posted March 10, 2005 09:52 PM            

This does sound like a whirl-windish situation for you! If you want to know if he's interested, the best thing you can do is wait for him to email you back, since you emailed him last and now the ball is in his court. It's up to him to decide if he wants to toss it back or let it lie! In the meantime, don't let yourself get too hung up on this. You wouldn't want to put all your eggs in this basket when it's unclear as to what exactly happened between the two of you. For now, savor the moment you shared as something wonderful that happened to YOU, not as something that happened to the TWO OF YOU. Figure out how you feel about the situation itself, and how it made you feel. Not how HE made you feel, but how the moment made you feel. Consider it carefully and keep it in your mental notebook. The best way to not let yourself get swept away by possible future relationships (with him or anyone else) is to learn as much as you can about yourself first. When it comes time to go on tour, if you haven't heard from him, simply say "hello," and leave it at that. Again, you'll be leaving the ball in his court and you'll have the advantage of having the time to sit back and guage his reaction or lack thereof.

After saying all of this, it's hard to tell if he was offended by what you said. But don't let yourself worry about that. Why would you care if you offended someone you haven't gotten to know well by being yourself with no intentions of malice? The most important thing for you to remember in the midst of all this is you.