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Topic: Cancerian Boys Are they matured????
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scorpiongal unregistered
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posted January 15, 2005 11:24 PM
I had to write this from long time....I am 23 years old scorpion gal and I find myself to be attracted to a Cancer boy who is 18 years old he is younger to me. I am attracted because he has got beautiful eyes with a cute smile. Other than that I think he has got great imagination and talks ony things are important.Otherwise he would be shy or quiet.I kind of like that. This person can take my scorpion stare without blinking once or feeling intimated.I think we understand each other feelings even sometimes without saying much. I am not looking forward that we would be having any great relationship or something because I would be happy to be just friends but I was just wondering can Scorpion which is definitely a matured sign and they say Cancerian are like babies. Can a relationship work in such a case? Or Will it be somethinglike that scorpio would be like Motherly figure for Cancerian baby throughout the life? I would like to know a really what Cancerian thinks at the age of 18 ? I am just curious to know so please let me know soon.
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NeoKitty unregistered
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posted January 16, 2005 11:34 PM
Hey welcome scorpiongal  I'll see what info I can find ------------------ "And dreams, don't ever forget, are the first step in manifesting wishes into reality"-- Linda Goodman's Star Signs IP: Logged |
Archer unregistered
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posted January 17, 2005 12:17 AM
trining suns make a great pair...unless its leo male + sag female, as linda good man says in love signs.IP: Logged |
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posted January 17, 2005 02:18 AM
Archer I didnt catch the Leo male, Sag female thing, or I don't remember it. Could you please explain? Thanks SG IP: Logged |
scorpiongal unregistered
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posted January 17, 2005 08:50 AM
Thanks for your replyI would be happy to get any information on it. I know trining suns get along well and I am surrounded by all water near me this time but I did had some of my worst expereience in relationship with Cancerian because he had a bad childhood and he really didn't know how to deal with girls because his mother had influenced him lot during childhood well I would post about him later but right now I just want to know a little more about little crabs. I can understand why Leo male and Sag female can't get along.Sag female can hurt leo male ego by her blunt honesty and Sag female do need her independence.What about a Sag asc Sun Scorpio female getting along with Leo male ?
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posted January 17, 2005 12:26 PM
Cancer boys But mature at 18? I don't know about that. IP: Logged |
neptune's mermaid unregistered
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posted January 17, 2005 12:30 PM
 WOW Yin, I'm glad I'm not a Cancer  IP: Logged |
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posted January 17, 2005 12:31 PM
never mind  I saw the first post.IP: Logged |
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posted January 17, 2005 02:10 PM
My brother and I are both cancers. My brother was pretty mature by age 18...he had his own place, he was fairly independent, he was devoted to his girlfriend (his now wife) and he had a job and did pretty good paying the bills. Since he has gotten older he has become more immature......however I think this is partly due to the fact that his wife (who is a Virgo/Leo cusp) tends to run everything and he is just very frustrated by it so he rebels by being rather immature....but I'm not sure how cancer males do with scorpio females but I do know that I get along wonderfully with them. My best friend is one, however although she is the dominant one in the friendship, I still tend to mother her in a way, espically when she is sad.....and my boyfriend is one and it is kinda the same way....but a bit different...I hope this helps you a little..even if your romance doesn't work out it should still be a great friendship, good luck!------------------ Jennifer Mt student www.mtacc.net IP: Logged |
was weird purple sparkles unregistered
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posted January 17, 2005 08:57 PM
hello!!well, i think it would depend on the guy, and the rest of the stuff in his chart, of course. my boyfriend, who is almost 18 (yikes!! yes, i'm more pervy than you! but i swear he is an old gentleman in a young dude's body.. seriously) is EXTREMELY mature in many ways. many many ways. he also had a very rough, horrible really, childhood. that, and spending a lot of time alone, probably matured him a lot. he is very very wise in many wise.. but emotionally.. he can be.. well, a baby. however, when i remember to be vulnerable, he is the sweetest, warmest guy.. and so nurturing. i think perhaps cancers vaccilate between being and needing a motherly type. but the self pity can be a bit frustrating. perhaps this never changes, no matter the age..? i know what you mean about the steady eyes. so unflinching and sweet, no matter what. sigh.. how's it going with him anyways? edited to add: he is a cancer RISING, but a pisces sun. so this is only somewhat applicable i think!
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posted January 18, 2005 02:35 AM
Hi, My Cancer is almost 21, and I turned 26 last month. We've been together for two years, adn it has been great. He is really mature, much more than many guys my own age. It was weird for me at first, since I had always had relationships with older guys. His sense of humor, wit, and gentlman respect just totally won me over. Its true, he's very sensitive with his feelings and gets inside his shell. I just have to remember to keep my big Archer mouth shut lol, and coax him back out when I've overdone it with my bluntness.
