posted January 21, 2005 10:37 PM            

Are you still with this guy? It sounds terrible! What kind of cosmetic surgery are you looking for? I'm totally straying from your original topic, I know, but I'm concerned about YOU, if you don't mind

You said you had been thinking about this for a long time, so I'm sure that you've put a lot of thought into this-- you don't strike me as one to make rash, premature decisions. I don't know what you look like, but you seem very beautiful to me and to lots of us here, I'm sure! I hope you realize this!

Maybe the best dates would have something to do with which area of the body you want to have work on, as in which signs rule which body part. I hope this goes well for you and you get the results you're looking for.

Again, if I have offended you in any way, I apologize. This subject touches a deep chord in me. *edited, now that you've read this*

I may be way off base, and if I am, please accept my apologies! I'm not questioning your judgment, I just want you to be happy from the inside out and not the outside in!

posted January 21, 2005 10:48 PM              

all surgical procedures should be done during an increasing moon and within the first week of the new moon. but you also want to take into consideration your natal aspects to transiting moon.

posted January 22, 2005 01:02 PM              

They are always very cute, but don't know it, I have been dating moon in Taurus and moon in Libra men this year.

I feel very Moon in Libra, and I am attracting other Moon in Libras, or other Progressed Moons in Libra, and Scorpio. They are all going through the same kind of body, life changes.

I wanted to have the work done a few years ago, but I split with the Libra and he took a few assets. I know the reason I married him was because of my low self esteem at the time.

The issue is my nose and chin, with long hair, I could hide my chin but the Gemini encouraged me to cut it all off and dye it darker, which looked terrible. (it's naturally reddish blonde) I felt so bad, I could barely look in the mirror. I did go to a top colorist and had a dark blonde make over so I feel better, but I won't feel much more secure until the hair is down to the chin again. Of course the Gemini had lots to say about unfeminine it was. Then he starts dating a blonde (due to my low self esteem and whining).

But I do want this: the nose will be straightened and shortened. It's a typical French nose with the Irish tip, and the surgeon suggested the chin implant because he said the weak chin is what bothers me with the short hair, it's more noticeable. he said most people have the chin and nose done together and he will give me a special rate for both!

So now I don't know about the chin. I saw the computer image and my face looked a lot better with a shorter nose, but I am kind of scared of the women who work in that office, they all have Michael Jackson noses. I will get another consultation, but I do have faith that I will look better than I do now, and that's good enough.

It's set for Feb. 17th, I am getting impatient because there are checkups and long waits for any kind of cosmetic surgery. In Canada it's much less than in the US so I was shocked at how much I could afford to get done. The work is done on the inside of the nose, no scarring.

I wish I had done this years ago. The surgeon will not do the breasts and face all at once, too radical but I dont' see children in the future. So next year will be the lift and reduction. He said that's nothing compared to the nose surgery which is more complicated and painful. That sounds good to me at least it's really different. Another reason is that I look at lot like my mother, who I can't stand, and I don't want to look in the mirror and see her all the time. That has always bothered me.

Yes I know what you mean GN, thank you for the workup, Yes I am having a breast reduction and lift next year and ditto on Cancer Men. The Gemini's progressed sun is in the 4th, and Venus in Gemini this year, so maybe that's the reason he arrived. I have a few offers from Cancer Sun/Venus in Gemini men right now and I feel they come on too strong and fizzle quickly. But you know I am hypersensual myself.

Thanks, I will post some before and after pictures when I am finally finished. I know this isn't "Species" but I feel I want to be the dominant female in my sphere? I never feel that way usually but maybe I should. Maybe some competition issue from childhood? In any case I feel I am becoming more the real me, and leaving behind somebody else. I don't want to say it but I always did feel less than my sister and mother who were both beauty queens, I think this way I have my own identity and my face is my own work.

Natasha
Taurus/6th house