posted November 23, 2004 10:07 AM              

I remember you once offering advice if I ever met up with a Cap... well, guess what?!

Cap sun, Scorp moon, Scorp venus, Gemini Mars

posted November 23, 2004 10:18 AM              

Sure does. Welcome back. What's up?

posted November 23, 2004 10:47 AM              

Awwww... you remembered

Recently ended it with Gem and an Aqua... now I have been seeing this Cap for around 4 months.

Sheeez... I don't know where to begin

I guess I could make a list of questions, huh?

1. Are they generally eager to jump into relationships? He made his mind up pretty quick that I was "it".

2. My moods seem to confuse him. I've noticed that are moods do rub off on one another. It's odd really.

3. He comments on me being strong often... but part of me thinks that he wants someone that's a little more naive? Don't know if that's the correct word? Hmmmm... maybe a woman who is a little more dependant?

4. He seems to have a hard time trusting (well, I do too) I've tried my best to assure him... but there still seems to be a wall up.

5. We're both very stubborn... is his habit of "always" being right a Cap trait?

I don't know if you can help me with these questions or not... whatever advice you have will be greatly appreciated.

I don't really know where to begin, and I'm a little apprehensive about posting too much.

posted November 23, 2004 11:16 AM              

My answers:

1. Yes.

2. Tread carefully about "moods." Because Capricorn Suns/Moons/Risings will wonder if they are signs of serious mental illness(es).

3. They desire someone who can be dependent on their decision-making abilities. They associate love with being needed by someone else. It how they see that someone wants them in their life. If nobody needs what they are offering, they feel lonely.

4. Yes, the wall is real.

5. Yes, they are always right. They get loud if there is disobedence. Fun to watch. Enjoy it.

posted November 23, 2004 11:39 AM              

My little Aqua is doing great. Thanks for asking.

2. Tread carefully about "moods." Because Capricorn Suns/Moons/Risings will wonder if they are signs of serious mental illness(es).

Oh geez... he can just pick up on them.. even if I try to conceal them. Any way to reassure that I'm "not" mentally ill?

3. They desire someone who can be dependent on their decision-making abilities. They associate love with being needed by someone else. It how they see that someone wants them in their life. If nobody needs what they are offering, they feel lonely.

I think I may have messed up on this one. We were both having a discussion once and both of our egos got involved... he stated that I "needed him"... which I in return said "I don't need anyone".

4. Yes, the wall is real.

Does it go away? Sometimes it's not up as strong, and other times it is.

Confusing... confusing

posted November 23, 2004 01:57 PM              

It sounds like everything is new and that's always exciting.

I am sorry to say that I don't have any solutions for the above predicaments. I hope he knows what a wonderful person you are to go to this length in understanding who he is, and reciprocates the same measure for you.

I'm just able to say what I found my Cappy ex to be like. Can't say I've found anything that created a breakthrough into new ground.

Best Wishes

posted November 23, 2004 02:45 PM              

Had to jump in here
what if his decision making abilities are terrible?
I know a Saturn ascendant like that, but we manage to get along anyway but doing things together that require me to ask for physical assistance.

Maybe you can say you act crazy sometimes because you need him and don't want to say so?

That always works for me, for the short term.

posted November 23, 2004 04:48 PM              

Thanks y'all... got a wonderful laugh.