posted November 08, 2004 11:33 AM              

I find they have a parental feel to them, and I can never figure out if it's a physical attraction or more of an admiration. What is more important to a Venus in Earth sign, love or respect?

I suppose I am trying to find a way to see if I could attract an Earth Venus full time, if I have what it takes down the road, they are so long term minded it's scary to my Venus in Aries, yet I find the Earth placements luxurious and sensual. They do not seem to see me the same way,

posted November 08, 2004 03:14 PM              

Example of the latter: I ran out to my car today to get something and Jase popped out to see what I was doing.
I saw him in the sun and got an urge.
A simple urge.
As he turned and walked back into the shadows to go inside, I said, "Hey, babe - come back here."
"...?"
"I want to kiss you in the sunlight."
He did, and we did.

posted November 08, 2004 04:47 PM              

I'm timid in love and if i feel that the man is not sincere or I might get ridiculed i go cold! Its not easy to turn me on, but I do dream constantly about true love and cozy warm fires etc etc. (pisces moon I guess)

I dont think you can have love without respect, they're both equally important to me. An boyfriend I once had had lots of problems and I helped him by being a good listener. He told me that he really respected me. I was really happy till I realised he did not once say love. I told my friend and she was like, 'whats the big deal? He respects you but didnt say he loves you or likes you.' But you see, I didnt notice - to me they almost seemed the same thing (which of course, they're not). You gotta have love but if you dont feel respected by your partner, you'll never feel truly happy. And vice versa. I dunno if its that important to other signs?? Or do they always assume they are being respected automatically? Im not that confident, so i guess it meant a lot more to me than it would to someone like my friend, who is extremely confident.

posted November 19, 2004 05:52 PM              

You have to pick up on it, because it's true, it s not noticeable. Now I know when a Venus in Virgo does things for me, that he cares, and I take that as a big sign that he is attracted, then I tell him if I am attracted with no fear.

The problem then is that my nature is revealed as a little too open, and Venus in Virgo, likes to keep things simple.

I do like the physical aspects of Venus in Earth, there is less inhibition with touching.

Does Venus in Virgo have trouble choosing one person to date? I wonder since Virgo is ruled by Mercury!

posted November 21, 2004 10:44 AM              

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Venus in Virgo will get motherly, the men too, about small things around me when attracted.

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posted November 21, 2004 03:57 PM              

You made my day.

posted November 22, 2004 08:39 AM            

I am soooo the motherly type. I just love a person who I have to be there for all the time. And long term? Damn shooky... I never enter a relationship seeing it ending, I do whatever it takes to make it work. I have put up with a lot from the men I've dated in the past, and I've usually been burned pretty bad. Is this because I'm *too* there for them? No idea... My ex has venus in scorpio... that was just a no go from the start, I realize now. He drowned me and turned me into mud...because although I do give give give, I do want to get... (Leo moon in my 5th house, baby!) I want an open partner, one I don't have to spend hours trying to dissect, only to end up so wrapped up in their emotions, I wake up one day and feel like the soul has been sucked out of me... So, I'm not sure what the best venus sign for me would be, but I sure would like one that was on the same page as me... willing to put in as much as I am. I have Pluto in Libra in my 7th house... so I have an idea of what kind of sun sign could do it for me, but the venus... another earth? Worth a ponder

posted November 22, 2004 05:48 PM              

as far as me as a lover, i don't put out easily. i absolutely need a slow gentle lover who understands my emotional needs. adn those needs are pretty high. ideally, my lover should be my best friend, one whom i can share anything with..honestly.

posted November 22, 2004 05:54 PM              

Yes I like Venus in Virgo too, a little too much attention to detail sometimes, I feel like I need an expresso to keep up with everything.

posted November 22, 2004 06:12 PM              

Slow Hand - Pointer Sisters

"As the midnight moon was drifting through
The lazy sway of the trees
I saw the look in your eyes looking into mine
Seeing what you wanted to see
Darlin' don't say a word 'cos I already heard
What your body's saying to mine
I'm tired of fast moves, I've got a slow groove
On my mind

I want a man with a slow hand
I want a lover with an easy touch
I want somebody who will spend some time
Not come and go in a heated rush
I want somebody who will understand
When it comes to love I want a slow hand

On shadowed ground with no one around
And a blanket of stars in our eyes
We are drifting free, like two lost leaves
On the crazy wind of the night
Darlin' don't say a word 'cos I already heard
What your body's saying to mine
If I want it all night, you say it's alright
We got the time

'Cos I got a man with a slow hand
I got a lover with an easy touch
I've found somebody who will spend some time
Not come and go in a heated rush
I've found somebody who will understand
When it comes to love I want a slow hand

If I want it all night, please say it's alright
It's not a fast move but a slow groove
On my mind

'Cos I got a man with a slow hand
I got a lover with an easy touch
I've found somebody who will spend some time
Not come and go in a heated rush
I've found somebody who will understand
I've found a lover with a slow hand