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Topic: Cancer Man
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geminigurl
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posted May 20, 2004 01:21 PM
 
I am a gemini with my venus and mars in cancer and I really like a cancer man....He is almost 28 and I am almost 32. He is single and no kids and I am divorced twice with three kids....It's hard to tell how he feels. He is so secretive..What shall I do?------------------
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posted May 20, 2004 01:24 PM
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astro junkie
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posted May 20, 2004 02:18 PM
Gemini -Here again, I'm an Air sign with a Cancer Moon, and I've been out with a few Cancers. My last 3 relationships had Mars in Cancer, which makes them relunctant to reveal their motivations. You are a Gemini and require lots of communication. Can you deal with a guy who is not expressive for the rest of your life? Unless he's being this way because he's really crazy about you, or else, try to pull back a little if you think you may get hurt. .gloria IP: Logged |
FireMeetsWater
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posted May 20, 2004 03:35 PM
Run away and never return.IP: Logged |
geminigurl
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posted May 20, 2004 04:19 PM
Fire why do you say that? Gloria, I have a pisces moon. I don't know his birth time.. He has revealed small things, like a picture of the two of us he put in his notebook and carries with him to the gym. Underneath the picture he wrote "A new beginning" . He tells me I am hard to read also....Also last night he says that he got some of my purfume on him and said he could smell me...He likes my perfume IP: Logged |
pidaua
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From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 20, 2004 04:28 PM
Firemeetswater..LOL...I like that one.Geminigurl, Well, I think you have gotten some good advice. Cancer men seem to come in two forms (don't we all) the evolved and the unevolved. Now, every relationship can work regardless of the two sun signs ( you do need to look at other aspects in the chart). What you need to know about you Cancer man is if he is one of the men that seek a momma or one of those men that want to treat you like crap because they didn't have a great relationship with their momma. I have known both types. I am your polar opposite, a Sag lady that likes her freedom and I did date a Cancer man briefly - very very briefly, although we are still friends. He was just very "him" oriented and wanted a woman to be like a mommy to take care of him. The other one actually married a much older woman - very similar to his mom - then tried to pick up women on the side - I don't go for the side thing. He had terrible issues with his mother that he took out on his wife. The guy I knew would call me and talk for 30 minutes without even asking how I was or how life was going. It was all about him. He wanted someone - preferably a female to just wait on him. If you are the type of Gemini that needs her freedom, communication and spiritual outlet (pisces moon) then you may want to just consider Mr. Cancer a friend until he is more forthright. IP: Logged |
geminigurl
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posted May 20, 2004 04:43 PM
Hey Piadua,He has a good relationship with his Mom. He does a lot for her.... He always asks me about my day, how I am doing etc. He seems to be a very caring person. We don't talk a lot about us or if there is an us, but we do talk for hours when we do get together about anything and everything. I think I disrupt his routine because he is a homebody and I keep him up late and out late. IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted May 20, 2004 04:48 PM
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pixelpixie
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From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 20, 2004 06:41 PM
Geminigurl~
You seem to feel he is good for you, and with your Pisces moon, you would probably understand him/his motivations better than a fire sign would for instance. So, go with your gut. He seems to have many facets, and with a good foundation with his mommy, it's all good. He need not be typical of the negativity associated with Cancers. I find Cancers to have a great goofy sense of humour for the most part, so your Gemini Sun would dig that. He's probably good with children. Interesting and sentimental (sensitive) with the photo and 'new beginnings' caption...
As in anything, take it slow, look out for both good and bad signs and potentialities, and see how it goes. And worm out his birthtime... say... "I was born at ____, so that makes me a night person, I think... when were you born?"IP: Logged |
gemini girl
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posted May 21, 2004 04:35 AM
hi i cant believe this although im still bedazzled by the leo guy i wanted to post a topic on cancer men cause im at the moment in a play and the guy that plays the main role is a cancer at the beginning last year i had a bit of a crush on him but then i fell in love with his brother i didnt know it was his brother and my appartment looks right into their room its a long story and i g2g but he never spoke to me although he's a year older than me he also goes to the same art classes ... tues. he came to visit me ill contin. the story cause i have a few questions but 4 now i g2gIP: Logged |
gemini girl
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posted May 21, 2004 06:12 AM
ok anyway he came to visit me and the conversations was based on question usually im the one that asks the questions but i still cant figure out why he came and spoke to me are cancerians curious people ill find out his birth date and stuff tonight but im not sure how to approach him cause ever since we spoke if we're together in a room he disappears i dont know how he does it and he acts all cool but some girls say that he's gay and others thinks he's way to full of himself ??? confusing but i think his just very much into culture he plays piano and has a beautiful voice anyway i just want tips on how to catch his eye but not make it seem like im interestedIP: Logged |
gemini girl
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posted May 21, 2004 06:14 AM
by the way my mars=cancer and venus taurusIP: Logged |
Total Pieces
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posted May 21, 2004 01:27 PM
Hello Gemini Girl,My advice to you is the same as what I said in the Leo post. Just be yourself. The right connection will happen. The last thing you should want to do is mold yourself into something that you are not to attact a guy and then find that he is not what you want or you do like him but the pretense it too much trouble to keep up. Be yourself...stars incline they do not compel... Gemini Gurl-
I had a 6 year realtiohsip with a Cancer Man. Wonderful but a bit whiny. He wasn't moody but I think that was because we could laugh together easily. I think that we were a good match but I could see where his other girlfriends would have had problems, that being said we are not together anymore. I not saying that I would not date a Cancer but I would...pause (that is to say I wouldn't not date anyone because of their sign although Fish and Scorp men for me seem to be soo difficult that I would definately be more on guard than usual...not that anyone has asked who I would date  )
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pixelpixie
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posted May 22, 2004 12:14 AM
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astro junkie
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posted May 22, 2004 02:39 AM
Hello :: LibraI have Moon in Cancer and Cancer & Pisces men make me loony in the same way. IP: Logged |
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