posted October 12, 2004 09:52 PM              

Girl - I've been through every flood, tsunami, hurricane and tornado

posted October 12, 2004 11:34 PM              

It's not always easy to be friends with your significant other.

Can you afford to get an apartment near the Taurus so you have your own place? If he is that into you, he will accept that and help you decorate. Not to defend him, but Taurean types can be really, really bossy towards their significant others, smothering them with attention. They can't really change.

He most likely wants to be involved in your life, and to be honest most people are bossier than Virgos. Virgos are known for being softer, and kinder than Taurus. I like Virgos for that reason, he probably just thinks he's right about everything.

Tell him, that gratitude gets you into heaven, and he has to start acting grateful for your love.

Taurus really needs to understand the small things in life, and not rush into decisions, if you telll him about your doubts in a firm, and straightforward manner, he will listen.

However, you have to decide what you want on your own without asking him what to do, that's setting him up to be bossy, since he thinks that's what you want.

Why not look at apartments near him, and if you don't have a job yet, encourage him to help you find one. That's not controlling, that's helping you support yourself. Anything a man does, to help you find work to support yourself is not controlling, even though it may feel smothering, sometimes we all need help.

Self reliance is not for everyone, all the time. Whoever said we had to go it on our own was wrong, but there is a compromise. Do what you want with his help, instead of questioning him, question what the world has to offer you, and let him work at getting it for you.

Taurus types like to do things, if they can't get out there and do a project, no matter how difficult, they get bored and then they get criticial.
If the Taurus is busy with a project such as finding a home for you, or a bigger home for both of you and figuring out what you are doing for work, it doesn't mean you have to accept what he does, by the time he starts working on a project, you may know what you want.

The Taurus is a bull, and the bull has to run, don't let him run over you, tell him what to do.

posted October 13, 2004 02:37 AM              

Anyway, I actually misinterpreted the stuff in the upsetting conversation I had with him last night, the things I thought he was being selfish with. It seemed like he didn't even want me to work when I lived with him, and I told him it seemed like that, and he was upset I thought that haha! But he makes me feel like I'm special . He always has, which I'm missing with everyone else in my life.

It's funny you mention getting an apartment near him, and he mentioned that himself! That if I couldn't stand him or things didn't work out, he'd help me find an apartment nearby and make sure I'm happy.

And that is so on about Taurus and projects. Even though I didn't ask him to, a month ago he was checking out to see what cars I'd be able to afford AND have better gas mileage than what I have now, because he knows I like driving for pleasure! I was so surprised, it was awesome.