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Topic: Call to All Sisters in Lindaland
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pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 67
From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 12, 2005 03:49 PM
  
maya,I am very sorry for your broken heart. I am sorry that you found a man that would not step up to the plate and discuss the issues with you. But, I think you will be thankful, in time, because a person that cannot even face the issues in a relationship is not one you want to bind yourself to for this lifetime. In other words, this small test proves that he is not worthy of the love that you have and you are the better person. My issues with a Leo brought me here years ago..Lindaland is a blessing and the people here care so much. Even with our differences, when it comes down to it, we are all the same- we want to help heal our fellow Knowflakes  Amisha, As always, you impress me with your words IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 117
From:
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted January 12, 2005 04:04 PM
I am learning more and more that people are in lives for a reason, season or a lifetime. I am continue to learn that life and relationships are a series of lessons and if you do not get the lesson you repeat it over and over again. Ladies we often no in the beginning if a relationship will cut it or not. We just keep surging forward though long after the red flags have been up. It is sord of like all I see is you for me and me for you. This may sound crazy but I embrace heartbreaks and am grateful for each and everyone that I have had. I look at it as growth it builds character. I tell you something nothing like being heartbroken getting the lesson and becomeing a tower of strength that is the best feeling in the world. TO OVER COME somebody knows what I am talking about. Yes it hurts I cry get what I need and let it go never whalla in it. I am learning more and more to trust GOD in my relationships what is for me is for me no other women can take it away. I use astrology to find the true essense of a person not to mention that I find astrology fascinating. I have learned to bounce back quicker once I realize what the purpose was for this I put it in perspective and let it go. Ok so you are not the one fine that just puts me closer to the one. So I say all this to say ladis embrace it all it is just a series of tests and lessons Don't harp on your heartbreaks to long. Somewhere out there MR RIGHT is waiting and I have to be together when we meet up. DOn't want to scare him away with all my bagage. LOTS OF HUGGS LADIES STAY STRONG!!!! IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: Michigan :)
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 12, 2005 04:48 PM
I know this is just a poem I wrote a couple of years back, but it seemed appropriate in regard to the pained hearts and collective moving on that seems to be in the air. Learn to love yourself and what you have to offer.
(after a taking a biting break from a man I love, who isn't capable to loving back...)6/19/03
I leave to you
the affection I gave
it's not a gift
I'd ever want to reclaim I hope I made you more
even slightly aware
of the need to use courtesy
on all people with care I know you presented to me
a prize beyond measure
soulful inspiration
verses of pain and pleasure I would love to show you anger
or mind-destructive rage
But my destiny lies elsewhere
I'll take leave of your cage As I leave your domain
of pity and sorrow
I can only hope that perhaps
Fate grants us warmer tomorrows  ------------------
-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
Angelicus
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posted January 12, 2005 06:07 PM
I wich my english would be enought to tell tou what i feel about it...I think really women love more intensive than men,or maybe love differently, we are more addicted to love, we love our children we are beings of love.. Ive learned in my life many things, one is that are many kinds of love,´it´s a mistake put all our life in the hands of a man, because sooner or later they will disapoint us in some way,we have to learn to love them as they really are,not as we wich they would be, they are always different from it...really. So love your family, the amazing nature, your hobbies, human beings in general, your work, and yourselfs...and a man at sametime... kisses sisters IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted January 12, 2005 06:09 PM
I liked what you said, Angelicus. My mother says the same things too.Thank you  IP: Logged | |
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