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meisryan unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 10:14 PM Hey there, it's me again. I was wondering if there are any clues in my chart that point out that I'm a very cautious person with low confidence levels. If there are, which areas should I focus on to raise my confidence? ------------------ Sun in Leo, Scorpio Rising, Moon in Aquarius. Take a look at my chart. IP: Logged
Archer unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 11:12 PM either there is something wrong with ur link or my browser as when i open ur link it opens this thread again! btw, is ur ascendant virgo or pisces? IP: Logged
meisryan unregistered	posted January 28, 2005 11:48 PM Hmm, I tried the link and it seems to work. If not, try this: http://www.freewebs.com/meisryan/chartastro.gif Anyway, my ascendant is Scorpio. Thanks! ------------------ Sun in Leo, Scorpio Rising, Moon in Aquarius. Take a look at my chart. IP: Logged
Archer unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 12:04 AM as a layman what i know makes me feel that u lack confidence only because of the inner fear the leo and scorpio both have any u will rise to the occasion when time demands. get the exprets consulted. IP: Logged
Archer unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 12:05 AM btw, the link doesnot work. also, i think sun square asc square moon might me one of the resons of inner problems. IP: Logged
meisryan unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 09:01 AM Hmm... maybe I should paste this info: Ryan (male) born on 2 Aug 1985 local time 12:34 pm in Singapore, SGP U.T. 04:34 103e51, 1n16 sid. time 08:12:17 Planetary positions planet sign degree house motion Sun Leo 09Ўг50'02 10 direct Moon Aquarius 25Ўг40'03 04 direct Mercury Leo 24Ўг11'18 10 retrograde Venus Gemini 29Ўг46'53 08 direct Mars Leo 05Ўг10'26 10 direct Jupiter Aquarius 12Ўг19'49 04 retrograde Saturn Scorpio 21Ўг30'42 01 stationary (D) Uranus Sagittarius 14Ўг08'37 02 retrograde Neptune Capricorn 01Ўг16'35 02/3 retrograde Neptune is technically near the end of house 2 and is interpreted in house 3. Pluto Scorpio 02Ўг02'54 12 direct True Node Taurus 14Ўг01'44 07 retrograde House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Scorpio 05Ўг03'24 2nd House Sagittarius 04Ўг42'09 3rd House Capricorn 02Ўг38'55 Imum Coeli Aquarius 00Ўг51'12 5th House Pisces 01Ўг06'48 6th House Aries 03Ўг19'25 Descendant Taurus 05Ўг03'24 8th House Gemini 04Ўг42'09 9th House Cancer 02Ўг38'55 Medium Coeli Leo 00Ўг51'12 11th House Virgo 01Ўг06'48 12th House Libra 03Ўг19'25 Major aspects Sun Conjunction Mars 4Ўг40 Sun Opposition Jupiter 2Ўг30 Sun Trine Uranus 4Ўг19 Sun Square Pluto 7Ўг47 Sun Square Ascendant 4Ўг47 Moon Opposition Mercury 1Ўг29 Moon Trine Venus 4Ўг07 Moon Square Saturn 4Ўг09 Moon Sextile Neptune 5Ўг37 Moon Trine Pluto 6Ўг23 Mercury Sextile Venus 5Ўг36 Mercury Square Saturn 2Ўг41 Venus Opposition Neptune 1Ўг30 Venus Trine Pluto 2Ўг16 Venus Trine Ascendant 5Ўг17 Mars Square Pluto 3Ўг08 Mars Square Ascendant 0Ўг07 Jupiter Sextile Uranus 1Ўг49 Neptune Sextile Pluto 0Ўг46 Neptune Sextile Ascendant 3Ўг47 Pluto Conjunction Ascendant 3Ўг01 What do you guys think can help me feel more confident about myself and less afraid to try new things? Thanks once again. ------------------ Sun in Leo, Scorpio Rising, Moon in Aquarius. Take a look at my chart. IP: Logged
laglady unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 09:29 AM meisryan, first off.. good morning secondly, i'm under the impression taht there is a particular reason for your bringing up confidence.. would you mind going into detail about that? IP: Logged
talktome unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 10:02 AM Sometimes people have to 'learn' to be confident. It is something you will hopefully develop in time when you start to love yourself and believe in yourself :-) Find good friends and learn to trust them, I find having good friends can help build your self esteem x Love and (((hugs))) for you :-) IP: Logged
