opened my eyes about a zillion things, he is my breath and light. But in retrospect, if someone asked me if I would have waited until I were older? My answer is yes. Having a child/making such a life commitment, so young absolutely can work, yes, with struggle and internal commitment. But there comes a point when you reach a self knowing, and it happens in your twenties. Things change. I am now, at twenty seven, taking things for granted ( at least I am aware) and wanting to just ignore responsibility and go be a teenager (from the perspective of an adult).
It will rear it's head, no matter what, this energy can't be supressed. I did it myself. After years of being responsible for others above myself, I am now becoming selfish, and dealing with the consequences.
Marriage isn't always fun...time goes on.
I question the whole normalcy of it in fact.
From your perspecctive now, you will change mountains, until you are twenty five. Even then, we are always evolving. Put away that need for it, ask yourself why you would want it. Channel it into something to enrich you. Best case scenarios do work, at times and in moments, but ultimately, you choose your fate. Do it with open eyesIP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted February 07, 2004 02:14 PM
INeed Love -It's weird because on the one hand you are supposed to abstain from sex until marriage, on the other, your hormones at 18 has had enough waiting. So what do you do? It would seem getting married is the logical choice. But but make sure you get to know the other person well, and that you have a long engagement first. .gloria ------------------
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ineedlove
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posted February 07, 2004 03:28 PM
BUT EVERYONE IM ABOUT TO BE 20 IN 3 MONTHS  20 Isn't too young to get married ....right? I'am mature for my age.... but i was just wondering about the aspects with chiron that's all Thank u everyone! IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted February 07, 2004 04:04 PM
I feel, from your other posts, that you do not have any actual prospects to be married to, do you?!
If you feel you are ready... not for a huge, extravagant party, with a beautiful dress and dancing and being the centre of attention FOR ONE DAY... But,....... to live with and share your life and dreams and hopes and ironing and dishes and fights and making babies and raising children and going to work and paying the bills and fighting over money and other's attractiveness and having your own side of the bed, and deciding who calls the doctor when the babies' are sick, and peeing with the door open.. or worse, and sharing your fears in a way you can explain them, and your doubts, and as you change your perceptions and grow in this world, will you grow out of him too?..... and car repairs and home decisions and what about support if you want to change things up?
By all means, if you feel you are ready for MARRIAGE and all it entails, more power to you, just be realistic. It isn't just a cake and pictures. Wow, I am harsh. IP: Logged |
starflower
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posted February 07, 2004 04:21 PM
No, pixel there is nothing harsh in that post. Marriage is hard work. Nobody tells you hard it is. And IMHO 20 is WAY TOO YOUNG for anyone to be married. INEEDLOVE...answer this, why do you want to be married?
I have said to you in your posts at Soul Unions what I will say now:
you have your whole life ahead of you. You dont realize how lucky you are to be 19, and with your life an open book in front of you. You can make all the choices you want
You can have what you want.
But you NEED to focus on whats good for you.
You seem to be asking here and in Soul Unions for advice. When other posters give advice you just ignore it. If you dont want advice, dont ask for it, just say what you have to say. I hope that does not sound mean, I dont intend it to. Ok?
Wish I was19 again sometimes. Free to make all the choices you can make.
Marriage is not something you need right now.
You know something? You will make a much better wife when you are older. When you have lived, when you have so much more to offer your husband. Ok. thats MUCH more than enough from me. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted February 07, 2004 05:20 PM
StarFlower~ So true, girlfriend, so true!IP: Logged |
ineedlove
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posted February 07, 2004 05:30 PM
Okay I won't get married right away...
but I would like to know if chiron aspecting my venus and jupiter means somethingWhat does it mean to have chiron trine venus
and chiron conjunct jupiter DONT WORRY IM NOT THINKING OF MARRYING ANYONE RIGHT NOW.... I JUST WOULD LIKE TO KNOW ABOUT THE ASPECTS JUST IN CASE THEY OCCUR AGAIN..... P.S. Does anyone know how long chiron is going to be in capricorn?
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astro junkie
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posted February 07, 2004 09:09 PM
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astro junkie
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posted February 07, 2004 09:10 PM
INeed Love -ok - You are looking at Magi right? And so that is one opinion. Why don't you try an experiment and see how you feel about love around the time of this transit, and see if you feel more attractive, and see if you meet anyone special. Then if nothing happens now, you'll know good things can happen next time these transits occur. But remember that we can fall in love for so many reasons. So don't give all the credit to the stars, but know they do bless us at times. Chiron is supposed to be in Capricorn until Jan.1.06 ------------------
it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
ineedlove
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posted February 07, 2004 09:30 PM
Oh thank u soooooooo much thats what I wanted to know thank uuuuuuu IP: Logged |
venus_rising
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posted February 08, 2004 06:34 AM
Gosh, you guys are truly harsh, and I would almost say judgmental. We only have our own lives to live and that is luck in itself! If you don't know the answer to the woman's question then why respond at all. Just because your life sucked or whatever does not mean that someone else will do the same thing. All that we can do is be supportive to one another otherwise we are no better than our competitors! Seriously people chill! This astrology not psychology, right?IP: Logged |
starflower
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posted February 08, 2004 09:33 AM
Venus_Rising, I apologize if I have caused any offence, however ineedlove has posted several Q's at other Forums which you may or may not have been following.The point I made is that she has been asking for advice about a specific boy, and if you read her original post some of this may be clearer. I responded in this way on this thread because I know some of her history and I know there is a boy she is crazy about. Yes my reply was not relevant to the astrology of her question, but it was relevant to the situation she has been in recently. Once again I apologize if my remarks have upset anyone.That was the last thing I intended. IP: Logged |
Harpyr
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posted February 08, 2004 11:16 AM
Not to derail the thread or anything but I feel it's important to point out... quote:
This astrology not psychology, right??
