posted December 08, 2004 02:18 AM              

When I think of Geminis, I think of butterflies. They flit from thing to thing, person to person, one fun thing to the other. Keep this woman's mind engaged and you have her. You must appeal to them through logic and reason. Talk, talk, talk. They are usually very witty and dont like to sit down for too long. They dont tend to be too emotional, but that will of course depend on the rest of the chart. With a Gemini, instead of having one woman, you'll have two. The Gemini woman can be very dramatic and will often let her imagination run away with her. They dream big, but dont always have what it takes to get these dreams off and running. They are too busy doing other things. They are.....'people people' - love to mingle - be out and about and socializing.

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The man who attracts you is clever and changeable, and a great conversationalist. If he can keep you guessing, then he'll keep you interested.

"Communication" is very important to you, so the man who can share information and ideas appeals to you. If he says interesting things and stimulates you intellectually, he'll spark a romantic interest too.

You respond to clever conversation and things that arouse your curiosity. Double meanings, sexual innuendos, word-games, and witty flirting arouse your interest.

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Do you know any of her other planetary placements Randall?

posted December 08, 2004 03:47 AM              

my hubby is a cappy, and he got my attention by being pretty funny, and LOTS of late night convos over quite a few bottles of wine. Don't be afraid to touch deep subjects, as long as they are not emotionally charged, don't worry if the "deep subject" gets shoved away for lighter moments, you can be sure your gem is either thinking about the subject, and will come back to it later, or is thinking about the subject and decides it's too hot to handle

Charming is always good, with a bit of a goofy smile--she will be thinking "WoW, how cheesy!" but will love it. Even if she says what she thinks lol (cheesy). Laugh, laugh, laugh at her jokes (she prolly has a wierd sense of humour, so just humour her--she thinks it's funny!)

If you touch on a subject that she's uncomfortable with, you'll notice that she starts joking about everything, making fun of herself. That is a typical Gem way of making sure they don't get hurt--if they laugh at theirselves first, no one else can sting them. File away those topics for a later date and a few bottles of wine

Despite what all astrology says, I think Gems and Cappies make a great pairing. What the one lacks, the other posseses, and thus two incomplete parts make a perfect whole.
I really feel it when my cappy hubby is not there (business trip or whatever), my life starts to get totally out of hand (go to bed too late, get up late for work, forget to give my son his lunchbag etc).

Good luck to you!

posted December 08, 2004 11:43 AM              

Geminis can be very loyal to their friends, so be her friend for at least a year before commitment.
But be on time, I have noticed Gemini women especially are sticklers for keeping plans on track. And they remember everything you say.

posted December 09, 2004 12:03 PM              

Music?

Movies?

posted December 09, 2004 12:25 PM              

If it were me, I'd want to play with your hair.

... I'd brush it, and braid it... maybe give you some corn rows just for fun... or a whole bunch of little braids. I'd mostly just brush it though.

posted December 09, 2004 03:34 PM              

thought this might be a cuspal thang, but having read the intro to linda g's 'love signs', the theory about cusp-ies having traits of two signs is out the window.

posted December 09, 2004 04:43 PM            

my advice: just like everyone said, be chatty and witty. Talk about anything under the sun, even if Gemini doesn't know much about the subject they'll want to learn about it and will for sure have some sort of opinion. Try to keep the subjects on the light side, you don't have to be superficial but anything super emotional should be avoided at first. BE HER FRIEND. One thing I've noticed about all the Gemini girls around me is that their partners aren't just dates for Saturday night, they are also their best friend.

be prepared to laugh, Gemini have wonderful senses of humor and can be quite silly. Don't think they're weird, just go with the flow and let them entertain you. Also, don't be surprised if you feel like you're date has a split personality, she probably does! one thing I've learned about Gemini from being surrounded by them is that the myth about them having two sides ... isn't a myth at all! actually, she might not just have two sides, she might have two or three or ten for all you know and she might randomly switch from one to the other before you even realized what happened.

posted December 10, 2004 03:58 AM              

Don't forget to keep watching the TV as well, though, because she'll throw out a comment about something a character said 15 minutes ago, and you better know what she's talking about, otherwise you'll get the "I thought we were watching tv?! LOOK. LOL

OTOH hand again (damn libra rising!), you just being confused about what's going on will amuse her to no end, so maybe don't even try to keep up. That's good for a few weeks of giggling. OH! One thing, don't take anything she says seriously. When my cappy hubby can't keep up (who can??) I always laugh and say "you're such a geek" but I mean that in a loving way (HONESTLY!!!)and after 8 years of marriage, he now just laughs with me, and secretly gets his revenge...

posted December 10, 2004 04:06 AM              

Poor hubby, I *am* mean!

posted December 13, 2004 01:33 PM            

All in all, I think what's fair to say about all of them is definately the wierd sense of humour thing. That's the main reason I'm friends with them anyway. They are all sort of kooky but nice people and, when friends with any earth sign, Capricorn, Taurus or Virgo, it always tends to bring out a sort of evil twisted side to their humour as well. They do like to disscuss things, even if it is for no particular reason and are generally a friend to everyone as it seems like they aim to please everyone because generally they like being appreciated in return, well, ok, they like attention, but in a nice well-meaning way. Of course, there is always the two sidedness to them, ie. One day they can be realllllyyy depressed (and they show it) the next, they can be really happy, jokey and full of sunshine, etc. Some are incredibly mature and others incredibly childish, depends what day you catch them on. All in all, I think the world would be a much duller place without them, but then, that is just my opinion.