posted June 15, 2004 01:31 PM              

So I couldn't find the thread either...

Here's the info - hope whoever I was chatting with finds this and posts back. Anyone else too, feel free...

"Moon in opposition with Saturn.

You don't have much faith in people seeing what is good about you on first meeting. You want to do something for them, somehow show them by action and work what you are really about. You are never a lightweight, for you take feelings very seriously. Sometimes you can't help but be a party-pooper. You won't just let your feelings out without examining them. Contact with others may have the effect of putting them in touch with their more serious side. Some may see you as religious or meditative."

And for the record, my Moon is in Cancer 26.01 degrees, my Saturn is in Capricorn at 23.16 degrees.

posted June 16, 2004 07:10 PM              

But women jealous is something I've never heard. I'm TOTALLY not that type of girl who's ever gone around thinking people must be jealous, (in order to deflect from their faults)... however, with regard to issues of someone being jealous of me, I'm like the last to know! I've literally noticed that coming from a woman maybe 5 times in my whole life. It takes like a frying pan to hit me over the head before I realize it, but when I do, it fills me with such incredible sadness.

I'm not even a competitive type when it comes to like anything "female", so even then, I wouldn't have the excuse.

Do you happen to know WHY this particular aspect might do this?

Like your friend, I'm a Libra too.

Thanks.

posted June 16, 2004 11:37 PM              

I've said this before, but I CAN come off flirty in very subtle ways, but I'm TOTALLY NOT doing it on purpose. There's nothing about a man admiring my body in that way which would boost my self-esteem. I'm very much into matters of the mind, intelligent conversations, and WANTING to make friends, whether male or female.

I went through a phase where for a few years, I tried to control it, but I couldn't. It's an integral part of my sincerity, honesty and communication. I mean, I've made it loud and clear that I'm a total social retard, so I would be the last to think I was making as much of an impression on ANYONE as I guess those "insecure" women give me credit for. I'm basically a loner, and a bit of a hermit, although most people upon meeting me think I'm the complete opposite.

But how does the Cancer Moon Opp Capricorn Saturn come into play?

posted June 17, 2004 04:43 AM              

My Libra Sun is in the 5th, which may add to that sense that I've got my black book and schedule completely full all the time. Not so. I'm more like the above interpretation on the Moon/Saturn opposition. Like when I meet a new guy, within the first 5 minutes, it never fails... they're like, "I can't believe you don't have a boyfriend." Or, "I can't believe you've never been married, a nice beautiful woman like you?" But they'll say it like I'm lying. Needless to say, bringing up the fact that I'm still single only makes me want to bang my head against the wall, having SO MANY people ask me that!

And I'm sorry for being so dense regarding this, but are you saying that the opposition somehow gives off an aire of "potential trouble on two legs"?

Is it more because those two signs are in their "home"? Or more because of the opposition?

posted June 17, 2004 09:06 AM              

This may be part of why I've confused people/guys. There's these two sides to me which are more in focus now. The decisive, articulate perfectionist (my Scorpio, Capricorn, Leo influences), and then the passive baby who wants to be of service, do good, and be acknowledged (my Cancer, Virgo, Pisces influences).

I've seen other women with these same facets with no social or romantic struggles, and I wonder, what is SHE doing that I'm not kind of thing. And no matter how much my naturally perceptive mind would go crazy trying to figure it out, I would never get any semblance of the truth. No substantial answer.

Even if I asked other people, they have no way to explain it.

But now it makes sense because I didn't realize how that Can/Cap influence made me appear to others. I didn't realize how strong.

No wonder I'm like a little universe onto myself.

LaLa - you have shown light on something incredibly significant for me. Thank you millions...

.gloria

posted June 17, 2004 07:42 PM              

Since when I was younger, I was quite moody (Cancer Mooon plus unknown allergies to certain foods), when the stress between the Can/Cap Opp gave way, I had to rely on the work done in the Scorpio realm in order to avoid a "blind spot" Aries in the 12th House DISASTER.