posted October 27, 2004 05:23 PM
While Gem-Pis pairing are often good and can be a wonderful learning experience for both, and in some cases real, true soulmate connection occur. But this does have some red flags that I think you should be concerned about. With that many aspects (and so many harsh ones), you may have a hard time with: 1) realizing when there's a serious problem to attend because so much tense activity between you seems like the norm and you're used to it,
2) knowing exactly where the problem really lies, and
3) with two mutable Suns, all the activity might quickly burn one or both out.
While there are defeintiely good contacts (although mostly trines - there aren't any big conjunctions to speak of, and those sextiles are weak and can't overcome squares or oppositions), it's these squares you need to look out for:
- You've got mutual squaring of each other's Suns with each other's Mercurys. Serious communication problems. You'll definitely have to work on this.
- Your sun squaring his Venus - different ideas, needs and goals for the relationship might cause problems down the line.
- Your Sun squaring his Neptune - you may find his utterly romantic and irresisitable, but you may also unknowingly cling to an unrealistic image of him in your mind that might block you from seeing reality about him and the relationship. You may have serious problem "hearing" when he's trying to get a point across to you, especially if you don't want to hear it (doubly a problem I suspect, with those Sun-Merc squares ina ddition to this square).
And this opposition (huge red flag):
- His Mars opposing your Uranus - could spark serious sexual heat, but is very unstable and could turn negative at any moment. I'm only 6 days younger than this guy, and can tell you upfront that 6th house cusp Aqua Mars placement with that Virgo Pluto (which is what I have too) is a ***** and half. VERY argumentive and will burn bridges and slaughter innocents to stand up to principles. If you start being possessive (especially with a Pisces Sun./Cap moon) or try to change him, manipulate him or push him into a corner he doesn't want to be, that Mars will go on the war path to fight for his space, liberty or simply to prove he is right. And it won't be pretty. I not saying this to scare you, but to put you in the know. I personally wouldn't push my luck with another person with this same Mars placement because I know what it's really like in full battle mode, and chances are you don't even see a hint of that on his friendly Gemini surface.
So all and all, I can't say this is the greatest synastry between a Gem and Pis I've seen. With those trines, it's easy to see why there's an attraction, but where's there easy attraction doesn't mean there'll be success. You have the same Moon sign, but that's a wiiiide conjunction at best so it's not a strong connection on the inner emotional plane. You don't have the most promising house/angle placements either. This seems like a good relationship to learn, work or accomplish things together, but not necessarily for romance or long-term realtioships. Sorry if that disappoints you, but that's my honest take on it.
Lindaland
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