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Raleigh21
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posted November 01, 2004 04:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey everyone.

I had a quick question. Does anyone know anything about Venus/Uranus conjunctions in birthcharts? I've been in this on-again off-again "relationship" no "involvment" with this guy, and I was reading something about Uranus and its rebellious nature, then I saw that he had Uranus/Venus conjunction in scorpio. Does anyone have this aspect? Or does his moon in Aquarius/Mars in Libra have something to do with this? He also has Aquarius on the descendant.

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astro junkie
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posted November 01, 2004 05:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Uranus Aspecting Venus:

Will attract strange and bizarre lovers, but the stressful aspects go well beyond that. Uranus wants independence, freedom. If a relationship becomes too "normal", it breaks. And Uranus doesnít just leave. It suddenly ejects. Elizabeth Taylor has Venus an Uranus in conjunction in Aries. That sign placement only makes this combination more explosive and unstable.

These stressful aspects between Venus and Uranus are one of the combinations that can cause the blood sugar to fluctuate, and tends towards hypoglycemia. The other combinations are Venus/Saturn and Venus/Pluto. The harmonious aspects usually manage to be unusual and avant garde without being so inconstant."

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chrissymgreen
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posted November 01, 2004 05:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dear raleigh,

my sig. other has venus conjunct uranus in scorpio. i know the sign involved can play a part, but the aspect itself of venus conjuncting uranus generally means that the person will have an aquarian feel to the expression of their venus. they need space & independence, and originality & uniqueness turn them on. they might act a little aloof around people they're interested in. they develop interest quickly and lose interest just as quickly. of course, other aspects that venus makes can modify this...adding in a saturn aspect to venus might just modify that aquarian vibe to it.

hope that helps ya.


chrissy

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sthenri
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posted November 01, 2004 05:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Friends come first, before lovers, watching baseball will always be big. Emotional scenes are a turn off, he can handle a long distance relationship but still likes monogamy.

It's good if you are both friends for a while first, otherwise the venus/uranus person can feel overwhelmed by too many emotional demands. He will not sacrifice for love,
Similar to Venus in Aquarius, or Venus in Cap.

Natasha
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lalalinda
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posted November 01, 2004 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you don't have Venus aspecting Uranus in your Natal, forget about this one, I say this because you'll never be compatible sexually. Squares and oppositions you can work through but conjunctions are a different story. Without an aspect between these two planets you'll find him a little too out there. If you have the aspect, have fun.

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Raleigh21
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posted November 01, 2004 07:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you guys. Were you asking does my venus aspect his conjuction? My venus is in Capricorn, and my Mars squares his conjunction (Is that a good thing?)? What I don't like however is that everytime we have a problem he needs is "space" or he needs "awhile" and that drives me CRAZY!!!! Right now we are "off" and I think that the spacey way he handles things will be what stops us from talking.

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Raleigh21
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posted November 01, 2004 07:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stheri. OH MY GOSH!!! You used the exact world he used when we were decided to stop talking for a while. We were just having some problems and he said that he was "overwhelmed" right now and that he needed a while. I HATE THAT! I like to deal with things NOW! I honestly do not understand his being "overwhelmed" and needed "space" I'll put our birth data just in case someone can tell me why it drives me crazy.

his synastry chart is below. http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=&zod=&lang=&ast=&gm=a1&orbp=&btyp=61&sday=12&syr=2004&mth=gw&cid=qllfile8Ja9ws-u1075488141&hsy=&smon=10&nhor=2&nho2=1&go.x=9&go.y=7

here's the link to mines: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=&ast=&gm=a1&btyp=61&sday=12&syr=2004&go.x=9&zod=&lang=&go.y=7&orbp=&mth=gw&cid=qllfile8Ja9ws-u1075488141&hsy=&smon=10&nhor=1&nho2=2&go.x=12&go .y=11

my planets: his:

sun: 0 cap 32'5" sun: 20 vir 14'31"
moon: 20 pis 26'50" moon: 3 aqu 51'2"
mer: 18Cap 0'8" Mer: 5 Vir 42'54"
Ven: 12 Cap 23'51" Ven: 5 Sco 21'14"
Mars: 9 Aqu 43'27" Mars: 25 Lib 40'29"
Jupiter: 29 Sco 19'0" Jupt: 1 Leo 29'56"
Sat: 2 Sco 11'55" Sat: 6 Vir 5'25"
Uranus 6 sag 24'45" Uranus: 13 Sco 32'5"
Nept: 26 Sag 53'54" Nept: 15 Sag 37'7"
Pluto: 29 Lib 2'28" Pluto: 15 Lib 33'53"
Node: 4 Can 16'5d Node: 26 Vir 45"45"
Chiron: 23 Tau 29'58"r Chiron: 9 Tau 20'50"r
Ascendant: aries Ascendant: Leo

