posted December 20, 2004 07:55 PM            

Recently with another and she ended up telling me she was seeing her ex again.

Oh well- makes me want to become a player/cheater!

posted December 21, 2004 08:02 AM              

Sagittarius dates a lot which gives the impression of promiscuity but they really are just testing the waters. Once they give their heart, they are very loyal.

posted December 21, 2004 08:23 AM              

Just curious, you said something about calling a relationship off very quickly... was that because you find yourself interested in someone else and did not want to cheat?

posted December 21, 2004 08:27 AM              

Hmmmm, Pisces, too. (My fishy admitted to me that he cheats on his girlfriends, the sl*t)

posted December 22, 2004 06:43 PM              

Men: Gemini
Libra(almost evry Libra i know has broken at least 1 heart!)
Sagg(but once they commit-they shed away their roming ways).
and definately Piceas- they just don't know what the hell they want and when they do get what they want, they don't want it anymore.

As for the women(this is vey general):
Aries
Gemini-because of their need 4 variety

Libra-they can't make up their minds-so the wind up having both parties

Scorpio-they see sex as power!

Sag- a tendency to see men through rose colored glasses, thus gettng disappointed time and time again

and Piceas

posted December 22, 2004 07:56 PM              

Regarding Cheating:

Pisces Sun, or Ascendant if there are bad aspects to Neptune. Look at a man's ruler and then look at that planet! If he's a Capricorn and his Saturn is conj Venus, then he's loyal, opp Venus and I'd worry. Hard Saturn aspects can't commit.

Hard Neptune aspects can cause cheating/lying, so many Pisces have hard aspects.
And they do convince themselves that wasn't sex, only a hand/leg/arm you know what. Not cheating, NO! Geminis are very self indulgent and can convince themselves they are number one anyway.

The reason I know this about Geminis who I understand and forgive better, is that they are actually afraid to commit to someone lesser than themselves.

Taurus will cheat on a man, and throw it in his face because he can't satisfy her.

So, I would say that we can all cheat, but if it's done with guilt, lying, and manipulation, it's more dangerous because of the threat of disease.

My Gemini/Pisces rising guy was an incredibe cheat, he would KISS anyone, because he needed it, and would neglect the women who fell all over him due to his fragile emotions. But it wasn't cheating unless he had respect for the woman, if he had respect for her, he would always kiss only her.

So then he would break up with other woman, to go kiss the good one, only she would dump him because all he wanted to do was whine about the other woman. That man can kiss my behind if he wants to next time but he's never touching my face again, too backstabbing for me.

I would prefer a man slept with a woman than kissed her and lied about how much he loved her, that just seems so sick. I wouldn't take him back either way, but I guess that's the game.

I have cheated once, I cheated on an Aries who was incredibly selfish and controlling. The Gemini would not call it sex, but it was enough for the Aries, and I did confess right away. It's hard to know what the right thing is, but if there are confessions all around, I am usually okay with it. That's destructive I know, but it's necessary.

I do listen too long to how much a man will cheat, until finally I find out he is either not cheating and lying about it, or it was a long time ago and he forgot the time frame. It's such a game, when you are dating a Gemini or a Scorpio. Make sure if you date one, he/she is in therapy.

posted December 23, 2004 03:42 AM            

Its true about saggies, they are actually not that promiscous...they're very idealistic and looking for a soul mate. They do date many, and may appear promiscuous, but they're impossible to seduce.

Geminis I think are more flirtatious than promiscuous...they are pretty good at spinning lies if they have to...

Scorpios have a reputation of extreme loyalty, but also watchout for their extreme DISloyalty...

posted December 23, 2004 05:46 AM              

I'm a Pisces with an Aries rising and have never cheated.

I honestly think that anyone who does cheat is feeling insecure in the relationship and feels that the other person will cheat on them, so they do it first.

posted December 23, 2004 06:40 AM              

That's exactly what happened with my boyfriend and his ex, although in retrospect, he admits that she probably didn't cheat on him. She just had a lot of issues and needed male attention all the time to validate herself, apparently that was the reason she got implants too... aparently she felt "ugly" before she got them. Issues, issues, issues... But he ended up cheating on her. A lot.

There was other stuff going on too, but that was the guts of why he was not faithful.

posted December 23, 2004 03:41 PM              

archer - i REALLY REALLY feel your issue - read the story yesterday. felt relieved that i'm not the only one who has a sexual appetite like a switch, can disregard the "irrelevence" of the moment and find relief just as well on my own as a brush of an arm or the rush that comes when someone stands too close behind me on a bus or train. SEE - so, what's cheating?! damn society with the rules!!!!!!

posted December 24, 2004 05:47 AM            

My mom, my aunts, my cousins, once they are done ... they're done, end of story. They get out of there so fast it will make your head spin.