meisryan unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 10:18 AM Hey, thanks for replying. Hmm... I guess I raise the topic of confidence because I feel it is an area I need a lot of work on. Too often I have lost an opportunity to learn because I am afraid to take it. Also, I am very interested in a music career, and I know that I will need a lot of confidence in myself to do that. Also, I do have good friends, great really. It's only that too often I find myself without them for support, and usually these are the times when I feel a great lack of confidence. One more thing: I tend to worry a lot as well. What do you think I can use from my chart to help? Thanks once again! ------------------ Sun in Leo, Scorpio Rising, Moon in Aquarius. Take a look at my chart. IP: Logged
astro junkie unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 11:06 AM Acquire a WONDERFUL sense of humor about this ... Did you know you have many things in common with actress Sandra Bullock? You both have the exact same Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus & Mars!!! You may also share a few of the same Aspects .... Here's some of the "hard" Aspects which may contribute to some of your challenges Sun Opposition Jupiter Sun Square Pluto Sun Square Ascendant Moon Opposition Mercury Moon Square Saturn Mercury Square Saturn Venus Opposition Neptune Mars Square Pluto Mars Square Ascendant But I'm looking at your Pluto in Scorpio, it's natural place, and your Asc is in Scorpio as well. So any of the hard Aspects AS WELL AS the Conjunctions, Sextiles or Trines to your Pluto or Asc would intensify your Scorpio-like qualities, making you more inward or introverted. This when you have a Sun in Leo which is extroverted. We all have introverted/extroverted energies in our Charts to a degree. Sometimes you feel like being one, sometimes the other. Give yourself the freedom to do what you need to do at the time. Don't feel bad about it. If you list the Houses in which the above Planets are in (NOT your Cusp placements), then we can see even more. IP: Logged
talktome unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 11:12 AM astro junkie.. do I have any planets in common with someone famous? you are so knowledgable x IP: Logged
astro junkie unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 11:15 AM You mean besides what I just posted? She's your girl! I LOVE her and can identify with her a great deal myself. IP: Logged
Atlantic Myst unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 11:19 AM Well It has to be your aquarius moon that makes you feel like that. Open yourself up. Don't be afraid to take risks. And stop needing so much space. it won't hurt you to take risks. ------------------ ~~ Cusp: Gemini/Cancer, Cancer rising, Taurus moon ~~ Let's go... IP: Logged
meisryan unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 11:34 AM Hey thanks astro junkie for the interesting insight! I do hope Sandra Bullock comes out with new movies though, it seems like she's taking it easy. Atlantic Myst, I think you've hit the spot. I do try to be more adventurous once in a while in small things, but when it comes to the things that matter, I'm afraid to try. Sometimes I tell myself that it won't be bad at all, but deep inside I'm just afraid. ------------------ Sun in Leo, Scorpio Rising, Moon in Aquarius. Take a look at my chart. IP: Logged
jwhop Knowflake Posts: 2787 From: Madeira Beach, FL USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 29, 2005 01:50 PM meisryan, perhaps it's time for you to step back and take an inventory of your astrological assets. There is no reason for someone with a powerhouse chart like yours to lack confidence. Three personal planets in Leo, Leo on the midheaven, Scorpio Asc and Pluto in the first house. Further, you have Aries in your 6th house of work so you have all the ingredients for success in whatever you decide to do. These are the highlights from your natal aspects. Sun conjunct Mars Energetic, determined, courageous, full of self confidence. Likes to dominate, command, direct and control. Overcomes all difficulties by sheer willpower. Sun conjunct Midheaven Knows what he wants on the professional level, is aware of his objectives and does everything to achieve them, will carry out plans to the very end. Mercury conjunct Midheaven Has own ideas about things, forms his own opinions and thinks over problems