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Raleigh21
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posted November 02, 2004 09:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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sthenri
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posted November 02, 2004 10:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, if you don't have Venus aspecting your own Uranus it's hard to be compatible, you answered your own question-he drives you crazy and yes he will always be overwhelmed. With Mars in Capricorn you will tend to try and work things out for a long time, so I can't give you advice.

I dated one, he would go away for weeks and come back telling me, that's just the way it is.
Of couse if I was the same I wouldn't care, and I could care, didn't care, it was always a toss up. I have Uranus trine Mecury, Mercury trine Uranus and a very weak aspect from Uranus to Venus, but it's just not enough to deal with, considering my Taurus Sun.

Even my Sag/1st house conjunct Mars and Gemini in Mecury was boggled.

Boggled!

Natasha

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Raleigh21
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posted November 02, 2004 12:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol. Thank you Natasha. I try to understand, Lord knows I do, but I just do not get it at all. It makes no sense to me. The words "overwhelmed" aren't even in my vocabulary. When he said that I was just thinking "just deal with the problem." lol, so for me to read this I was "overwhelmed." Oh, and my mars is in Aquarius.

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sassygrrrl
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posted November 02, 2004 11:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
According to the Magi peeps, any Venus-Uranus aspect in a birthchart makes one a person who may break hearts. And as they have an ever-present desire for change, they're not too good at settling down with one person for too long.

...Unfortunately as I have personal experience with other people who have this, there seems to be some truth to that.

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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted November 03, 2004 01:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
raleigh -

I have a Sun/Venus/Uranus/MC Conjunction in Scorpio, and an Aquarius Moon in the first.

If this person is anything like me - which he isn't (cause, if he's anything like me, he's nothing like anyone) - then, he'll need the freedom to do his own thing IN HIS OWN WAY (-that's key!).

Okay this is all just a projection, but:

He probably falls in (and out of) love with everyone he meets, every time he meets them, but doesn't generally embarrass them with the erratic depth of his affections. He's direct, honest, doesnt like games, and will expect to be dealt with fairly. He may appear cold, but it is only because he suspects and distrusts the profound intensity of his emotions. He tries very hard to be sensible, but his sensibility is almost always uncommon. If you cannot understand him, have faith in him - he is probably a genius at SOMETHING. If you suspect you can niether understand nor believe in him, please, do him a favor and leave him alone. He's certainly used to being misunderstood, but he needs allies;
people who won't judge him or his ideas - you never know when they might be visions.

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Aen
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posted November 03, 2004 08:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
any Venus-Uranus aspect in a birthchart makes one a person who may break hearts.

Really???

*looks around & behind, sees nothing broken*

Naff. Some things just don't work in every chart.

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Raleigh21
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posted November 03, 2004 09:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol, thanks again for all your replies. It's not really his need for "space" that drives me crazy, but its how he goes about it. He is good for "just disappearing" when I specifically ASK him to just ask for space when he needs it. He could've broken a few hearts because he is a cheater.

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astro junkie
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posted November 03, 2004 02:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From someone who needs and gives space, I would never create him needing to ask you for space as a platform on which on build a relationship.

For whatever reason, I take my space whenever I feel like it, no matter.

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... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness

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sthenri
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posted November 03, 2004 08:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sex changes everything.
Friends okay, I love Venus/uranus conjunctions and the trine. Once intimacy enters the picture, the friendship goes bye bye.

I have a tough time understanding if this aspect understands my version of monogamy. With Venus in Aries, if the person does not act like they understand, then I just leave the relationship. Friendship is usually not possible then.

But as friends, it's great, even better if the Uranus is not in Virgo. I relate better to Uranus or Venus in water signs if there is th trine/conjunction.

I have a T-Square involving Uranus and Venus, but it's very weak and I just tell someone up front if it's not working. I need my space, I hate criticism, but I never just leave. I find it cruel to be kind that way, so I think it's a great aspect.

As long as intimacy is approached very carefully. Then again I have this problem with lots of men, I love the friendship, hate their version of intimacy, which makes them even more interested.

