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Topic: Lioneye68-question for you
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Oxychick
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posted March 10, 2004 07:08 AM
 
Heya! I was wonderin'...You said your closest friend is an Aqua Sun/Leo Moon. Well, one of my closest friends is a Leo Sun/Aqua Moon. I'm just wondering if you can shed some light on some of the er..interesting..dynamics there. She is the second Leo Sun/Aqua Moon close friend I've had, and I noticed that with both, I felt they understood parts of me that many others couldn't. (Same feeling I get from my Aqua friends) But...I've noticed a slight competitive feeling. Well no, someone else noticed it and pointed it out to me. My first Leo Sun/Aqua Moon friend (years ago) was, although a very loyal friend, somewhat jealous and competitive as well, but only when it came to men. Otherwise, she was the most caring and supportive friend and we experienced quite a few adventures together. This other friend of mine is loyal and very trustworthy, She's also non-judgemental of me. But I can't shake the observation someone made of her feeling jealous and competitive. So I guess my question is, do you experience this or some other indescribable 'weirdness' with your friend as well? There seems to exist an odd wall between Leo and Aquarius females. Does that make sense to you? See? I'm babbling again. 
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lioneye68
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posted March 10, 2004 10:46 AM
Yeah, Oxy, my Aqua.sun/Leo.moon pal and I DO bring out the competitive side in each other. I see it as a GOOD thing, though, because we spur each other on to try harder, and to accomplish what we set out to accomplish. Aquas can have a tendancy to leave things half done, or to not follow through with a promise sometimes, so I think a little jealousy/envy helps to keep the interest levels up. We've had a couple of the same boyfriends, but we're both very generous and understanding people, so that was never a source of conflict between us. I mean, in grade 8 I broke up with my Libra boyfriend because I was falling for this Pisces, and apparently I really hurt his feelings, and R was there to help him deal with his "broken heart". Well, wouldn't you know it, they "fell" for each other. They actually ended up being a couple for like 2 years after that. I was totally cool with it. But, he would play us against each other, and eventually that was HIS undoing. She has a tendancy to fall into the trap of "mercy sex" too. In other words, she sometimes is willing to have sex with someone just to make them feel better. I've heard that's an Aquarian thing. What do you think? When we were in New Orleans we were competing with each other in terms of who could be the most rowdy and crazy, and MAN WE HAD THE BEST TIME THERE!!! LOOOOVVVVED IT!! We're SOOO going back. I wouldn't have had as good of a time with ANYONE else, I know it. IP: Logged |
Oxychick
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posted March 10, 2004 11:29 AM
Wow! I'm glad you had such a good time! I have SO much fun with this Leo friend you Leo Sun/Aqua Moon girls make the perfect partners-in-crime for me. LOL I've never dated the same guy as them. But the first girl apparently used to develop crushes on my boyfriends. Until My Gem boyfriend at the time introduced her to his very attractive friend.  She was good to go with that one. My new Leo friend admitted that she develops crushes on her friends' boyfriends sometimes. She's a pretty open person, but we do clash (squared ascendants-we come off as very different people, yet people say we look like sisters). Nope, not a mercy sex person myself. LOL I learned my lesson even kissing a boy I wasn't physically attracted to and felt kind of bad for. I'll never do it again.  Ick. I shudder just thinking about it. Right now, I'm intimate with a very sexy Scorp (both in mind and body-and who has become such a close friend), so intimacy is taking on a whole new meaning for me. I know Aquarians have little trouble separating emotion from sex, so maybe that is how your friend is able to do it. You're right about the Aquarius half-done thing. LOL I used to attribute it to my Gemini Rising (maybe it just magnifies that aspect). This morning I said to my Leo friend "Do you ever just miss things? Do you ever just forget to do things?" She said flatly "Nope." When is your next trip? I am going to Europe in the Fall (with a Sag and a Gemini though)
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lioneye68
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posted March 10, 2004 11:59 AM
Ok, you have to understand that R and I have been inseperable since grade 4, so we were like 9 years old when we met. We went through puberty and the discovering of boys together, so it's really no wonder that we had some of the same crushes, and some of the same boyfreinds, but just not at the same time. (although the Libra would have liked that).
I wish I knew R's ascendant. She attracts an aweful lot of Scorpios, so maybe it's Scorpio. Funny thing, though...she's madly in love right now, more than I've ever seen her be, I mean to a point where she's actually taking a new look at the idea of marriage, and guess what sign this guy is?? If you guess LEO, you're absolutely correct. We plan to go back to New Orleans next February, for Mardi Gras again. We had the greatest time ever. The reason we both had such a blast is because we're never judgemental and critical of each other...we love to see each other get crazy and have a blast. We both get a kick out of saying really shocking things to guys who are trying to pick us up. Man, we just crack each other up! I'm probably the more assertive one, and she's the more freindly one. She's the one who strikes up friendly conversations with complete strangers, and I'm the one who weeds out the riff-raff. We're a great team! IP: Logged |
Oxychick
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posted March 10, 2004 08:47 PM
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The reason we both had such a blast is because we're never judgemental and critical of each other...we love to see each other get crazy and have a blast.
EXACTLY!! I couldn't have said it better. It's easy to be yourself when the next guy isn't judging you. This one does have a Virgo Asc. though (and Mars/Venus/Merc in Virgo)...and can be QUITE the nit-picky critic, but never judgemental. And the Leo Sun/Aqua Moon girls I've known were definitely the aggressive ones, while I'm the one who chats with everyone. The Leo/Aquarius mix is a very friendly/charismatic one, but I think fire suns are just naturally more aggressive. I'm sure you and your friend experience this-but she and I get hit on everywhere we go. That's not to sound conceited, I think perhaps it's partly because we're attractive, but also because we're just very friendly/outgoing. And we smile a lot. Same thing happens with my other Aqua Sun/Leo Moon (Sag Rising) friend, only she and I are not competitive. We naturally empathize with one another (and look even more alike). Spooky. Anyhoo...thanks for sharing! It's good for me to gain the perspective of the Leo Sun. If you don;t mind me asking, where would you say the problem areas lie in your friendship? IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted March 11, 2004 02:46 PM
Hmm. Problem areas? Gosh, I have to really think about it to come up with any problem areas. We've been friends for so long that we've learned to just 'flow' around each others personal barriers. I guess if I had to pick something, I'd have to say the way we handle our money. She's alot looser with hers than I am with mine, and she sometimes gets frustrated when I'm a party pooper about money. I get equally frustrated with her when she's being silly with her money, but she doesn't care. It's her money, and she'll throw it around as she sees fit. She just knows not to expect me to follow suit. Sometimes she'll imagine that I owe her money, or that I took some of her money. I don't know why she does that. I think she's just trying to extract some from me in an attempt to recoup some of the money she carelessly blew. She knows that if there's any dispute, I'm likely to just cough it up rather than bicker about it. We don't dwell on things like that though. These types of conversations end in like 30 seconds, and never come up again. We're both masters at just "letting things go". Oh yeah, and she thinks I'm kind of a snob. I'm not really, I just can't care about every single human being that crosses my path. When it comes to people, I like to go deep, not wide. IP: Logged | |
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