posted April 21, 2005 05:28 PM            

I see why it has been so hard for them to split they seem so connected.

Him

Sun Aqua 4th house
Moon Aqua 4th house
Merc Cap 3rd house
Venus-Aqua 4th house
Mars-Aries 5th house
Jupiter-Scorpio 11th house
Saturn-Taurus 6th house
Uranus Libra 11th house
Pluto-Sag 1st house
Asc Scorpio

Her

posted April 21, 2005 07:34 PM              

interesting they both have a boat load of 4th house as well as asc square sun, which could project a good outward image to folks not living within the home, when in fact, things aren't as solid as they appear.

posted April 21, 2005 08:28 PM              

At a brief look without checking out my astro sftwr.

... 1 thing to consider is that they have been together 13 years .. that be near to a Saturn opposition in their composite chart ... also at some point Pluto would have been (or is) at a challenging angle to her Saturn ... maybe have a look at their respective (+ the 'composite)
outer planetry transits + the respective .. if any.. 'progressions'
... also at some point Pluto would have (or is ) at a square aspect to his Sun ... also Saturn has being doing a number recently as it went retrograde by 20 degree ( is now 'direct' again) .. it may have been squaring her Moon and Venus possibly thrice ... and her natal 4th house Saturn ...
... also check out the chart data when their relationship / marriage started

idea .. would be a lot easier to check this out ( for moi .. in any case) if the actual birthdata could be posted i.e. dates .. times .. birthplaces
or e-mail the data to kozmos@blueyonder.co.uk ( and put the numeral six between 'kozmos' and the @ symbol .. or it will go missing ) and i shall endeavor to take a closer look ...'n post back what info i can
to take a proper look at the transits .. would need the degrees 'n minutes of their planetary placements

... outer planetry transits have a reputation in relationship breakups ... Saturn .. Uranus ... Pluto can really put on testing pressure by the more difficult transits i.e square .. opposition .. 'n poss. the cojunction ... especialy to the natives personal planets

also midpoint transits and such could be considered

also .... Uranus may have been at a difficult angle to their Sag and Virgo placements .. and conj. the Pisces

all the poss. 'n maybe's .. are 'cause need specific data to look at ... those 'outer planets ' move rather slowly

there be a bit of rudimentry info on transits at www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk .... there be a lot 'o info missing as well
suggestion ... research as much as you can .. by many different authors .. via libraries etc .. on the nature and meaning of the various transits
and their effect on relationships

all the best
Si @ HD

posted April 22, 2005 09:07 AM              

... I be sort of wondering about the poss. of an Uranian by transit influence here
'cause of its' separating influence ... its been in Pices since 3/2003 .. so been
squaring Sag 'n Gemini + opposing Virgo

... Uranus squaring up to Sag .. (his Pluto .. her Asc) ...

... anyways transiting Uranus to natal Pluto can make one realy feel like sweeping
the board clean and starting all over again ... had it myself a few years back

... mama mia ... did this all come about suddenly ????

posted April 22, 2005 11:56 AM              

(She said he like to have died. )
... i be at the other side of the atlantic ..
does that mean it took him by suprise ?? .. or he be looking for the nearest cliff ?
... methinks i should take a look at what Neptune has been up to...

( BUT he will not stop cheating.. )
oh no !! ... this be getting interesting
just rechecked those house placements ... mmmmm
BTW. what house system was used ?? .. ( when u post data )