posted August 02, 2004 01:40 AM            

She probably has surprised you at times with what you might think rapid changes in direction and you may have a hard time trying to figure her out. She likes it that way

Come on too strong with someone who is strong Aquarius and they usually react one of two ways, either run when they feel pressure or push you away. I think this Leo Sun, Taurus Mars woman will push you away...hard when or if you try to get too close emotionally, too fast.

Is she working on something that's important to her right now? Something a relationship might interfere with?

posted August 02, 2004 02:23 AM              

i want to just get rid of her. she has old ideologies and cheap means to get her things done. she wants to dominate people a dn says from now itself that me and my bros' wife wll have to do exactly what she says. as a double sag its impossible for me to accept this stupidity and indian **** . she is my mother. real mother yet she is worse than a b***h!my double aries father is completey frustrated and my double leo brother manages it somehow. her biggest target is me who has survved so long but can't take her anymore

for one thing...she has a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig mouth. which she uses for easy offence.

posted August 02, 2004 02:49 AM              

I bet we would see you posting something positive then. I would really like to see you get a grip, as all that naturally exuberant and happy Sag is going to waste.

posted August 02, 2004 03:05 AM              

yesterday she actually called her self queen. she said, " offcourse i'm the queen of our house, who else?" irritating isn't it.

as u said that 'm in college and can move but that cncept is non existent in idnia/ the unemployement is on such a large scale that even college grads don't get job. undergrads are out of question. i did get a job of 11 grands a month at a call centre but i couldn't keep my ass there. actually depression was big time then.

moving out is quite some years now. and she will have all her dramas before we move casue as i said she wants to live with me and have her dominanating mother in law drama over my wife. besides rent is high in my city, mumbai.

i hope for the best for both of us. and hope things get well soon. her stupidity is becuase of he lack of education and workign women experience.she is a house wife after all. and add to it her recent menopause which casue her psychiatric problems. plus my double aries dad who is more of an outsides friendly then fmaily friendly.

anyway, here i'm not complaining about life. i accept it the way it is. but i just wanted to have an insight into her. who has the most powerful chart of the four....

me http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3;btyp=w2gw;cid=k0cfileMy1vnA-u1064484025&nhor=1[/ URL]

my dad [URL=http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3&btyp=w2gw&cid=k0cfileMy1vnA-u1064484025&nhor=2&go.x=22&go.y=2]http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3&btyp=w2gw&cid=k0cfileMy1vnA-u1064 484025&nhor=2&go.x=22&go.y=2

my mom http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?go.x=22&rs=3&btyp=w2gw& cid=k0cfileMy1vnA-u1064484025&go.y=2&nhor=3&go.x=22&go.y=8

my brother http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?go.x=22;go.x=22;rs=3;btyp=w2gw;cid=k0cfileMy1vnA-u1064484025;go.y=2;go.y=8&nhor=10

it jus to know as to who is a moer powerful force in our family and not for anykind of power struggle.

posted August 02, 2004 06:41 AM              

You know?

And I'm not sure if that's a cultural thing or what, but that mindset is not healthy.

posted August 02, 2004 06:55 AM              

What the hell happened to her? Something so painfully isolating she feels totally alone. Whatever this is it's affected her identity.

Looks like this is the source of her troubles.

posted August 02, 2004 09:13 AM            

The fact she's your mother and you're living in her house is all the more reason she will impose her rules, rules you will observe or there will be trouble.

"Mars in Taurus" 4th House
She is sometimes choleric, loud and demanding. She is masterful, dominates and imposes herself forcefully. She carries on to the end of a goal and undertakes every action with a strong will and enthusiasm. She is tenacious and stubborn.

posted August 02, 2004 09:45 AM              

this women has a lot of poetntial applied in the wrong direction. had she just been educated things would had been sooo different. anyway she feeds me. i rely on her. so its me who go to adjust.

but hope seperation is not miles away considering i'm 21.

anyway, i still ask, who do u think will have a more powerful influence in my family once my bro grows up. i think my bro will cause he is a double leo.

posted August 02, 2004 09:52 AM            

In my house, I am the Queen. In her house, she is the Queen.

To be uneducated and to be stupid are two entirely different things. Your mother, housewife or not, does not sound like a stupid woman. But you have not demonstrated great intelligence or sensitivity to me. Perhaps you are much like the mother you describe?

Do you contribute to the family funds? Do you pay bills in your family? Do you wash your own dishes? Do you wash your own underwear? Do you prepare the meals? Buy toilet paper? No, I'll bet those things are always there for you.

You argue for your own limitations, rather than reaching for possibilities.

It's reprehensible to speak of your mother in such a way. She is not a prostitute...she is a married woman who maintains her household. But a child who accepts the gifts and finances of his family with only the ungrateful thing to say in return...now what does that make him?

posted August 02, 2004 12:18 PM              

Anyway, so archer's parents are not going to act the way they would with him around me, but they seemed to be okay. Personally, if I was going around doing and saying the same things he is, I would have been kicked out of the house in a heartbeat.

Archer is a perennial complainer. He is ffing 21 and a baby. I don't know if he's spoiled because he doesn't have a ps2, but there is certainly something wrong with him. I've told him so many damn times, if you really don't like it then move away. He supposedly came up with a plan to move away where his father sends him money every month, and his mother opposed that. I can't believe his father was even considering it. If I was his father, I would smack upside his head.

posted August 02, 2004 02:01 PM              

That's exactly what happened to me....... .....and way before I was 21!!

posted August 02, 2004 02:57 PM              

Archer, I don't know you, and I don't know your family, so I will refrain from making any judgements, but here is my opinion.

I may not be Indian by nationality, but I am Indian by ethnicity, and so I know and understand Indian culture.

It seems to me that you expect your mother to be submissive in how she is IN HER OWN HOUSE!!! That is, in a word, absolutely retarded. I am sure that your tuition and other expenses have been paid for (and are probably still being paid for) by your parents, because that's how we Indians do . Your father may be the breadwinner of the family, especially if yours is a traditional Indian household, but ask yourself, who is your father's significant other? your MOTHER! She works as hard if not harder than him, making sure that all your needs for comfort are met, making sure that you have a nice home for you to come back to. It's as much her money as it is his, as much her house as it is his. So, not only have you been enjoying comfort under her roof for your entire life, but you have also been EDUCATED with HER money. When you mention moving out, it seems that you STILL expect to be supported by your parent's money! And after all that, you have the nerve to complain about her and insult her.
If yours is one of those Indian houses where males expect to be the top honchos in every aspect of domesticity and have complete control over the females in the house, then I really wonder who the 'backward' ones are and who is full of the 'stupidity and indian **** ' as you put it. From what thegoat said, it seems that YOU are the ones who are trying to dominate HER. Can you blame her for trying to assert herself?
Hey, it may very well be that she IS as horrible as you seem to think she is, but you haven't described a single instance where she's displayed such tendencies. You've only shown us how childish your own nature is.

posted August 03, 2004 12:31 AM              

it is that way. and i don't wnat it that way.

posted August 03, 2004 03:33 AM              

I mean, besides her refusal to buy you a PlayStation2?

The story doesn't make sense.

On one hand you feel free to call her B**** and a prostitute under her own roof- which tells me she has no control of her house.