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Topic: Help: How to seduce a Sag?
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sweetlibra unregistered
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posted May 05, 2005 12:43 AM
I am totally hooked by this sag. But he is always with his friends (men & women) I know he loves my company as much as i do. But if i didnt take the initiative to meet him, we dont meet at all..! he is driving me nuts. I am going to meet a Leo friend( have never met him before) this week end. Just a friendly meeting, but i presented it as a romantic one to the Sag (since just the reference of this guy makes him uneasy ) I only know its not me. i never play such games. I am rather direct. But i dont have a clue what to do with this Sag. We call each other every 3 hr or so. I once commented playfully 'music is better than man'. Now whenever i speak of meeting he asks me to listen to music..!All Sags out there( or those who have dated sags), please help me. IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet unregistered
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posted May 05, 2005 01:04 PM
Found this online: Seduction of the Sagittarius Man
Sagittarius is very charming, showy and optimistic. Sagittarius loves to wander and travel. Seduce Sagittarius by surprising him with a sudden trip or holiday. Sagittarius is a dual sign, so if you want to seduce Sagittarius you must be able to cope with his half-man/half-horse behavior, his need for fun on the one hand and his need for philosophical conversations on the other hand. Sagittarius can be sloppy at times (that's the horse-part), and very well dressed on other occasions (that's the human part of this Centaur). You will not seduce Sagittarius by giving him advice. He will give you advice. Also, you will not seduce Sagittarius by clinging too much to him. Try to be his best friend. He loves sports and outdoor events, so why not inviting him for a good work-out? Sex is one of their sports. Sagittarius is a fire sign, and all fire signs need action! They need fun and laughter too. Invite him to a party. Sagittarius loves to be direct and showy. Be impulsive and direct.
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bodysnatcher unregistered
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posted May 05, 2005 01:13 PM
ok being a Sag man just be yourself and make sure you're interested in the things he has to say even if it is bs sometimes and never throw jealousy in the mix as we are happy to go and find someone eles you doesn't play mind games. Listen, listen , listen don't ignore him when he's talking. Be intrested in the things he likes.IP: Logged |
maya-v unregistered
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posted May 05, 2005 01:20 PM
LOLTry adding a touch of mystery ... while being a great buddy to hang out with. And show him how well-read and wise and exotic you are. Talk abt religion and philosophy. Make jokes, make him see your incredible sense of humor. Catch his eye, talk abt stuff you know he likes and all the time, pretend not to especially notice him. Drive him crazy by being just out of reach. Good luck. Those are a lot of fun! Whats your sign by the way? And it would help if you could tell his ascendant, chart etc IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 05, 2005 01:30 PM
YAY!!!! Another Saggie...and you're a dude to boot ...Cool beans....I have nothing really to add. I think that TP and Maya gave great advice. If you can find Linda Goodman's Love Signs and Sun Signs you will also learn alot about the Archer male. Good Luck!! ~Pidaua Sag Sun / Aries Moon / Venus in Sag
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sweetlibra unregistered
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posted May 06, 2005 01:23 AM
Thanks TP. hmm i think i advise him a lot especially since he's not got a suitable job yet. I'll try to be his best friend. its difficult not to be clingy perhaps i've to concentrate on my aqua moon  Saturday he has invited me for an office party. I guess its more of like to introduce me to his girl friends(grrr he has tons of them). I was so mad at him yesterday that i thought i wont go for the party.!bodysnatcher, i am a gr8 listener. but i have to take care of jealousy part. i am not good at playing mind games anyway. i am very direct. but he drives me crazy. yesterday i said i wanted to meet him. he agreed to come to my apartment. then his roommate wanted him to go to office with him. he left with him and called me up to say he's in office..! i went mad. i dont remember what all i said. but it was something like 'dont take me for granted'. he kept silent and then i cut the phone saying i am going to sleep. this is happening since last sunday. i dont have a clue why. somehow i link this with the experience i had with my ex and vent my anger on sag  Maya,I am Libra sun,Aqua moon & Taurus rising. HE is Sag sun, Virgo moon & rising. I dono if it'll drive him crazy, by being out of his reach. We havent met since last saturday and he's enjoying with his friends. its me who's going mad without him  Pidaua, i dont have a copy of love signs i tried to get it but didnt succeed so far. IP: Logged |
zoso Newflake Posts: 15 From: Reno, Nv Registered: Nov 2009
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posted May 06, 2005 04:18 AM
Here a good thread to check out!! http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum13/HTML/000386.html IP: Logged |
talktome unregistered
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posted May 06, 2005 05:41 AM
Hiya Sweet Libra, I can understand your dilemma, Saggies are very independent and do need their own space. Just have patience and when you find a quiet moment just be honest and sincere with him. Above all saggies need truth and honesty. x Good luck xx Love G xIP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted May 06, 2005 12:20 PM
My grandad is a Sagittarius with some Virgo in his chart I think... He is quite Virgoan sometimes... can be extremely fault-finding (not with me, mainly my mother, who is also a Virgo like me). He is a very knowledgable guy, but also has an evvvvvvvviiiiiiiilll sense of humour. He loves practical jokes and loves crude toilet jokes as well. But then again, he is also an incredible buisiness man and well-read and articulate. His favourite film is the Mel Brookes film 'The Producers'- very funny film... maybe this will give you an insight to the type of guy? Maybe not... Oh, and he's quite superficial with looks- so BE PRETTY! (If this guy is at all similar). He even broke it to me when I was younger once that I was getting a bit chubby like "No, darling, you have a curvacious shape but you're not skinny or anything!" Somehow managing to be charming and insulting at the same time.... amazing!  IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2005 03:57 PM
