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mls_nryn
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posted December 14, 2004 10:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey,
my first time in Lindaland. Just wanted to know how compatible are Gemini female and Taurus male. And why is it that a Taurus guy has such a HUGE problem to express his love. Any ideas how I can confirm if my taurus guy loves me?????
Wanted IMMEDIATE HELP!!!!!

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astro junkie
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posted December 14, 2004 10:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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mls_nryn
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posted December 14, 2004 10:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanx, But, I was expecting a reply!!!

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astro junkie
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posted December 14, 2004 10:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No replies.

Only welcomes.

Sorry.

Merry Holidays.

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astro junkie
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posted December 14, 2004 10:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Teo Torriatte
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posted December 14, 2004 10:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you can't, you have to wait til he is ready to confirm his love, try and rush him and you'll never know. I get the feeling you are very impatient anyway from your posts on this thread! I'm a gemini and one thing being with a taurus has taught me is patience.
One they decide they are in love, it isn't a huge problem to express it at all, they can be very soft and romantic. but a taurus won't waste the effort and emotion if they are not sure about something.
geminis can be very "all or nothing" so just be cautious cos you could end up with nothing if you rush him. They don't like being rushed or being pushed.
Traditionally gem/taurus aren't all that compatible but there are some happy folk here on this board who will tell you otherwise, and others who will swear it doesn't work, try getting a free synastry chart on astro.com cos it will give you more of a picture.
And further down on this board there's other threads about taurean males which you may find interesting.

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mls_nryn
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posted December 14, 2004 10:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanx TT. That was quite useful.

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sthenri
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posted December 14, 2004 12:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just got over a Gemini male and I'm a Taurus. He could not wait for my responses and usually flirted with others in front of me, made passes at others, and had affairs if he could, to tell me about them. He did everything he could to get a response. At this point I have told his girls, and family, if I see him he will have to run, or leave the country which is his planning on doing.

So in this lesson, remember that Taurus may not show you love, BUT we do love you or we wouldn't even waste our time with you, and if we go through all the trouble of picking you out, we must think you are above special. Do not ever think a Taurus is not thinking about you, or moving in slowly to set the traps. Once we commit you cant leave ever, or else we are very mad.

Ask yourself if you want to play for keeps or not, if you don't then just let him go and find another.

If you have Mercury in Cancer, or Gemini, it works a bit better, I find that geminis can be obsessed with getting someone, do not be obsessed, or if you are do not give up ever. If you give up the Taurus will lose respect for you. Better to be obsessed about work, but make the Taurus part of it, so that he doesn't get jealous. have you let him know you are free? Geminis do not always realize how much they talk about past loves.

He may not know you are really single unless you tell him point blank. Taurus does not like competition at all. I have never known a Gemini that wasn't just out of a relationship, make sure you distance yourself totally, and do not confide about your ex.

And if you think your Taurus isn't jealous right this second? Taurus is more jealous than Scorpio times ten, because we remember everything, and have incredible egos. Always assume you are with a very jealous person at all times,

Don't mean to scare you away, but I have scared many Geminis away but I loved them all deeply.
And I have a really tough time showing affection at first, even though I am very much into touch,

If you are at all attractive and spending time with him, he will fall in love with you, but it's the above that matters in the long run.

Take Care,
Natasha
Taurus/Cancer Moon

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astro junkie
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posted December 14, 2004 01:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natasha -

LUCKY LUCKY LUCKY for us ...

I'm sensing a movement from this transiting Saturn in Cancer. What's happening?

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sthenri
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posted December 14, 2004 03:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What degree is your Cancer moon? I've got a ways to go yet, since mine is the late degree,

Natasha


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pidaua
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posted December 14, 2004 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"one thing being with a taurus has taught me is patience.
One they decide they are in love, it isn't a huge problem to express it at all, they can be very soft and romantic. but a taurus won't waste the effort and emotion if they are not sure about something."

Teo..RIGHT ON!!!...I must agree with that bit about Patience.

I also have to say that I never had to wonder (I'm a Sag - he's a Bull). He had made up his mind when we had talked for hours on the phone one night. BEFORE we had even met face to face..He told me that he KNEW I was going to be his wife halfway through our first dinner. Good thing he didn't say anything because I would have freaked out.

Mls,

Please read closely what Natasha wrote. My fiance once dated a Gemini- at one point he cared deeply for her and even thought about moving in with her or making it more of a commitment. But she was too impatient, too obsessed and it even encroached on his work..meaning, she crossed the boundries. Taurus likes enthusiasm, but they don't do "needy" in that manner. Yes, they want to be needed and appreciated but if you are the type that can't exist on your own or without them, they will bolt.


ALso..Please pay heed about the exes..if when they ask you. They do remember and it does hurt them even if they don't show it. I made that mistake in a way, not thinking it bothered him, but it does. Oh yeah...and after all this advice, don't get too soft. LOL...I know were telling you all these don'ts..but here is one "do" Do stick up for yourself especially if you feel he may be overriding your opinions or beliefs, just be prepared to have a LOGICAL argument in your defense. Taurus hates pushovers.

