posted August 14, 2004 11:45 AM              

I've been coming across a few synastries with people with my chart, and it get complicated because my Pisces moon's in the 7th house conjunct to my DESC, which no one's been able to "explain" satisfactorily for me. According to popular reads of this configurations, I'm suppose to be incapable of being alone, overly dependant, overly maternal in my relationships and am seeking a mother figure in my life -- this is laughable, I enjoy immensely being alone, I've been accused by therapists of beeing *too* independant, I'm unobtrusive, slighly detached and perhaps a little aloof in relationships, and god, the last thing I want is to be matronized. If one suspects I have issues with my own mother, then yeah - I definitely have issues with her, as well as with *her* issues (having a histronic-borderline mother just isn't the easiest thing to live with). And yes I am looking for my "soul mate."

So when I come across synastry aspects with my moon-DESC I don't know what to think of them. Recently I've had one in which a guy's Sun and NN was conjunct with my DESC, and His Venus, DESC and NN conjunct to my Moon, so we have this stellium of sorts, right over the DESC. Is it's a positive or a negative? All I could dig up is that because his Sun is therefore oppo my ASC, I'm supposedly what he's looking for in a mate, at least on the surface. But nothing about the DESC conjunctions.

posted August 15, 2004 10:24 PM              

I came across one site today that simply said that ASC and DESC aspects could be either helpful or not. LOL, that was it! But basically it seems that ASC/DESC apsects work in a sort opposing/shadowing/mirroring fashion in which there's an attaction (if the aspect is good) to what is complimenary and opposition to you, but there's need for understanding of how the other person isn't like you. I guess that's a start.

posted August 16, 2004 12:18 AM              

I do think those with Junos that aspect your chart will be good lovers to you, but many times they can't commit. So Chiron may be one more factor, along with pesonal planets.

My ex had his Juno aspecting my Moon, Ascendant, Sun, Neptune, and Saturn and he was very sexy but not a great husband.

Now I have found that I prefer to talk to those who have Chiron in Pisces or Chiron in a water house, we have a lot in common as I have Chiron in the 4th in Aries.

posted August 16, 2004 02:14 AM              

My DESC falls in Pisces, and I tend to have hit or miss vibe with other people with Pisces moons. Too much of a good thing I guess But Pisces Sun, definitely. Those are always the deeper, more meaningful and highly intuitive connections, even if I only the know the person briefly. The connection is almost always instant too, except when the person's moon is also in a mutable sign - then there's some adjustments to be made. I always figured that it was because of my moon, but now I am being to realize that my whole Pisces DESC area as being very receptive in that way.