posted December 25, 2004 12:32 AM              

hello everyone!! i haven't been here in about 2 years now.. but i got the internet today and this is the second place i came!!

there is SOOO much between us, so many coincidences and interesting connections. everything is magical and it is a DREAM. we are meant for eachother, and there is no doubt. we share a soul. i know we will be together forever.

can i please share briefly some of the connections we have, and please! if anyone knows of any more soulmate clues, or would like to glimpse our charts for some feedback, let me know!

.. our moons are conjunct in taurus ..

.. our ascendants are in opposition (me cap, he cancer, a few degrees apart) ..

.. our composite moon is conjunct our composite chiron ..

.. our composite asc is his north node (EXACTLY) *and* his MC ..

.. our composite asc/his NN/his MC is trine my sun, merc and mars ( all 3 conjunct) ..

.. my neptune is conjunct his saturn ..

.. his neptune is conjunct my asc ..

.. my juno is his sun, his juno is my sun ..

and there is more, i just can't remember, plus i'm probably not aware of some other connections..

oh, and there is more, related to linda goodman, but it prob doesn't belong on this forum..

oh man, i've missed this place. just thot i'd share the news!! any thots or questions? and does this seem like a lot of connections, or what?

oh oh, one more! his sun is my south node!!

posted December 25, 2004 07:43 PM              

yeah, it really is a miracle.. on the one hand, i always dreamed i would find him, hoped, prayed, imagined, but on the other i never fully believed i *actually* would.. so nobody lose hope! keep dreaming!!

posted December 25, 2004 11:37 PM            

Happy Festivus, everyone! (Aren't we supposed to do something with a metal pole or something?!)

posted December 27, 2004 12:50 PM              

And don't stray too far this time!! We all need to learn some of those recipes for love potions. So GIVE IT UP! ... hee hee ...

posted December 27, 2004 06:53 PM              

hi guys! thanks for the loving vibes!

i don't have a lot of time now to reply cuz i gotta go catch my bus right away but i wanted to say hey! and spread some of the love and it-can-happen-to-you vibes..

it's absolute magic, i swear! i am not sure why i was ready, but i was (a lot of soul searching and wishing..). i came back to my hometown (which i cannot STAND, man does it suck).. something strong compelled me and pulled me and i had no real logical reason to come back. but then i met him, after a series of synchronicities. as far as i can tell, following your heart/intuition, ALWAYS, is the key to manifesting your dreams. that is the lesson he and i are learning every day together. and we are so psychic together, and manifest such amazing things when we are tuned into God's love. it's very powerful.

just got the internet and looked up our charts last night and we have a zillion neptune and saturn aspects- and mostly all good! it's quite amazing. later, i will list them all here, if anyone is interested!

i have to go now! have a wonderful day, everyone!

posted December 28, 2004 11:54 AM              

*doh!*

posted December 29, 2004 11:03 AM              

if anything jumps out at anyone, let me know! i'm not experienced much in relationship astrology, so i would love any feedback!

Ascendant in Aries
Venus Square Ascendant (good square)
Uranus Trine Ascendant
*Moon in 2nd*
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
Sun Square Moon
Moon Square Mercury
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Sextile Mars
*Jupiter in 2nd*
Sun Square Jupiter (challenging, but good)
Mercury Square Jupiter (good square)
*Pluto in 7th*
Saturn Conjunct Pluto
Sun Trine Pluto
Mercury Trine Pluto
Neptune Sextile Pluto
*Saturn in 7th*
Sun Trine Saturn
Mercury Trine Saturn
Saturn Sextile Neptune
*Uranus in 8th*
Sun Square Uranus
*Venus in 9th*
*Neptune in 9th*
*Mercury in 10th*
*Sun in 11th*
*Mars in 12th*

our composite chiron is exactly conjunct our moon, so all the moon's aspects apply to chiron as well.

man, i think i'm going to have to order a comprehensive chart. just dunno what kind of relationship chart would be best. any ideas?

posted December 29, 2004 02:38 PM              

venus trine chiron and jupiter conjunct chiron! are those linkages? and is there anything significant with moon conjunct chiron?

posted December 30, 2004 08:12 PM              

Romance Planets:

Chiron is the Most Powerful.

Romance Aspects are any aspect that is created by any pairing of Chiron, Venus, or Neptune.

