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Topic: Right, everyone, should I do this?
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The Mutable Night Force
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From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted March 28, 2005 04:31 PM
  
Ok, before ayone judges me here, bear in mind I'm 14- not just a retarded adult.Okey dokey, right well my friend and I have liked this guy for a long while now, I'm thinking about sneakily giving him my phone number, only it's pretty obvious we like him and I think he's embarrassed (we are a little weird). Anywho, I am a Virgo with an Aries Moon, he is an Aries with a Pisces Moon. My friend is a Scorpio with a Gemini Moon. Based on these facts-
1) How well will he take me giving him my number?
2) Bearing in mind the harrowing fact this proccess will involve going behind the back of a Scorpio girl in lust, how badly will I be smite-ed here?
Just wondering.....
Mutable xxx
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lalalinda
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From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2005 05:41 PM
bearing in mind that all is fair in love and war, and with the exception of something all ready happening between them (phone call, date, whatever) there is nothing wrong with cultivating this friendship/relationship.
You have a double connection with this guy your moon conjunct his sun and his moon opposite your sun (a good aspect in comparison) slip him your number? Aries is so bold  IP: Logged |
aries-chick
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posted March 29, 2005 08:58 AM
Go for it. You know you'll just be kicking yourself if you don't. So give him your no and see what happens.. He has a Pisces moon, he's sensitive and likes mystery on the inside. Try communicating with your eyes.. Nothing overly blunt.If he likes you then he does and that's that.. If she's your friend then hopefully she'll understand that and move on, plenty more fish in the sea.. And if he doesn't, then at least you tried right? IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted March 31, 2005 09:47 AM
Thanks. I would have tried before but I have a big fear of rejection and I'm scared he thinks I'm an ugly weirdo really (which is quite probable).I used to say hi to him quite a bit but haven;t spoken to him for ages and I'm not sure how to approach the whole number giving thing. We're in holidays at the moment so I'll give it to him next term.....
I do make eye contact with him quite a lot...ahh he has lovely eyes...  It's his birthday in three days. Crap.. and then he'll be sixteen. IP: Logged |
aries-chick
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posted March 31, 2005 10:54 AM
Ok 1st of all you're not an ugly weirdo.. and I strongly doubt he thinks that. Like you've said before he's shy, maybe he just seems scared when he isn't really .. he's just shy about the whole thing.You asked how well he'd take it.. I think it depends on how you do it.. I mean you haven't spoken to him for a while. If you just walk past him at school, stop him and say "hey here's my no" I think that might go down a bit.. strangely lol - though it'd leave an impression so it's not totally outta the question  Do you both have mobiles? It's easier with mobiles.. Like you can have a convo with him while playing arround with ur mob and go "wats ur no" and then prank call it (ppl always do the prank call thing)"to make sure you got it right"..so he'd have yours That way at least you'd have his number and if he doesn't call, you can call him up a couple of weeks later and ask him to go out with you and some friends or something.. Is he in any of your classes? That would make it a lot easier to talk to him.. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted March 31, 2005 11:15 AM
Or you can simply give him a B-day card and write your number in it. His Pisces moon will love that you thought enough to give him a card. Kill 2 birds w/1 stone. I hope that it is not to late. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 31, 2005 12:55 PM
yes! great idea MamaMia
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Mama Mia
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posted March 31, 2005 01:24 PM
Thankyou Lalalinda *takinng a bow as I say that* IP: Logged |
aries-chick
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posted March 31, 2005 07:40 PM
yay a card.. That's a great idea actually. I think he'd really like that. I'm an Aries, I'd like that  Mama Mia IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted April 01, 2005 07:06 AM
aries-chick, I really like the way you think but unfortunately we're not even in the same school!!!!
I go to an all-girls school and he goes to an all-boys school. We get on the same train most mornings so I see him there.I thought about giving him a birthday card but wasn't sure if that was a bit forward or creepy like "Happy Birthday love (my name)" like "Who the hell is (my name)??" I mean, we don't really know each other. About half a year ago, me and my friend said hi asked him what his name was, his birthday and what year he was in so that's how I know stuff about him. But we don't KNOW each other...
Besides what kind of card? and how should I give it to him?!
Sorry, I'm really clueless.
Are there any other Pisces Moons/ Aries Sun guys out there who can say how they'd feel in this situation? Thanks everyone IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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From: nevada
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posted April 01, 2005 11:43 AM
no its not creepy or forward or anything negative, its charming and thoughtful and I'm sure you'll get a positive response. 