for solutions. An intellectual. House placement---10th house in Leo All the leadership qualities are there, authority, sense of organization, initiative, intelligence but some thanks to be given to outside help. He is a fighter. Now, let's talk about your illusion of lack of self confidence and what to do about that. Venus oppose Neptune Lacks self confidence and his ideals are not easy to achieve. Unstable in love, perhaps unfaithful. Easy going and follows others. Notice, I said the illusion of lack of self confidence? Neptune is the deceiver and in this case may well leave you open to self deception/self doubt. Were it me, I would ignore that little voice that says I can't do this or that, put on a smile, internal and external and charge towards whatever I want. I think you will be amazed at the results but don't forget that smile. That smile will open a lot of doors for you that might otherwise slam shut in the face of someone with an overpowering personality. IP: Logged
noreenz unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 03:13 PM Jwhop~ well said. IP: Logged
meisryan unregistered	posted January 29, 2005 10:34 PM Hey jwhop and everyone else, thanks a lot for your interpretations. I will definitely keep them in mind when I feel unconfident about myself. Would you like to read some songs I've written? Here is the link: http://www.freewebs.com/meisryan/ Thanks once again! ------------------ Sun in Leo, Scorpio Rising, Moon in Aquarius. Take a look at my chart. IP: Logged
aries-chick unregistered	posted February 01, 2005 10:14 PM Hey Ryan, I saw your post a while ago and was gonna reply but I was too busy at the time..so bk to the top lol You've got some really nice songs... "Wish somebody could read my mind 'Cause sometimes I just can't explain The way I feel inside Even to myself" I really liked that..makes sense to me lol The reason you're shy I think, has a lot to do with your Scorp Asc like other ppl have said cause it does Square your Sun and your Moon. You might find you come accross totally different to the way you really are and you kick yourself for that afterwards. Like when you get comments from other ppl describing you. Say someone said "oh he's such a nice guy he's sooo shy" that might bother you because you dont feel you're shy at all on the inside but with that Asc Square you might find it very hard to project an image of yourself the way you truly feel you are. Does that make sense? So maybe a solution would be to pick either a Scorpionic aproach or a Leo one and stick to it. Or try to balance them and stick to that...either way stick to something and dont beat yourself up about it afterwards cause otherwise you'll prolly end up at odds with yourself a lot of the time. IP: Logged
sthenri unregistered	posted February 03, 2005 06:22 PM Your Sun is conjunct Mars. Yet you say you lack confidence? Could this be your own perception, that you are not confident enough? Sun conjunct Mars is almost always a go getter with a lot of emotional energy, it's hard to believe people don't notice you. If you are not happy with the way you are noticed than that is your method of expression, or communication. I have a feeling you are confident and noticed and probably magnetic. I know a Sun conjunt Mars who is always sure he is being ignored, just the opposite, he is very attractive and independent but does not assert his needs. Natasha Taurus Sun opp Neptune IP: Logged
Atlantic Myst unregistered	posted February 03, 2005 06:36 PM beautiful songs ryan such talent! ------------------ ~~ Cusp: Gemini/Cancer, Cancer rising, Taurus moon ~~ Let's go... IP: Logged
meisryan unregistered	posted February 05, 2005 08:35 PM Hey Natasha, I doubt that people find me magnetic... heh. Perhaps that's the case when I'm with my closest friends, but when I'm in any difficult social situations without the support of my friends, I probably look like a fish out of water, feeling very awkward with strangers. I'll try to keep all your advice in mind, to feel more confident about myself. Heh... thanks for the comments on my lyrics as well! ------------------ Sun in Leo, Scorpio Rising, Moon in Aquarius. Take a look at my chart. IP: Logged

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