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jenxx
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posted January 25, 2005 03:00 AM
 
All the Gemini people i know are very selfish..My dad : Selfish a boy i knew was a friend of my and he used me because he had no friends and when he went to school he had new friends so he didnt need me anymore so very selfish! a girl i know was also a friend of my but she always talked about herself and she didn't care about others. Also she had a lot of self pity. an aunt of me has also a lot of self pity and she is always jealous and thinks a lot about herself. Also another aunt is a lot like her.... Are people with their sun in Gemini a lot selfish? Or am i wrong? Oh and i'm an aquarius myself IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer
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posted January 25, 2005 03:18 AM
I've noticed this as well to a certain extent. Some geminis are very self absorbed and self-pitying, but geminis can also have a lot of great qualities like spontaneity, intellect, good listening skills...and I think that they're actually very loyal friends, however long they dissapear they always come backIP: Logged |
26taurus
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posted January 25, 2005 03:33 AM
I agree jenxx. And although I know you cant label every Gemini in those ways - all the ones I know, you can.  IP: Logged |
geminstone
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posted January 25, 2005 06:29 AM
Hey all... Maybe this is one of the lessons for Gemi's. I will admit that, I do have a selfish side of me ( the ' EVIL ' twin, hehehe...). I think we all have areas of our personalities, where there is much to be desired. The trick, at least for me, is in the want or, want not to change. Of course, one must, first, recognize their lesson! I'm still working at mine and, I get loads, of help from my family. I have to say,.... and, this could be the ' alter ego ',... I am a believer in one being selfish, to an extent. This is where I am, in my ' lesson ', because moderation is the key. If you are never allowed to be, and do, just for you,... will you remember who, ' YOU ' is? I am still a work in progress, though. jenxx,
Sorry for your situation..... I, even, think that it would be pretty difficult..... that's a lot of, close family, sharing their Gemi faults! I would dislike me too! Hopefully, someday, a Gemi can prove different to you. Apologies again! Be brave. One day, they all will be given a glimps of themselves and, it won't be one that is pleasing to them! ~geminstone IP: Logged |
GingerB
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posted January 25, 2005 08:30 AM
I've had a few misfortunes as well in dealing with Gemini's.And I wonder why that is.
I'm more the type to look for good and the best in other's, before casting them away. I'm wondering if maybe they are this way, because of their being prone to bad moods. I know several Gemini's and they are all different.
Some are very witty & entertaining, while other's seem sulky. I don't think they are all bad, but some of them can be scary, hurtful and out right mean.
Some of them can be the brightess ray of sunshine you can find in people. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted January 25, 2005 08:57 AM
 Hehe Geminis. I know lots of Geminis.
They are brilliant people if they have something in their chart making them more loyal or patient, but if not its hard. I often become completely devoted to Gem friends and then they can decide they don't like you and cast you assunder like dirt. Its very harsh. I once had a Gemini friend who completely ignored me when she didn't like me. And infront of other people, which p****d me off no end. All in all I love tem though. Its hard not to.IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted January 25, 2005 01:23 PM
My Gemini little sister must be an exception then. She is very sweet, very shy, and more than a little insecure. She lets' people walk all over her, which ticks me off extremely.She has a Pisces moon, though. You CANNOT paint people of the same sign with the same brush. It's a form of prejudism, and it's simply not fair. You could have just as easily been born a Gemini, and would have gotten your feelings hurt to read a post like that. IP: Logged |
miss_apples
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posted January 25, 2005 01:56 PM
My fiance is a gemini, he is very generous. However he can be a bit selfish in how we spend our time. We go to his friends houses all the time but he complains when I want to go to my friends. However he is overall pretty generous.I have a good friend who is a gemini and usually I attract friends who always want to talk about their lives but never want to listen about mine (which is probably the reason why I constantly blab about myself on here) but my gemini friend is one of the very few who asks about what goes on in my life. I have another gemini friend though, and as much as I love her like a sister, shes very selfish. Shes one of the main ones who always wants to talk about herself but gets kinda wierded out when I talk about myself. IP: Logged |
Atlantic Myst
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posted January 25, 2005 02:36 PM
Wierd. Never met a gemini like that except for my mom. She's a major grump. I can't even stand being in the same room as her.------------------
~*~ Cusp: Gemini/Cancer, Cancer rising, Taurus moon ~*~
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scorpiongal
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posted January 26, 2005 09:29 AM
Interestingly I am staying with a Gemini right now just for few days. I think she complaints ...complaints and complaints the whole day till she gets what she wants and maybe after that also..but she complaints after that.and I was tired just because I was listening lots of them.I think but they are interesting people and would keep you always busy.I had my best friend and I don't really remember when she was selfish...maybe I didn't care to know that. Then she talks, talks and talks ...we had good conversation...but it's difficult to have energy like geminis...they get easily bored...as for being selfish...maybe somewhere...like they would tell you indirectly what they want to do...maybe you would change your plans and then they know how to be sweet and make you feel good. I guess till they don't turn out to be really a big problem it doesn't matter for me. I also like to sit back and just listen. I like them because they don't make you jealous or don't become competitive like Capricorn or Leo.I kind of get along with them. I don't know that was of any help. ;scorpio: GAL
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neptune's mermaid
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posted January 26, 2005 10:52 AM
Personally I've never been able to get along with a Gemini. They talk way too much, and unlike with other talkative signs, I can't sit still long enough to listen. With Gemini, my attention span is drastically shortened. But I believe that's because of my chart. Both my Sun and Moon square with theirs and I have 3 Sags in my chart.This is my point, It's because of my chart that I don't get along with them, not just my Sun. Yes I sqare with them, but I also square with Sag and opposite to Virgo but I get along with them MUCH better - because of my chart. No sign is "bad", I've met Earth and Water signs that I haven't got along with due to their chart. I think you have to look beyond the Sun. Just a thought IP: Logged |
Atlantic Myst
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posted January 26, 2005 12:35 PM
I get along with all signs. Everyone has there negative qualities too. Unless you have been present when the evil twin is around. Geminis get bored easily. So hand them a good book or discuss some history or politics.  If you are not prepared to have a gemini talk you to death then don't be around them. That is part of who they are. They shouldn't have to change for anyone. ------------------
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Atlantic Myst
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posted January 26, 2005 02:15 PM
My mom complains every minute. I don't blame her. Who would be happy in a world full of war and hate ;(------------------
~*~ Cusp: Gemini/Cancer, Cancer rising, Taurus moon ~*~
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astro junkie
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posted January 27, 2005 11:10 AM
I think across the board, and according to most stuff I've read on Gem's - their number one front and focus is learning to be a good listener. Probably most of us need a dose of that too, but perhaps moreso for the Gem's because they ARE the Communicator's of the Zodiac. That's their "job". I've also observed that of any of the 3 Air Signs having a Moon in Cancer, it's the Gemini who has this most difficult time of it. IP: Logged |
miss_apples
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posted January 27, 2005 11:58 AM
my gemini fiance also complains constantly. He complains so much that I think he actually causes bad things to happen to him because of his negativity. Right now he works for a temp company doing tech support and so he is trying to find a more permanent job. Everytime he comes home from a job interview he says "That was a nice company, but they will never hire me, no one wants to hire me"Ive learned how to just sit quietly while he rants and let him get it over with. IP: Logged | |
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