It's a shame because I really like Venus trine/conjunct Uranus, but in the case of the opposite sex they are also blessed with lots of sex appeal, and they do fall in love with everyone. I find that great at first but irritating in about three days. Unfortunately my Venus in Aries is wowed by any kind of sex appeal.

I am meant to admire many sexy people from a distance.

Venus in Scorpio, and Pisces are two more devastating sexy aspects that I have to stay separated from. There are people who are good at being sexy, as in they know it. And those who don't know it and break hearts without realizing it. For emotional people like myself, I must stay with more Plutonian or Mars types.

Natasha


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sandiegom
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posted November 05, 2004 12:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi I have a venus uranus conjunction in my chart. Most of you have said venus uranus conjunction people are heart breakers. I very much disagree. What more seems to happen is venus uranus conjunction people repeatedly pick people that they are not suited for and fall in love too quickly with them. I think what the conjunciont indicates is bad karma from past lives. The person may or many NOT still have that tendency to walk away fromr relationships depending on how much karma they have burned. People with this aspect in my opinion should hold off until after 30 to marry ... mediate... and do good works for other people as friend to help get rid of this karma. I dont think a person should be ruled out of a relationship because of this aspect ... but the words proceed with caution might be in order.

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sassygrrrl
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posted November 05, 2004 11:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It was probably terribly stereotype-y and narrow-minded of me to say that all Venus-Uranus people are heartbreakers. Especially as I know some folks with a Venus-Uranus aspect in their charts who are actually very devoted and try to be faithful to the ones they love and want nothing more than to spend their lives with them.
But another way of looking at this aspect (and as I have seen too) is that it could indicate many disruptions in the person's love life through no fault of their own.

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sassygrrrl
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posted November 05, 2004 11:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
...I just remembered that Venus sextiles Uranus in my natal chart. And here I was pointing fingers at all the other Venus-Uranus people calling you guys heartbreakers. So maybe this is some kind of self-denial on my part.

(*Who? ME break hearts?? Never!!*)


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Gemini Nymph
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posted November 05, 2004 11:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Uranus trining Venus, and yeah I'm a heartbreaker, I admit it. LOL. I've never been dumped - I always did the dumping...and they always came crawling back.

I also have Neptune opposition Venus. I have in the past attracted men who were too controlling, although my Pluto rising tends ot scare those type off.

I think between having Pluto oppo moon/square Sun, PLUS Venus trining Uranus/opposing Neptune is why I'm a stalker magnet though. I mean, really, serious, crazy, show up at your place at 3 AM, lurk around your front door, leave notes in your mailbox and on your windsheild kind of stalkers.

I don't get it cos I'm FAR from being the most attractive woman around. It's been liek this since high school. I just seem to trigger something in the more unstable types it seems.

I have mentioned most of these stalkers have been Aquas haven't I? LOL.

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whaaat
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posted December 10, 2013 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whaaat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this aspect and it definitely spells 'commitment issues'. The guy would have to be something really special to truly have a claim on me (though as hypocritical as it may sound, I would try to have a claim on him, without giving up my own freedom). It's not a good placement, and as much as it sucks, I would suggest to end your on and off relationship. There's almost no way to make such a person commit, not even after marriage (they might put a ring on it someday but it will be a one way leash).

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posted December 16, 2013 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MorpHnStorM     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by whaaat:
I have this aspect and it definitely spells 'commitment issues'. The guy would have to be something really special to truly have a claim on me (though as hypocritical as it may sound, I would try to have a claim on him, without giving up my own freedom). It's not a good placement, and as much as it sucks, I would suggest to end your on and off relationship. There's almost no way to make such a person commit, not even after marriage (they might put a ring on it someday but it will be a one way leash).

Interesting...what sign and house is yours in?

This is how I feel:

quote:
The guy would have to be something really special to truly have a claim on me

I have an inconjunction/quincunx, but at the same time, I'm also a serious loner/independent...Shows up as a lack of relationships, rather than an abundance of relationships I am not seriously committed to...

With that, I still have a tendency to love from a distance/without attachment in general...

Oh, and I have a Moon square Uranus with Uranus close to my Desc....

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posted December 22, 2013 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for incognito     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mom has this aspect and she is charming but she has repeatedly told me that she regrets being married, shes' not the type to get married...etc Shes very flirtatious and I'm pretty sure she cheated on my dad.
A friend also has this aspect and she magnetically attracts guys somehow. She's average looking but she is very carefree, also a sag. She never really talked about guys/relationships as the rest of us - just didn't seem to care. (not les)

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