1. Chiron-Venus
2. Chiron-Neptune
3. Venus-Neptune

4 Female Romance Aspects:

1. Sun-Venus
2. Venus-Moon
3. Sun-Chiron
4. Moon-Chiron

4 Romance Linkages:

(Most Helpful Linkages: Also called "Alliance Linkages" in Mundane)

1. Venus Links Chiron (Conjunction, Trine or Quincunx ) Most Reliable Sign of Marriage: Magical Linkage
2. Venus Links Neptune
3. Chiron Links Neptune (Lifetime Linkage & Least Romantic of the 4)
4. Jupiter Links Chiron

Relationships and Love:

1. Jupiter Trine Sun Linkage: Very good for both individuals, particularly the Sun Person. the Jupiter person looks at the Sun person with rose-colored glasses, that filter out the faults and mistakes of the Sun person, and provides the ability to forgive them for almost anything.

2. Venus Conjunct Sun Linkage: This means love for the person - the Venus person does the loving.

posted December 31, 2004 05:39 PM              

yeah, we have sun square moon, and there are clashes, usually one or two a day, which we are learning to deal with. the process is actually very wonderful, tho challenging. one of us will take something personally/wrong that the other person has said or done and then there is self pity. we both do this, and we are both working throo it. we are learning that the best thing to do is ask for comfort (when we are the wounded) and give it, when we are the one who's made the perceived offence. i think our moons conjunct in taurus in the 2nd help this, and especially the fact that they are conjunct our composite chiron.

so it is almost as tho we are meant to work throo our pain together. we both have a history of intense abuse in our family, and it is so interesting how similar yet in many ways opposite the abuse was/is (my parents were always angry at me and blamed me for it, tell me they hate me, and ultimately ignore me, and his beat him regularily, but consider him their 'jewel' and make him responsible for their happiness.. a lot of guilt trips etc). thinking some of this relates to our asc (his cancer, me capricorn, in opposition).

also, his sun (pisces) is my south node, and my north node is also conjunct my saturn.. so there are great lessons here for both of us.

we cry and pray together every day.. it is really sweet, and very healing to us both.

we also have this wonderful ability to manifest things easily (positive *and* negative, which is why i feel it is such a learning experience for us, because it keeps our focus strong). we are *very* psychic together, and say the same things often, and think and feel the same things most of the time.. it is truely amazing and like nothing else either of us has ever experienced. i think (? anyone know ?) this has something to do with his saturn conjunct my neptune..

i LOVE LOVE LOVE that we have the magical, marriage linkage. we've wanted to get married since we met. our bond is SO strong, and 99% of the time we understand one another sooooooo amazingly well. it *IS* magical!!

posted January 03, 2005 03:11 PM              

Congratulations for being the first person (that I know of) to summmarize some of that Magi stuff so well. Thank you.

Sparkles -

Oh my - it sounds awesome. Were you physically attracted right away, like a great instant "lusty" passion? Or was it more soulful and/or cerebral?

And you still haven't given up the recipe to the magic love potion!

posted January 04, 2005 12:19 PM              

!! well, yes, we were instantly attracted! like, in love, really.

it was the first day of a commercial art training program, and i was on the way to meet the class at an anti-poverty rally. he was walking back with one of the teachers, and the three of us walked back together. the second we saw eachother, we both knew.. we both felt it..

for the next week or so, we looked at eachother, flirted and made silly jokes to one another in the brief moments we had for socialization. i couldn't get my mind off him (nor him, i).. but neither of us were 100% certain that it was mutual..

about a week or so into knowing eachother our class went to a symposium (with hundreds of people!) and we couldn't stop making eachother laugh. it was kind of embarrassing (that's my cap rising speaking), but sooo fun, we just clicked, and it was so wonderful.

i walked him to his bus afterward, and it just felt like we should have continued being together, but we were too shy..

the next day we went for coffee with 3 other classmates after school, and ended up writing eachother little notes the whole time. we are both sooooo weird, and so similar, and it was so farmiliar, and fun, and so much warmth and feeling between us..

i gave him my number and he called me. we talked for an hour and then my phone died. i couldn't get him out of my head. it was like i was talking to him the whole time i wasn't with him, in my head, and i could always see his face superimposed over everything. i dreamed about him 3 nights in a row (the two previous, and this one). that night i dreamed that we kissed. it was magical, warm, and a kiss like i've never experienced before (i've kissed a lot of guys, and never, ever like this..)

