posted March 03, 2005 02:53 AM              

I have Pisces moon and sun and was with another Pisces sun with Scorp moon, until recently!!

She and I either just didn't register in this department or I must have been doing something horridly wrong? she would simply switch off to physical contact - nye on all the time. Even during the act, she would, quite often, simply stop. ??? Doesn't sound very sexual to me? Would virtually refuse to enter into foreplay and most of the time needed a lot of attention before even becoming aroused?

As I said, could just be me? but can't say I have ever had that problem before?

posted March 04, 2005 09:55 AM              

Very flirtatious and touchy while happy! but not with just anyone - focussed on me I mean.

But the part about the sexual bit was still as described earlier - even when she was happy (with me)

posted March 04, 2005 11:08 AM              

Sorry I did not mean attention as in sexual attention - I meant as in signs that she was the centre of my attention - does that make sense?

As regards the sexual side. it just seemed that this particular individual did not place that much emphasis on the sexual act?? which for a Mars in Tauras in the first house (Aries rising) like myself was strange to comprehend I guess.

It was all very get to the basics almost immediately - job done - go to sleep!!! perhaps she was a man in a past life ha ha ha no, not funny. Sorry don't really feel comfortable talking about somebody else like this.

posted March 04, 2005 12:29 PM              

yes I know the type, funny my ex gemini b/f was like that, very basic, Mars in Taurus conjunct Mercury in the 3rd, he would like to talk, talk, go and that's it. I have never met a very passionate mars/earth sign in bed so far, to be honest, I have Mars in Sag conjunct Ascendant.

I have yet to find my sexual soulmate, but I think if you are single it's probably why,
Some people feel pain regarding being vulnerable, sex is about being vulnerable, for a lot of people it's a deep insecurity/loathing of themselves, sex becomes painful.

posted March 05, 2005 10:00 AM              

Oh yeah, I'm fully aware of that - and accepted it quite happily it is just something I have not come up against before - from a psychological point of view.