posted March 15, 2005 12:04 PM              

I'd recommend you go to http://www.thefutureminders.com

I am also meeting up with my ex on the 18th.
The transits would be good for him and me that day so let's see.

By the way did you notice you are a cusp?
http://www.starlightastrology.com/cusp.htm

posted March 19, 2005 08:58 PM              

your charts have a lot of connections, the one i found to be wow-worthy was the moon conjunct, both are sag, which is a difficult moon placement to understand unless there is sag influence. with air suns and the same fire moon you probably have the same level of mental and emotional connectivity, i think thats an awesome aspect, besides mars are conj. in virgo, venus-es are square (scorp and leo), but thats supposed to be an indication of excitement. I think this guy would be an interesting find, his sun is conjunct Uranus which is said to imply innovative thinking and a little bit of rebellion... anyhow interesting just as a side note.

anyhow today is the 19th here, i think it will be the morning of the 20th in egypt when i am writing this, what is ur update on how it went? The astro aspects i am looking at now show that moon is moving into leo, will soon be conjunct ur venus (ooh la la), plus venus is in eighth house, so ur physical appeal will be very imp at this time, play it up, if you want to get the sag moon's, and venus in scorpio's attention

venus is square sun today for you which is actually a good thing, general pleasantness i take it, however, ur ex's venus will be in opposition to pluto (watch out! may be some things he does now that he will regret later), as well as his moon entering 8th house, which is ok i guess, except not as good as ur venus in 8th.

hope it helps a bit.

posted March 20, 2005 04:47 PM              

Well I guess the regret is kicking in!

i would say, don't trust this man to come back to you permanently, he seems to have unresolved personal issues at the moment. as difficult as it is, but you must allow for him to find himself before he can get with you again, even if he does decide to be with you before he tangles out his own messes, he will probably be very complicated and cruel because he will blame his internal problems on you. You don't want that, really, you want someone who is secure and knows themselves, and then can take you along with them.

Be brave, try to find your soulmate, and question yourself about whether he is truly your soulmate?

Btw I went to Cairo and Giza two summers ago and loved it, miss Egypt a bit although I am not from there

posted March 22, 2005 02:47 AM              

I will look into his chart and do a compatibility reading on you too as well. But just at surface, let me tell you that Libra men are always a little weird when it comes to marrying the person they love. Do not be surprised if this man is completely unsure about what he wants to do in life, what his career will be, where he wants to live, and who he wants to live with. They can have serious problems deciding anything far into the future, and can be emotionally detached as well.

Is there another important woman in his life, such as , does his mother have a lot of influence over him? She may be the key to the whole situation.

I will get back to you soon about your chart and his, don't worry, things will work out I am sure for you,

posted March 23, 2005 04:34 AM              

First of all I must say you're chart is heavily one sided, luckily I only have one quadrant left ignored but yours is completely divided by hemisphere. Anyhow word of caution is, try not to become overly possessive and obsessive in relationships, and do not waste time, you have wasted much time in your life it seems.

Also your Venus and Saturn are both in Leo, not conjunct, but they do affect each other, you are perhaps more worried about your love life than the reality is, that is, you worry that your love life is worse than it really is, so try not to take everything too seriously, also you demand loyalty in relationships , like me, this man is not so loyal he is more flakey, he is torn between staying in the marriage, I think, for cultural and moral purposes, and being with the person most right for him. By just being there for him always you are cheapening yourself, do not do that, you are so so valuable, please

Venus Square Uranus: You are going to attract a lot of unstable and unconventionaly people, one of which is this man, so beware of your tendency deep inside you for excitement, try to satisfy your excitement in other ways besides choosing unstable partners, because your venus really is more important in the chart , it is in Leo so in the end you want more stability.

Very quickly, more about you, since I think learning about you is very important to understanding the both of you together: Venus is in 12th, mars in 1st will be more prominent player in the love scene, but it is in Virgo, so once again shyness, restriction, worries plague you in romance, but it is all in your thinking. Let go of yourself , free yourself and you will attract the kind of person you need.

Your DC is Pisces, you need a sensitive mutable person not this confused Libra. Also, your IC is sag, so your ideal home would be very changeable--probably lots of travel involved, active discussion and seeking of knowledge, a passionate friendly house with honesty being on the forefront. This man may give you the excitement of travel and knowledge but he cant provide, currently, stability and honesty. It is up to you to prioritize which is more important.

the ruler of your chart is mercury and its in cancer and the 11th, so look for strong relationships through your friends instead of being swept off of your feet by someone exciting.

ok on to mister wonderful here, he is even MORE one sided than you, in fact all his planets lie in houses 9-12, three houses, which is CRAZY AND BIZZARE.

ok, I will safely say that this man is more a Sagittarius than Libra--not only is his rising Sag, but he has five planets in the ninth house, which is VERY loaded, understand that he cannot commit as the word will scare him , probably along with some negative experiences with his already wife. By the way, I am going through something similar so I Can understand partially what you are going through.

