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Topic: my scorpio
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blue flame unregistered
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posted October 12, 2004 02:53 PM
so - he's back and is back with much pain and loss in his life...after a month and a half of not communicating...his sister passed away and i nervously reached out to him...he painfully reached back to me...it took me a week to call him back...nervous nervous nervous...ever walking eggshells of uncertainty...i think i can be a great friend for him...i want to be non offensive and non aggressive in my attentions to him...any suggestions for a virgo female helping out a mourning scorpio male??? IP: Logged |
noreenz unregistered
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posted October 12, 2004 05:25 PM
boy, do I ever feel your pain. You have no idea. I think as Virgos we want to so much be there for them, Knowing that we could help, but those dang eggshells of uncertainty! Jwhop or Ozone posted awhile ago on the topic of Scorpio males and did a really good job, I'll see if I can find his post. Or maybe you can summons him (I honestly can't remember which one is Scorp.) Pix may be able to shed some light. IP: Logged |
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posted October 13, 2004 02:45 PM
thanks ~ it seems that the lighter i tread the more he comes near...yet at the same time, the lighter i tread, the further away from his heart i feel i become... i know he knows that i'm here for him...i suppose that is all that need be said... damn confusing scorpios!!! they're almost as contradictory and confusing as us virgos!IP: Logged |
Wordweaver unregistered
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posted October 13, 2004 08:20 PM
Hmmm . . . I don't know your chart, so I may be out of line but . . . My advice is to be there for him without supplying any input unless he asks for it. Tough for a Virgo, isn't it? LOL He may just be looking for a shoulder to cry on, so to speak. Just don't let him cry you into bed if that isn't what you want. He IS a Scorpio, after all.------------------ Sun-Scorp Moon-Libra ASC-Virgo Merc-Scorp Venus-Virgo Mars-Cap IP: Logged |
whiterabbit Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted October 13, 2004 08:23 PM
hey, nothing wrong with a little "sexual healing"..... IP: Logged |
blue flame unregistered
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posted October 14, 2004 01:54 PM
thank you for your feedback...i think you're right on...my basic info: sun - virgo moon - gemini asc - libra
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blue flame unregistered
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posted October 20, 2004 11:42 AM
so . . . after my last post, last night (technically this morning) he called... he couldn't sleep and kept apologizing for calling me...kept apologizing for waking me...kept trying to say something that he couldn't say...i told him he was welcome to come over for a movie in bed and smoke to help him sleep...he came over...he brought my birthday present from sept. 1st (exotic essential oils from italy ;})along with a really nice bottle of wine (for whenever) and we watched part of the movie... snuggled a while - decided not to go there with the "sexual healing" - he let me sleep wrapped up around him all night long - i awoke to find myself still wrapped around him - ahh... my beautiful scorpio man sleeping sweetly in my bed... i still tread carefully...his birthday is on sunday.... i've got it bad,,,,,,, IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 20, 2004 12:35 PM
Sounds delightful.IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted October 20, 2004 03:05 PM
Mmmmmmmm ...IP: Logged |
LeylaLeFay unregistered
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posted October 21, 2004 06:45 AM
Are you looking to get married? It is very common that when a man loses a female figure in this life he immedialty wants to fill the void with another female figure. I've seen this time and time again. A wedding gives something to celebrate and renewed hope for the future. Psychologically it says "life goes on." A childhood friend of mine had been dating a man for many years who finally proposed after the loss of his sister. Also it was a way for his parents to "gain a new daughter." This is true even for hardened bachelors. Remember how quickly JFK Jr. got married after Jackie O died? This also works on women. A double-gemini friend of mine whom no man could tame turned down proposal after proposal. Then her father died and she settled down right away. All I'm saying is: Don't be surprised if Mr. Scorpio pops the question. (Give him some time to heal first of course) IP: Logged |
blue flame unregistered
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posted October 22, 2004 11:42 AM
wowzers!!! that's an interesting suggestion... duh duh duh .... *i can't say that i would deny that opportunity ;}* i realize that i'm crazy in love with him...
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