Well actually.. the two go hand in hand, if you ask me. I don't think an astrologer is being very responsible if they don't take atleast abit of psychology into account.
I also think, considering the other posts of ineedlove, that the advice given here was not at all out of line. 
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pixelpixie
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From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 08, 2004 01:45 PM
Starflower, Harpyr~
Funny that psychology is mentioned...do you know when you have an epiphany... you suddenly wake up and you see the synchronicity everywhere?
Yesterday, I was as usual, going over things, wanting to change, find a new direction, try not to let it all be negative in manifestation....and Psychology POPPED into my brain. Of course, I thought!!!! I am so into astrology...and I made that connection in my mind... reasoning and psyche spelunking all mapped out in a scientifically driven way. Astrology IS a branch of psychology! So I surfed on over to several college/university websites and looked it up, inquiring as to how to start, what to do...I may redefine, to suit me, as seven years in school is daunting to anyone, let alone a person on the cusp of thirty soon....
So, I thought I'd share my epiphany..we'll see where it goes.Venus-rising.....What Starflower pointed out is why I said the things I'd said... I want ineedlove to be real about things..check out her thread....this is not realness with this man. Marriage is real. Weddings are fantasy.
And here's me being defensive as usual, but whats up with thinking I am judgemental, reread my posts, I even pointed out I didn't want to seem like I was talking down to her, but given her situation, it needed to be said...woman to woman... I am a good person, if I feel I can help someone with something I know that they may not, then I will do it.. whether it falls on them or not. I felt I did have parts of the answer...maybe not the one she asked, but whenever I do a Tarot reading, for instance, I usually get facts SURROUNDING the question, not an actual answer. That is life. We hear what we need, not what we want.
Pardon me for pointing out to her that it isn't all peaches and rainbows. I didn't say it ALL wasn't, but not all IS. If it is more comfortable to go through life with rose coloured glasses on , so be it.. I agree. But one day the glasses come off. It's nice to peek out the sides once and a while.
By the way, I take TOTAL offense to your insinuation that my life sucks. I agree that it does not mean that they will do the same things.. but people pave the way for one another. What if I went through the JOYOUS but difficult things I do and did so I could share my perspective with someone disillusioned about things?
No harm done, she didn't listen anyway, but at least I got it out there. Don't sum me up in one sentance, it makes me defensive!!!! IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted February 08, 2004 10:38 PM
The 10 'Demandments' 10 Rules to Live by to Insure Unhappiness in
a Relationship ~ Joy Miller1. Thou shall make me happy. 2. Thou shall no have any interests other than me. 3. Thou shall know what I want and what I feel without me having
to tell you. 4. Thou shall return each one of my sacrifices with an equal or
greater sacrifice. 5. Thou shall shield me from anxiety, worry, hurt or any pain. 6. Thou shall give me my sense of self-worth and esteem. 7. Thou shall be grateful for everything I do. 8. Thou shall not be critical of me, show anger toward me or
otherwise disapprove of anything I do. 9. Thou shall be so caring and loving that I need never take
risks or be vulnerable in any way. 10. Thou shall love me with a whole heart, a whole soul and a
whole mind, even if I do not love myself Natasha
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Harpyr
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posted February 08, 2004 11:51 PM
pixie~ That is GREAT. I think psychology is facinating stuff. Although.. as a warning.. parts of the study of it can be rather dry. My partner is going to school for pyschology at a really facinating school that stresses alot of contemplation and takes a somewhat spiritual stance on a lot of stuff and even with their way coool curriculum I've found some of the stuff he has to read..well frankly, dull and dry.I thought I wanted to be a psychology major there too but now I think I've changed my mind to enviromental studies.. I'm really interested in delving into how our enviroment intermingles with our psyche. Anyhoo.. don't want to hijack the thread here.. Just wanted to say I'm happy to hear about your epiphany!   Natasha~ Sad but soo true that many of us are looking for just that.
*raises glass of rice milk in a toast*
Here's to us seeing ourselves in a truer, kinder light and moving beyond this stuff into the realms of real intimacy.  IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted February 09, 2004 05:48 AM
Esthenri -I've never seen that list - It's very AWESOME! Thanks for sharing. .gloria IP: Logged |
ineedlove
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posted February 09, 2004 03:00 PM
Thank you everyone, for your wisdom and compassion! IP: Logged |
Harpyr
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posted February 09, 2004 03:45 PM
Even though some of us here can be brutally honest at times...it's only cause we care!  IP: Logged |
ineedlove
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posted February 09, 2004 07:24 PM
Yeah I know!!! IP: Logged |
Aen
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posted February 10, 2004 04:29 AM
Natasha,Wow, what a list. And it is so true. IP: Logged |
starflower
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posted February 10, 2004 05:13 AM
In reply to Harpyr saying about us caring. Its true.I was so upset that some of my replies in this thread had caused offence,I really didnt intend that. I'm not going to start on all over again about it. Harpyr is correct though, I only said what I said because I care, and was getting worried and over protective (Cancer Moon huh?) about this young woman.
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starflower
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posted February 10, 2004 05:15 AM
ineedlove - hello by the way! So I was just wondering, Valentines coming up at the weekend as we talked about.Any other guys apart from the Cancer who you like enough to send a card or something to?
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