(don't use the word love but do include your number)so you can keep in touch.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted April 01, 2005 12:13 PM
Yes and have some confidence and faith in yourself to start. Men love confident women.
Be his friend Pisces Ppl love to be friends moon or sun Pisces. Go for it!!!!! IP: Logged |
Battle of Evermore
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posted April 01, 2005 10:52 PM
Hi everyone! A card.. that's a great idea. I did that like twice with a guy, but didn't include my number.. I saw him all of the time anyway, but yeah I think guys really like that.  IP: Logged |
aries-chick
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posted April 02, 2005 12:28 AM
I still think the card thing's a good idea.. but having in view you don't go to the same school, you just catch the train together and you haven't spoken to him in a while... I don't know if a hectic morning on the train ( :edit: I remember catching the bus for school every morning it was absolutely packed - but maybe thats not your case - if it's quiet enough and feels like the right time I guess you could still do it on the train) is the best time to give him a card. Either way no matter what you choose to do about giving him your no or getting his no... I think you should spark coversations with him first.. either on the train or in the stop, if you guys catch it at the same stop. Just to talk to him a couple of days in a row before you bring up the number thing, only because it's been a while and it's prolly easier for both you and him to be on talking terms.. so it doesn't feel awkward to ask for or give numbers.IP: Logged |
14stars
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posted April 02, 2005 05:01 AM
well,I also liked somebody when I was in high school ,it was bad try by that time,but it is good for me to give the feeling out anyway.it is bad to keep it all inside,you know.
and I had asked a guy to go out to a party with me one time,too,I actully don't know him,but It seems like I would want to get to know him,that was a time that I get a free party tickets from my friend,and I need to find a partner to come with me fast ,so I just ask him on board ,he agreed ,it was like that we had a very good time that evening.pure friendship thing ,but very romantic and sweet.IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted April 02, 2005 06:51 AM
Thanks! Everyone's given fantastic advice!
I think I'll give him a card, if I have enough guts, but er..... just so no one feels like they're advising me wrongly here, perhaps I should point out me and my friend have been giggling and swooning behind this guy's back for ages now. I think he's pretty much guessed we have a crush on him and he never says anything to us. Although we sometimes make eye contact...
From an astrological POV, will he be freaked out? Does he think we're creepy stalkers?? How the hell do I start a conversation with him? sorry, I'm blathering now.... Thanks anyway IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
Knowflake Posts: 982
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 02, 2005 09:46 AM
Hi Mutable ~
You're not blathering, you're just asking all the questions one asks in their mid-teens!
You asked, would he be freaked out if you gave him a card. Let's put the shoe on the other foot: would YOU be freaked out if HE gave you a birthday card, or how would YOU feel?
If he thought you were "creepy stalkers" you would probably never see the guy. If you see him on the train every morning, then he's not trying to avoid you, ie, he could take an earlier train if he really was upset about your attentions.
How do you start a conversation? Well, you know more about him than we do....does he like to watch or play sports? Ask what his favorite pro team is, or if he plays in a school league. Does he carry books around? Notice a book that he has and ask him what he likes to read. Have you seen any good movies lately? Ask him if he's seen "X" and how he liked it.
Most people love to talk about themselves (especially guys!  ), so once you get a subject started, it should feed into other subjects. Ask him about his family, or where he grew up. Tell him you're studying astrology and you're taking a poll about (**insert anything you can think of**), say, Pisces Moons, and has he noticed how he feels when the Moon is in Pisces vs when the Moon is in his Sun sign. From your studies, ask him something like, isn't it weird how you feel more moody when the Moon's in Cancer (or anything comparison like that which comes from planetary transits). Ask him if anything weird has happened to him during this Mercury retrograde which lasts until April 12th!
Good luck and have fun -- this is all about having fun!
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pixelpixie
Newflake Posts: 8
From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 02, 2005 10:51 AM
Yes, Give him a card.
I know you say you don't even know him.. well, how can you expect to if you don't initiate?
Don't put too many expectations on it, keep it lighthearted. if you don't want to include your phone number ( maybe just your email address?) then don't.. the card enough will probably open a window of opportunity, at least a conversation. THEN, you can say you know him..... At the very least, there will be one more person to take a moring journey with.. so you have a crush on him.. treat it lightheartedly.
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The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: England
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted April 03, 2005 10:13 AM
Thank you thank you thank you! To everyone etc... yeah, I definately feel more comfortable about this whole thing now.About how I'd feel if he gave me a birthday card- probably I'd think it would be really sweet... but then I'm a girl, I don't think a guy would think the same way but then it's worth a try IP: Logged |
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