the next night we talked on the phone for 7 hours.. the connection was surreal, yet soooo farmiliar. no weirdness (except in the good sense).. we flowed, our minds just connected and we understood eachother so well. i was reading to him from 'astrology for the soul' (jan spiller), and he was just amazed at the accuracy. he said to me.. "don't you think you would just know if you met your soulmate?.." and i was stunned.. because i knew it.. and i felt it too.. but i didn't say anything.. kinda changed the subject. we spent the next 6 hours talking about our childhoods, our souls, our thots, everything, and we'd keep coming back to it.. but in a shy, vague way. he made me tell him.. and it was magical.. we both felt it so strongly.

the next day he came over with sweet, funny gifts (inside jokes from a few days earlier) and dressed up in a beautiful brown corduroy suit from the 70s that he'd just bought. we connected so nicely.. so perfectly. and the first time we kissed was EXACTLY as it had been in my dream!!

since then we have been together almost constantly.. and have only grown more connected. there is no doubt to either of us that we are soulmates- it is fantastic! soo magical! there are endless synchronicities, and we are so psychic together. we truly feel that we share the same soul.

posted January 04, 2005 03:18 PM              

... I have no more questions Your Honor - the Prosecution rests ...

posted January 04, 2005 03:38 PM              

thank you!!

i/we feel so BLESSED and we are doing our best to not take it for granted! it is a gift from God, and we know we are so fortunate..

here is how it happened for me:

i spent 3 years being hooked on my ex. it was NOT healthy, but i am a very loyal person. he was very verbally abusive and lazy and cheated on me a bunch, yet i STILL kept trying (only cuz he convinced me he still loved me, was sorry, blah blah. and cuz we had a baby together a year and a half ago).

i spent about a year and a half away from him (long distance relationship, him promising to come out and help, never did).. and processed that whole thing rather slowly. mostly throo our email exchange, i came to find my voice and learned that i did not deserve the kind of 'love' (read: manipulation) he had to offer.. and learned how much love *i* had to give, and how the fact that he took it for granted meant he didn't deserve me. i started to imagine the kind of partner i need/ed.. i would write things down, daydream, and kept telling myself that i deserved true, giving, compassionate love (my parents were super cold, and i was a very lonely child, so this all had to be learned..) when i was fully ready.

i finally felt ready right around the time that i found out just how much my ex had really cheated on me while we lived in seperate provinces. i moved back despite knowing he wouldn't help out, and that he would likely continue to be verbally abusive, because i had a very strong feeling to do so. no logical explaination, however. it just felt as tho i MUST. so i did.

so when i got the call back that i had not made it into the art program, i cried and cried, and read throo some old journals (a time in my life i had forgotten). i had a breakthroo, and realized i had to stop sleeping with my ex (stupid stupid stupid idea, but i was not emotionally attached to him, at least). i came back into myself, mostly from reading my journals, and felt so envigorated and alive! like anything was possible! something i'd forgotten, gradually, over the last several years, except in theory.

the next morning i got a call that there was an opening in the program, and if i could make it in an hour, i would be in.

an hour later i met him.

he, also, felt very strongly that he needed to be in the program, and didn't know why. he prayed more than he ever had in his life, and was so elated when he got in.

i believe we both were ready and both of us made the choice to be proactive and have faith.

one of the synchronicities, of many, that have taken place since we met, is.. one night i was musing to myself, wondering why there wasn't a book about soulmates. nothing frilly or cheesey, just a nice basic book with basic, pragmatic, spiritual information. i envisioned it as red, and the title was simply, 'soulmates'. the nextday i was in a used book/cd store, and i couldn't find a book or cd that i wanted. i asked my friend who was working there if he knew if there had been any books on astrology that had come in recently. he said no, but i felt compelled to look anyway. right away, i saw the book. it was red, and it was titled 'soulmates'!! it is by ramtha, and it is amazing.

in it, he says that once you are ready, and have both over come your sexism, in either direction, then you will meet your soulmate.

we each are very balanced in our feminine/masculine traits. he is a sweet, soft pisces with cancer rising and taurus moon, and, in fact, is more feminine than i am.. but in that way i feel we balance eachother out.. and he is learning to express his masculinity healthily (aries nn conjunct mc, trine my sun, merc mars, AND conjunct our composite asc), and i am learning to be more vulnerable (my south node being conjunct his sun in pisces, and my dc being his asc), in a healthy way.

so if you are looking for your soulmate, keep the faith! keep looking intoyour soul and believe that you deserve love, and be ready to give it!!

posted January 04, 2005 03:46 PM              

i just re-edited my post (never did drink that coffee!)..

posted January 04, 2005 04:08 PM              

(... ah the power of cheese ...)

posted January 04, 2005 06:10 PM              

i think i love you, astro junkie!!