His chart ruler is in Scorpio, is he sexually attracted to you? It seems taht would be the basis of his initial attractions at least.

His DC shows that he needs a partner that is both versatile, changeable and outgoing like a Gem as well as home oriented and motherlike in the Cancer way. Is his wife by any chance a Cancer? It seems so from his chart?

This man is probably very very intelligent, charming, brilliant, charismatic, probably very highly educated and argumentative, high spirited, but stubborn and rash, has he gotten into any accidents before, with cars or due to substance abuse such as alcohol?

He also has Mars in Virgo , which would make him try to repress his emotions, wherease your Venus in Leo makes mars in Virgo less shy, he has Venus in Scorp which would make him even MORE secretive about his emotions. How can you make him talk about them? Probably you can't, unless you get him to confess about it when he is away as far as possible, emotionally and physically, from his wife, as well as in some sort of deep physical attraction or situation with you. For example, asking him on the ph or email wouldnt be good, ask him in person, when youre dressed gorgeous, in a restaurant alone, how he feels, then you might get a truthful answer, this man is not a liar, he is too blunt and Sag like truth ful to be a liar, but he is scared of his own emotions, like you are .

understand that he is more like you than you would think.

posted March 23, 2005 04:48 AM              

He is mainly mutable, and water, which is good because your chart is also heaviest in mutable and water (calculated by the delineation of the charts on astro.com). You can clearly communicate with him regarding emotions and values, even if you think he will not understand he will understand every word you say.

Youre most dominant sign in the chart is Cancer, which is excellent, your sun is gemini, you have large Cancer influence, like I said earlier, his Descendant (ideal partner) is Gemini/Cancer, so you have both elements. You have everything, but something is off , the timing? The situation?

Next I am going to take a look at your composite chart:

There is a Sun/Moon trine, which is excellent indication of compatibility, as well as Sun placement in 10th house and Moon and Neptune in the 2nd--meaning this relationship will prove to be very very financially and socially rewarding for the both of you. If you have been together in the past, or do get married in the future, you will probably become rich together, or perhaps famous. If the both of you are together, you can achieve this, alone it is improbable that either one of you will reach there without the other.

posted March 23, 2005 04:58 AM              

couple of bad things: Saturn is in ninth, oh no, because remember 9th is the ruler of sag and he is a 99 percent sag despite his libra sun. not only is saturn badly placed in the house of travel and change, which is so essential to this man, but it is also squaring pluto right at the ascendant, which is horrible, its an indication of growing emotional resentment, bitterness and coldness amongst you two.

Even if this man seems wonderful for you right now you two will probably be distanced from each other through your own hurt, and you will probably grow away from one another because of the negative emotional experiences you suffer.

Pluto is in the twelfth, there is some secret in this relationship, either it is kept secret from others, or one of you two is keeping a secret from the other....

With moon in the second and some harsh aspects, although like I Said earlier you may make a lot of money together, you will probably still have financial worries or instability--that is, you may have lots of money, then very little, then lots, then little, by turns. Money is very important in this relationship, it may be the reason that the two of you even met perhaps?

Uranus conjunct the Ascendant is very weird also. There is an inborn instability in this relationship. There is something about it that makes me feel queasy.

posted March 23, 2005 05:06 AM              

this is a look at current and future planetary positions and how it will affect you two :

for you, venus is in 8th, so rebirth, death, mystery, sexuality, perhaps some violence, surprise or accident is in store. watch out, this relationship may implode or it may severely complicate

chiron aspects are favorable for you right now, but with all these venus complications i would not recommend thinking about marriage right now (!)

for you, in the long term (6-9 months from now), there will be an open opportunity for marriage, at least this is my prediction. it will be very unusual, very unexpected, and very unpredictable. if its from him or someone else, i dont know, but go with what your heart tells you then, if it is this man, then investigate it further, because there are a lot of potential problems here in this relationship.

there will be a radical change in your love life when this aspect occurs 6-9 months from now,

his horoscope reads something like, at the moment he is having a lot of emotional disturbance/stress, moons are square. Also, its entering virgo, making it more frustrating for him to express his emotions.

within the next year, he is expected to have really good aspects so far as his travel, change, education, career goes. there will be a VERY good opportunity for him to take advantage of in his love life also, it depends on whether he will take the initiative and take advantage of it or not (this is all coming from uranus/jupiter trine and saturn/venus trine in a few months).

Ok Im off for now egyptian I hope you get time to read through all this, and find it helpful.

Please answer my qs. in the middle of the writing and let me know if I was completely off or not, I could be totally wrong, dont get too worried about anything,

posted March 23, 2005 06:58 AM              

Thank you SG... YOU ARE REALLY HELPFUL
and really i need to be one of your friends like talking on messengers because i really feel that you are a very good person..