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posted January 18, 2005 03:05 AM
I have dated cancers that are quite funny. They make me giggle all the time. The men are sweethearts. They can be clingy and needy which I never minded. I am the same also  They need lots of attention. IP: Logged |
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posted January 18, 2005 03:06 AM
Every cancer man I have dated has always bought me home to there mother lol.IP: Logged |
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posted January 18, 2005 03:07 AM
Come to think of it. Every guy has lol.IP: Logged |
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posted January 18, 2005 03:09 AM
Go for it scorpIP: Logged |
scorpiongal unregistered
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posted January 18, 2005 10:44 AM
Hi. Thanks a lot guys I LOVE YOU ALL !kiss: It was really great to get your answers and it has kinda encouraged me.  I did gave him a biggest hint today but I am not sure what he understands by that¡ well ¡ I guess I would know the next time I see him. I am getting along pretty well and he is really sweet. He listens everything I say very attentively. Infact, he has changed himself little here and there by me just saying it one time. I don¡¯t really want to change him or something. I myself don¡¯t know whether I am the mother figure to him or what ??? Sometimes I feel like a small baby and he being cancer sign he leads few things. I really don¡¯t mind the clingy and needy behavior from him. I love it. I think that doesn¡¯t make me jealous. I remember when he was ill I could see the needy behavior¡and one couldn¡¯t think but to pamper him or love him. I am just worried that when I am thinking about marriage, job and much more serious and emotional things. Maybe he isn¡¯t or maybe he is¡..I am not sure ¡.It¡¯s when you grow up a little then you know which things are bullsh*t and which aren¡¯t. Deira: That¡¯s good to know about Sag and Cancer. Good Luck.!!! I have lots of Sag in my chart. Atlantic Mist: I am really waiting to go to his home and meet his mother and I really want to tell her how beautiful her son is? (I say beautiful because he isn¡¯t only handsome¡he has got a beautiful mind) I give lot of attention and I have been very appreciative. That¡¯s the reason he finds very easy to come to me. I still want to know from Cancer itself what do they really look into the girl when they choose one. I have seen his ex-gf and she looks little bit like me. I know that thing that the girlfriends of cancerians should also look like their mothers. I guess it would be best idea to see his mom to know how much it's true.  GAL
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posted January 18, 2005 11:48 AM
HY S- GAL , U SEEM INTERESTING , WELL ABT UR QUERY, I FEEL THE CANCERIAN S R ALWAYS MATURE (MAY BE BCZ THEY R SENSETIVE)SO I THINK HE WUD BE GR8 FOR U ,HE WUD BE MATURE ENOUGH , JUST DONT TRY TO BE DOMINANT , AS FOR DOMNANCE , CANCI R DOMINAT IN THIER OWN SENSE (WITH THIER DEPTH OF KNOWLEDGE) JUST GIVE THEM SPACE AND MOST IMPORTANT BELIEVE THEM DONT PUT UR SUSPISION RADAR ON WORK OK IP: Logged |
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posted January 18, 2005 11:50 AM
HY S- GAL , U SEEM INTERESTING , WELL ABT UR QUERY, I FEEL THE CANCERIAN S R ALWAYS MATURE (MAY BE BCZ THEY R SENSETIVE)SO I THINK HE WUD BE GR8 FOR U ,HE WUD BE MATURE ENOUGH , JUST DONT TRY TO BE DOMINANT , AS FOR DOMNANCE , CANCI R DOMINAT IN THIER OWN SENSE (WITH THIER DEPTH OF KNOWLEDGE) JUST GIVE THEM SPACE AND MOST IMPORTANT BELIEVE THEM DONT PUT UR SUSPISION RADAR ON WORK OK IP: Logged |
scorpiongal unregistered
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posted January 19, 2005 04:40 AM
I think we both are jealous types. I can sense the feeling of jealousy. yes I totally agree.No Dominating and No Jealousy !!! Please... GAL ------------------ B + is not only a Blood Group. B + is "Be Positive" IP: Logged |
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posted January 19, 2005 11:36 PM
My Cancerian guy is 9 years younger, we've been "doin it" for 2 years, he's funny, very hardworking and loyal, loves a cuddle, gets jealous, but he's wise enough not to ask (so am I)also likes to go his own way most of the time, I don't mind, cos i'm busy sometimes too. The thing is he comes back for more and when he does it's 100% him, no baggage. nice arrangement for an aquarian girl i think. Maybe one day we'll get serious, but it's a fun ride for now. ------------------ If i only end up being a notch on your bedpost, let it be a notch with a smiley face /:) IP: Logged |
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posted January 20, 2005 04:10 AM
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posted January 20, 2005 05:02 AM
"still want to know from Cancer itself what do they really look into the girl when they choose one." I can give that a shot. someone whose got my back. someone who appreciates that if there was only one bite left, she gets it no matter how hungry I am, someone I can be proud of for how little sh*t she takes from me or anyone else. someone who can say or do the things that overpower my mood, but doesn't do so deceptively. someone who gets the most bizarre joke or allusion or innuendo on the planet. not fat but curve is fine, boobs size doesnt really matter -the only thing is the nipple, right?, but great rear end, long hair, preferably red, grace, the only person I would dance with (the only person who can make me dance, someone with exquisite taste in food, drink, music, lit, theatre, all these things. someone who will let me be an absolutel lunatic to someone trying to hurt her, but not in the sake of vengeance, let me ruin my future or ours over it,
above all that, someone who smells like she does, a little clove, a little sweat, a little sandalwood, some kind of shampoo, and muffins. and sometimes when her feet smell bad they smell exactly like buttered popcorn which is just wierd. -ok i gotta go. *someone to whom can be said or can say the most brutal thing and it does nothing to harm our love.  IP: Logged |
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posted January 20, 2005 07:27 AM
aw, what a great post!!IP: Logged |
scorpiongal unregistered
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posted January 20, 2005 12:08 PM
FREDBIRD It was amazing post Everything sounds good except the last one *someone to whom can be said or can say the most brutal thing and it does nothing to harm our love. I guess the crabs get in their shell when they are hurted by other people's harsh words so how does this work.Just wondering.... It sounds you need an independent and very confident girl..Ihope I am not over analyzing.... GAL
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posted January 21, 2005 12:38 AM
I read your another post and I got all the answers, Fredbird. You really write good GAL ------------------ B + is not only a Blood Group. B + is "Be Positive" IP: Logged |