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Topic: Calling all Aries experts...
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sweetlibra
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posted October 23, 2004 12:22 AM
 
Here's my boyfriend(Aries) who behaves very strange at times...When i phone him daily he says i am disturbing him & he cant concentrate in his work.When i dont call him for a few days he gets angry & says i dont need him at all..!i know this is a tight rope walk but i wish to strike a balance.The same guy who says in the morning he doesnt need me & in the evening he's the nicest guy in the world..! I love this guy very much but at times he looks very selfish..i mean he just thinks about his feelings& not mine.. Any comments on what makes an aries happy? is it money or love ? when they say i dont need you do they really mean it or is it just being angry?? all these problems started when we had to stay at different places coz of career constraints,while we were together it seemed heaven is on earth 
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pixelpixie
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posted October 23, 2004 02:19 AM
I'm willing to bet it has more to do with his chart as a whole, along with your chart, of course, and how they interact, as well as conditioning and circumstances, of course(that goes without saying)Rather than just his Sun sign.
You are also opposed each other.. that might be felt as well, as a conflicting sense of each other.. you don't truly know if you are 'seen'.....
It's true that Aries are selfishly driven , but most are not selfish all the time.. and it is not a malicious thing.... They are mostly very giving people.How about this... if you must call him at work, phone only once every two days.. only at lunch. Remember, Cardnal sign, like you... you take work seriously. IP: Logged |
purple_scorp
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posted October 23, 2004 05:51 AM
Hello sweetlibra and welcome to Lindaland.Sorry to ask the obvious but have you actually just fessed up to him and said, "hey, I'm confused - would you like me to ring you at work and if so, what day/time would suit you?" I understand that you might want to keep the balance and all but he will probably like that you've asked for his opinion. Just a thought, purple_scorp oh, edited to add, I have an Aries moon. IP: Logged |
trillian
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posted October 23, 2004 09:27 AM
I'm Sun, Venus and Mercury all in Aries.
If I care for someone, I call when I say I will call, and I lavish the object of my affection with attention, gifts, etc.With or without astrology, it is easy to see that he does not value you the way you should be valued. His behavior is rude and cruel and indefensible. It's up to you to let him know it's also not acceptable. We all have problems, but those problems do not excuse us from treating those we love with respect. I'm convinced we all need to read the book He's Just Not That Into You and have that slogan tattooed on our butts.  Good luck.
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sthenri
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posted October 23, 2004 10:36 AM
Yes, he sounds very touchy about his feelings, but he needs to get over it. We all have to talk about what's really bothering us eventually.Ask him to level with you and let it all out. What's really the issue? If he doesn't want to be honest with you, that's unfair and it can't continue. Aries is normally pretty honest when asked, but they don't like to shy away once they get started. Does he have Venus in Pisces? Natasha
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ariestiger
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posted October 23, 2004 11:27 AM
Hmmm, I'm an Aries with Venus in Pisces. It can make us a bit changeable and possibly inconstant in our moods. We like to feel loved, but at the same time we need space. It's not that we don't care for our partner, it's just that we like to focus single-mindedly on the task in hand.
I think Pixelpixie's advice is good. It will enable him to feel "wanted" without feeling that your attention is "too much".
Who knows, he might even start calling you, if he doesn't already!
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Aphrodite
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posted October 23, 2004 03:07 PM
Hi SweetLibra,I work very closely with an Aries Man at work. The communication that seems to work the best between us - and the one I choose to do - is being random, interested when I want to be, and disinterested when he is in a foul mood. I always communicate when the subject is extremely important and get "in his face," even when he is busy. Aries people are sensitive to body language and react quickly to momentary changes. If you are truthful with your approaches, I'm sure he'll give you credit for it - even if he doesn't like whatever it is you are conveying. Hope this makes sense Sorry if it sounds chaotic. To answer your questions from an Aries Sun perspective: .. Any comments on what makes an aries happy? Gosh, a lot of things! I think excitement and adventure tops the list. is it money or love ? That's a toughy. Neither can happily survive on its own in today's world. when they say i dont need you do they really mean it or is it just being angry?? Eh, I've said stuff like this before . . . and I really meant it. This depends entirely on what the context of the moment is . . . Cheers, Aphrodite IP: Logged | |
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