posted September 12, 2004 04:19 PM            

here's my littlest bro's birth info...he's been the worst clash with my mom:
JT( m ), 16 March 1995 at 0:35 in Boise, ID (US)

here's mom's info:
Mom ( f ), 7 November 1946 at 16:04 in Detroit, MI (US)

here's my other little bro's info...he's just plain stubborn and defiant:
K ( m ), 22 December 1991 at 8:02 in Wilmington, NC (US)

PLEASE let me know if there's something planetary causing all this clashing Chaos...if it doens't let up, I will either cause everyone to die in their sleep or move several thousand miles away. I'm so desparate right now

posted September 12, 2004 05:59 PM              

They've driven me to be crazy too.

I think everyone's family is crazy and drives them nuts.

posted September 12, 2004 07:12 PM              

I know how crazy you must feel about that sense of chaos, but it is really only your perception. If you find that you are not able to fully flourish in that environment, then it is time to grow up and flourish in your own environment.

If you're not old enough to do that, or if finances make it impossible, try to call a family meeting, and turn it into a game if the idea is not welcome. Like, the winner gets the most pennies, or something. Since you've gotten to this point, it's obvious that your primary needs are not being met, and those are the only ones you must make very clear, need to be respected. Show them examples of how you want to be treated with respect to what your primary needs are.

posted September 12, 2004 11:08 PM            

juniperb

posted September 12, 2004 11:18 PM              

My family is choas to. they drive me absolutly bonkers. My computer has become my saviour. Loud music pumping through headphones and losts of my friend online that I can complaine to.

That way you cant hear them yelling at each other, and you have something to do at the same time.

I tried all the other stuff mentioned, it didn't work, they saw it as if I wasn't meting their needs, because they are so stubborn.

I cant wait to get out, only a year to go.

posted September 23, 2004 07:58 AM            

Yes, I had an okay b-day...haven't had cake and everything yet, but soon. real soon.

According to astro.com for my chart-
Pluto Square Sun
activity period from end of January 2003 until middle of November 2004.

I'm not exactly sure the effect, aside from supposed 'power struggles', that the above aspect creates.
Let's see Natasha....about the Gemmy, well, if you got a chance to read my other recent post, I found out that his mom had e-mailed my mom asking for our phone number cause Tony wanted to call me. Mom e-mailed back with the number, and I heard nothing more, That was August 19th.
About a week ago, I sent him a small packet of car posters I got at a classic car cruise I attended, along with a brief one page letter, just filling him in a little on my life and asking about his. I also, not so subtlely, wrote a "P.S." and included our phone number.
I really miss hearing from him, but am planning to let him know my new cell number, in case he wants to text message...I don't know if I sound crazy or not, but I really want to keep things low-key for a while, give him a bit of space (so maybe I shouldn't tell him my cell #?), as I don't want him to feel trapped in.
I think of him often, always with affection.

Nope, no Libras I could room with, as the only one I know is still in highschool and she's living at home of course.