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astro junkie
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posted December 14, 2004 03:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yeah ... I forgot what degree yours is in. Mine is 26.01

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sthenri
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posted December 14, 2004 04:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay never mind, mine is 10, 55 the transit is already hitting me and passing by now. Yours is coming into being, it's a good thing, trust it.

Mine had to do with petty jealousy from other women, because of the square to Venus in Aries, and I am trying to stay around male relationships right now, those without romantic ties, or other women. I am creative but not dreamy as usual, more hard edged and bold.

Color is very good to me these days, I have thrown away everything black and white. I am not sure if that's Saturn or not! How do you feel about colour around you right now? Does it make you feel more powerful?

Take Care,
Natasha


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astro junkie
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posted December 14, 2004 04:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh - well - color -

Not really.

Let's see, my Natal Moon is Square Mars, Opp Jupiter & Saturn, and Sextile my Asc.

My Venus is Sextile Neptune, and Conjunct Pluto.

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26taurus
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posted December 14, 2004 05:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pid,

I always love reading how you describe us Bulls. You have a great understanding of us.

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26taurus
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posted December 14, 2004 05:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh! Welcome mls_nryn

Taurus can....can, be compatible with Gemini. For example I have Venus in Gemini and usually get on great with the Twins. It depends alot upon the rest of your charts. There are also alot of Gemini's who have annoyed the crap out of me (maybe because my Venus also squares my Moon). But I find signs that are right next to each other usually get along good and have alot to teach the other. In my case Aries and Gem. Just my two cents.

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sthenri
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posted December 14, 2004 09:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gloria, it's a good thing to go through, self esteem is better over here finally.

Moon/Mars, and your mars is in scorpio, there may be a few confrontations with men which make you feel confident. Do you feel sparky?

Natasha


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mls_nryn
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posted December 15, 2004 01:33 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey guys, Thanx for the greeeeaaat insight. Guess I am at the right place. Well, I haven't been involved with anyone till now, so there is no point of talking of my Ex to my guy!
My moon's in Saggitarius. Don't know what degree that would come to. My venus is in Taurus along with Mars. Can anybody make out anything from this one??

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Teo Torriatte
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posted December 15, 2004 04:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello again,
my Venus and Mars are also in Taurus, and I think they give me stability and commitment in relationships which is kinda good if a Taurus is the object of your desire. My Taurus is actually a lot like me and we share a lot of planetary placements,and our asc. is the same and I think my venus and mars have a lot to do with it as we approach relationships the same way.
I completely agree with what Natasha and Pidaua have said about not being needy, again its about curbing your geminian impatience and need to know everything - like me, you may just have an endless stream of questions and observations and want to get to know him inside out but this can sometimes look like you're latching on to him like a limpet.
The old cliche is true - slow and steady does win the race.

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mls_nryn
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posted December 15, 2004 07:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey TT,
Guess u do sound like me!!! i would like to know him inside out too. But, i want to know if a taurus can take as long as ayear to express his love to someone!!
I know thru common friends that he likes me, but never from the horses mouth!!

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Teo Torriatte
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posted December 15, 2004 10:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it takes as long as it takes!! to quote the Supremes (I think, i am not hot on Motown), "you can't hurry love, you just have to wait......"
sorry but you do, if you think it is worth waiting for, if not then maybe he isn't right for you? Do you feel warm and positive emotion from him, are all the signs of a happy relationship there? If your friends think so they maybe trust their opinions.
But I do understand, it's very frustrating. I came to Lindaland for the same reason as you, to find out if he loved me. I'm just passing on exactly what I learnt myself.
BTW - he decided he did love me after 7 months. But by then everything else was going so well that I could feel it anyway.

Somebody - I believe it is Natasha - has said here in the past that you should never be afraid to ask a Taurus questions as they will always give you an honest answer. if you are concerned that the relationship is not to your suiting or that it isnt going well, don't be afraid to ask him what he thinks of it.

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posted December 15, 2004 01:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natasha -

Yes, I do feel sparky - confrontations? Yes - but they are not designed BY ME to make me feel "good" - if "good" means feeling like you are making the best decisions under the circumstances.

I'm like every other pion waiting for Saturn to get hit on it's highnee by the door on it's way out. It's not a time of gathering, as it is a time of purging and review.

In other words - a time of NO HARVESTING can be rather sad time for a Libra girl.

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astro junkie
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posted December 15, 2004 01:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BTW -

I hate making a desicion based on a negative. As in, I'm going to do such-and-such in order that this-and-that does not occur. It's much nicer to make a decision based on OPPORTUNITY - so that such-and-such has the opportunity to occur, and that they are positive's.

But this is one of those twisted compromises all those with Cancer influences arrives at.

On the one hand, you do not know whether to take liberties because you just can't take anymore, or whether to hold out even longer. Must be one of the "investment" issues inherent in Cancer.


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