posted January 23, 2005 03:37 PM              

I wanted to go for coffee with him sometime soon to catch up on old times but he can't meet me anytime soon as he has a heck of a lot of work to do (or so he claims).
I can understand his reasoning but the thing is that he has done this in the past but this time I am abit p**d off and upset about it. He is not one to lie so I do believe him but surely he can make time to meet his friends and to chat?

So I am beginning to think is he a workaholic(he works 7 days a week), or am I being irrational?
All I know about his astrological signs is he is an Aquarius.

posted January 24, 2005 01:05 PM              

* He grew up the son of a Cancer Sun, Cappie Moon, Virgo Asc Army Colonel.

* His Moon's in Taurus in the 6th and he has a Scorp Asc.

* His NN's in Cancer in the 8th...making his SN in Cappie in the 2nd.

* He has 10 million Saturn, Pluto, and Mars contacts in his chart
(no, really...ok, maybe not quite that many...
Saturn Conjunct Pluto
Moon Opposition Pluto
Sun Square Pluto
Venus Trine Pluto
Mars Trine Pluto
Neptune Sextile Pluto
Pluto Sextile Midheaven
Moon Opposition Saturn
Sun Square Saturn
Mars Trine Saturn
Saturn Sextile Midheaven
Mars Square Ascendant
Mars Square Uranus
Mars Square Jupiter
Moon Sextile Mars
Mars Sextile Neptune)
and a bunch of Taurus Moon contacts as well (some of them already being listed).

posted January 25, 2005 03:58 PM              

Whether I ask him out to a movie or concert or whatever, it will be the same. Meaning, he won't be able to go.
But I have come to realise I have to be patient with him as the time will come to be together as this cannot go on forever, if you know what I mean.

So I look forward to when we will meet somewhere and discuss about our lives.

posted January 25, 2005 10:57 PM              

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~*~ Cusp: Gemini/Cancer, Cancer rising, Taurus moon ~*~

posted January 26, 2005 04:18 PM              

His Moon's at 2d Taurus and his Chiron's at 22d Taurus in his 6th.

posted January 27, 2005 11:31 AM              

Moon in the 6th -

"KEYWORDS: Work security.

Means that, as a very helpful person you like to make yourself indispensable through being of service. You are excellent at tuning in to the physical needs of others, and generally happy take on a lot of tasks - both in your career and around the house. If you are not careful however, other people will take advantage of you. You may be reluctant to say no because of your dependence on the goodwill of others. You may also waste too much energy on menial tasks, thus getting distracted from the broader visions in your life. As you are very sensitive to your working environment, you tend to worry too much about how other people are feeling. Learn to tune in to your own needs, so that you can set limits in relation to the imagined demands of others."

"Chiron in the 6th -

You can always help (or teach) co-workers do the job better than you can do it. Perhaps you are a whiz at helping everyone else get healthy (the 6th house rules health) while you still smoke and eat junk food. Learn to take care of yourself every now and then. Sometimes it works out in the opposite fashion. Someone with a 6th house Chiron might demand that everyone else serve them, and they are usually never satisfied. Of course, obviously, this causes problems too. And oh yes, let us not forget the tendency toward eating disorders. This can also manifest as strange likes and dislikes in the food department."

AND

"Here, there is usually a deep need for healing and integration of the self due to a nagging sense of lack of wholeness. You may feel as though things are wrong with you that can never be fixed, never healed...that you are somehow imperfectly made. The link between emotions and physical health is unusually strong. Control and an inability to feel secure in delegation of responsibility is another issue to be dealt with. Exercise and dietary regimes may be rigidly ordered and adhered to, but no matter what seems to get fixed, you are not satisfied. Health and healing will be important matters, and in your search for self-healing you will be drawn to help others, and teach them to help themselves with what you have learned.

By honestly and sincerely listing the areas of yourself and your life in which you feel you are whole, healed, and integrated, and then listing the things that you think are not right with you, then, for each item on the list, note the ways in which it is helping you to evolve, grow and heal, you will come to realise a profound connection with all life.

posted January 28, 2005 04:01 AM              

Patience is a virtue

posted January 29, 2005 11:44 AM              

Three examples (of many) from his life and personality which ring true to what you've found:

- He's currently on "funeral detail" for the US Army (he's one of the soldiers graveside at a military funeral firing a rifle, folding the flag, and handing it to the wife/mother/etc of the deceased...he's actually on one right now). It's a hard, demanding job - I'd say that he's gone five out of every seven nights, finding his way to places flung across Alabama, the Panhandle of Florida, and into Mississippi - but it's one that he could get out of if he really wanted. The alternative, however, would be sitting around the company area, taking calls and being a general gopher for higher ranking officers. Though it's hard on him in many ways, he likes performing his current service - he feels like he's needed and that he's undertaking an indispensable and valued task. He feels like he's making a difference to the people he sees each day, and that truly makes him happy.

- He doesn't like the *texture* of onions, garlic, and peppers. The tastes're fine, in moderation, anyhow. The *textures* get to him...to the point where he won't eat a dish if he can see those ingredients in it.
Tomatoes, too (but ketchup's fine).
That's so odd to me.
So, so odd - especially since I was raised on flavorful, tomato-filled pastas and big pieces of garlic-smothered, crusty bread.
Makes cooking dinner fun, too.
Let's just say that I've stocked up on powders...and've learned that if you puree 'em enough, he has no idea

- His stomach is super-easily upset, has been since childhood. The tiniest little stressor'll send him racing for the Pepto (or the toilet ).

posted January 31, 2005 03:15 PM              

However, if he sent almost everyday with me, that will be the greatest honour I have ever recieved!