posted April 05, 2004 07:56 PM              

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I have a question for you scorpios. I was wondering once you guys feel like you have been wronged or have lost trust in someone, can they gain it back?
I was in a relationship with a scorpio and he said that he no longer knew me, and he didn't trust me. He felt like I didn't show him my trust. I do agree there were things I did, that in his book were not right. "In his book". I didn't cheat on him or anything. At first he said he didn't want to talk to me anymore. Then he said we could maybe talk in a couple of months. Do you think he will?
I have decided to write him a letter and try to give it to him. I would not do this for just anyone. I just would hate to lose him in my life completely. You guys are fixed people, and I know you never forget. I don't either. In a couple of months I know he will not have forgotten me, but will he want to let me back in? It might be a hard task. I don't know. I know scorpios trust no one. I don't trust people easily, either. Any advice?
Thanks

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posted April 05, 2004 08:28 PM              

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Sounds like a battle between a air and water.

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posted April 05, 2004 08:31 PM            

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We do forgive, we never forget, but that doesn't mean we won't get over it. But some Scorps won't forgive either. It depends on the Scorp. Usually I find that if they've made a true connection and you haven't betrayed that, then there's usually room for reconciliation - but if we think you betrayed us or screwed us over somehow, forget it. That's just my generic Scorp take on it, without knowing any other aspects, aspects which actually could make all the diff btwn whether they CAN forgive or not.

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posted April 06, 2004 01:27 AM            

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Yes, oddly enough, I do forgive.. most things. Take him on his word. He needs to think on how to forgive and place it, though not forget. If he said he needs a few months, then he hasn't written you out.
I would write him, it is a nice gesture, showing him he is right to trust you.

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posted April 06, 2004 01:55 AM              

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posted April 06, 2004 05:06 PM              

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I hate to say it..but I've never experienced forgiveness from a Scorpio prior to my husband. The last encounter I had with Scorpio anger was with 2 of them. One threatened my life and the other just ripped up an apology letter and left it in my mailbox. Moral of this story: Expect anything and everything

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posted April 06, 2004 05:14 PM              

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Is the moral of the story for Aries? Or for Scorpio's?

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posted April 06, 2004 05:26 PM            

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Probably both

To the Scorps: don't be such hard-@sses ,

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to the Aries': Watch your backs

j/k

LOL

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posted April 06, 2004 05:57 PM              

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I am hoping that he does eventually let me back in. Only time will tell...He does have some goodness in there somewhere. Here's our charts tell me if you think he will forgive and let me in.
Me april 20th 1983 3:30am
Moon in leo
mercury in taurus
mars in taurus
venus in gemini
saturn in scorpio
Him november 14th 1981 12am ?
moon in cancer
mercury in scorpio
mars in virgo
venus in capricorn

Should I walk away? Or have hope? Thanks

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posted April 06, 2004 06:50 PM              

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"Venus is well placed in the sign Gemini (of course this will fluctuate according with the aspects of Venus to the other planets) and harmony is the foundation of this placement. The native must be warned however, that there will be times when his restless pursuit of variety will disrupt this harmony. There is a strong indication that one love will not be enough and he must be cautious not to let these desires destroy his happiness. There is also the tendency to pursue a religious or philosophical love life rather than the sensual or worldly."

"VENUS IN CAPRICORN

The native possesses an ambitious love of nature. He is very careful of his honor. He is easily attracted to different people, strange characters and those of doubtful reputations. He should be advised that such associates may have an adverse effect on his character. If he is careful he may gain fame and distinction through the skillful use of his affections.

This desire intensifies the ambition and desire for fine surroundings although there is sometimes a timidity in love and a reserve in the expression of feelings. The combination aids the expressions of the practical, thoughtful and ambitious side of nature. There is a strong degree of affectionate faithfulness and this will not be broken easily. The earlier part of life will be less satisfactory from the affectionate standpoint."

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posted April 07, 2004 12:28 PM              

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Isis...ya its both LOL. I bet Karma was biting me in the butt yesterday for my comments I ended up getting into a rather heated argument with my Scorpio husband LOL. I hate being an aries sometimes. I just can't keep my trap shut. Okay enough self-Loathing...I'm done.

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posted April 09, 2004 08:29 PM              

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Thanks for the comments. That interpretation on venus in our planets is great astrojunkie, I have not seen those comments yet. I still don't know what will happen. Crazyaries I too wish I could keep that mouth of mine shut at times as well...ESPECIALLY with a scorpio! It would have saved me a lot of heartache. I'm still not sure if he will let me in again...That venus in Gemini has got me into a lot of trouble with his Venus in capricorn. IF he does forgive me, it might not be for a while. Agree?

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posted April 09, 2004 10:30 PM              

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You guys may have to agree to disagree if he doesn't. You are very different when it comes to your style of love. You can't change yourself completely for someone else.

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