posted September 08, 2004 03:41 PM              

Why is this?

Also has anyone else noticed this?
And if there are any Scorpio moon men here, can you throw some light on this situation? Is this tragic, or friendship?

posted September 08, 2004 07:13 PM              

I'm not into the suspicious Scorpio Mooners. I'm more into the silly, puppy-wuppy man.

posted September 08, 2004 10:38 PM              

Gloria, I know, I like silly puppy men too only they have an 8th house influence somewhere always so I don't mind the moon in scorpio. At least they always tell you the truth in an emotional way. If you ask often enough, that builds trust. Plus the evolved moon in the 8th or scorpio tends to be secure about self worth. Even more than 1st house moons although I attract those too.

However, I do find I have a hard time channeling all my energy into one person if that person does not want to commit to sitting through the bad times. Have you ever noticed how love is sometimes measured by how patient someone is around someone else?

I have worked on this issue in myself pretty hard in the past five years.

posted September 09, 2004 12:07 PM              

I have found Taurus moon men are similar in a lot of ways, very tightly contained, and very much influenced by mother. Although I love how good these men are at giving wise advice, they are not exactly gregarious and social. Unless the living room, tv, and a glass of wine are social.

And the closer you get, the more complicated things become almost as there is a invisible force field that says don't come too close, or I will get very worried, and worried about what? I never know whether or not to be concerned, or just go my own way.

Then I am told I am indifferent, if I get too close I am too emotional,

I can never get it right:<
Do Scorpio/Taurus moon men just want to be left alone, to brood over the past?

posted September 09, 2004 01:17 PM              

You are being very funny lately. This is good. I'm laughing at your post again, so many things you wrote. It's true what you said about Taurus Moon being more willing to be helpful, but they are not gregarious. I think Scorpio has more of a James Bond flair to it. I think James Bond is the quintessential Scorpio male.

And Taurus is more down to earth, like a painting of a landscape.

What you said about not knowing what to do, in a sense, "how to be" with guys who are more difficult to figure out, that's something I feel like I've said until blue in the face. And most people will tell you, to - just be yourself.

My Virgo & 6th House influences understands, like our Cancer Moons, what it is like to be ready to be of service to someone. I've had quite a bit of therapy on this, so, the best advice I can give you on that is to meditate on Uranus' energy. Or read about female Gemini's. Maybe there is energy inside of you which is ready to bloom into something new, and you are resisting.

Maybe this new aspect of you will help you be more at peace with yourself. That's the most important thing you know...

posted September 09, 2004 04:04 PM              

It is of course the very lesson that the particular placement is setting upon us. But I see it more as a challenge to reign in that power and bend it to our will.

This may be what you actually meant, but I suspect you were thinking along the lines of just blunting his emotional reactions to external stimuli. If so, it kind of misses the point of what he actually is.

Besides, who says it isn't everyone else who should become more in tune with their emotions and become involved with the Universe on the very deepest of levels. Which is what such a Water placement will
do.

After all, Water is the last sign, the finishing touch to our perception of the world and the Soul's wisdom. Surely, not something to be brushed under the carpet?

posted September 12, 2004 07:05 PM              

Please. There is no need to be that defensive here. We're just trying to understand each other's views and come to a conclusion here. My Cancer Moon has taught me enough about life, without having to add my Pisces Chiron. It is true and factual what you say, there is an extremely low tolerance for sensitivity, sometimes.

I didn't even realize the true power it gave me, as well as having over me, until I read this beautifully written, sort of psychology book called "The Highly Sensitive Person - How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You", by Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D. It's an easy read.

WhiteRabbit -

Try asking yourself what about you attracted this person to you, and if you already have, what did you say back to yourself?