Actually MNF, he is VERY Saggie...we point out faults, not meaning to criticize, but in order to be honest. A Virgo will nit pick what you have done: "why did you leave the light on?" "You didn't clean that dish all the way" "Hmmm, you look pretty fat, maybe you shoud go on an herbal diet"..etc.. A Saggie will say "Hmmm, that color makes you look fat" or "You will never be thin deal, but you are very voluptuous and that is beautiful". I can be critical when I get in a foul mood and somene has been very critical with me. My Fiance is a Taurus with a Virgo moon ( I have a Virgo rising). I am hard on myself, but I try not to pick on the actions of others but I won't beat around the bush either. He can be an uber-critic at times..when it finally gets to me I will point out his faulty methods.... My ex-hubby was a Virgo Sun / Gemini Moon / Merc in Virgo... he could be downright mean in his critiques, but he never meant it in a malicious manner - it was his way of helping. IP: Logged |
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 196 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 06, 2005 05:13 PM
The sag men I've dated liked outdoor activities. We'd take long walks, ride four wheelers, and go fishing. One thing I've found about these guys is that they always welcome you to come along, but if you can't, they won't usually wait around for you. When they fall in love, they kind of remind me of shy little boys. It's very sweet! But that can go too far and they try to get away with things by pulling out the innocent little boy charm. Who? Me???? Believe in his crazy dreams and help him supply the foundation. He is looking for a buddy who believes in him more than anybody else ever did. This is one of the keys to his heart!  IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 210 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2005 08:07 PM
future and pidaua have the key points about a sag...one, believe in the sag's dreams and support them and two, sags are blunt but aren't malicious. Sags are the cheerleaders of the zodiac and boost up everyone, hoping for the same in return. We're very direct in communication and tend to think out loud, sometimes leaving out critical details/information (and thusly are misunderstood). Dreams, ideals and enthusiasm for a Sag is pretty much their essence. kisses Laura (also a sag)
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zappy unregistered
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posted May 06, 2005 11:29 PM
Double sagittarius here! Rawr! haha umm... I think just keep pursuing, be urself, IP: Logged |
Deira unregistered
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posted May 07, 2005 07:32 PM
Just be yourself, and be his friend as you've been doing so far. I've always been friends with guys first before getting involved with them. About romantic involvement, usually we aren't in a big hurry to get serious. Life is placid and fun for thee Archer, and we like to take our time before making a big committment. However, once we are secure in our feelings we are very honest and will not likely play games. Finally, I wouldn't be too threatened by his many female friends. Archers are friendly, and just love being around people. IP: Logged |
sweetlibra unregistered
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posted May 09, 2005 01:37 AM
Thanks talktome. I am very honest with him (sometimes blunltly i guess).Hi MNF,ya he's very particular about looks. Its difficult for me to differentiate between his jokes and criticism..! pidaua, I guess he's more of saggie when it comes to criticism. He says he loves to tease me just to see my pouting face :-o Future uncertain,He has that shy little boy thing. I am afraid of him getting away with that 'who me?' question now i remember how intensely he asks 'dont u believe in me?' and i always says playfully that i dont. Laura, you sags are a wonderful breed indeed  zappy, i am a gr8 pursuer  Deira, i know that 'not in a hurry' thing. He says he likes me a lot. but when i ask 'do u love me?' his answer is 'No questions please'. I dono why my sag doesnt like questions..! The only thing i cant understand is why cant he say i love u when he himself says i am very precious to lose. Are sag/virgo/virgo afraid to commit? He says he loves bachelor life. He looks pretty lazy for me. He's content with a job which is way below his qualification. This is quite alarming as he was the most popular kid in high school. Do they seek for a settled life and/or a consistent partner? My taurus asc wants to settle  ------------------ Happiness is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, The more it will elude it. But if you turn your attention to other things, it comes softly and sits on your shoulders... IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted May 11, 2005 11:22 AM
A Libra seducing a Sag? PLAYTIME!!!!
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bodysnatcher unregistered
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posted May 19, 2005 11:45 AM
ok Sweetlibra before he balks out the door on another office visit try and come up with a spur of the moment trip out of town even if its only for a day, i would love that myself, i'm doing things like that all the time, most of the time by myself.IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet unregistered
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posted May 19, 2005 01:15 PM
Avoid him a little  IP: Logged |
soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 522 From: ←↓↑→ Registered: Jan 2010
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posted January 18, 2011 01:47 PM
"Also, you will not seduce Sagittarius by clinging too much to him. Try to be his best friend.He loves sports and outdoor events, so why not inviting him for a good work-out? Sex is one of their sports. Sagittarius is a fire sign, and all fire signs need action! They need fun and laughter too." This is good, and applies to both females Sags as well I think lol. My past relationships, the good ones, all started out as friendships. I've felt a certain awkwardness when a guy actively pursues me without being friends first, like they're trying to achieve a goal lol. Friendship is the base of a good relationship. ------------------ “If malice or envy were tangible and had a shape, it would be the shape of a boomerang.” — Charley Reese IP: Logged |
staborgi Knowflake Posts: 418 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 10, 2011 08:25 PM
I'm a Sag with Venus and a lot of other placements there and in the 9th...I think the main thing Sags find attractive is a sense of joy and excitement about the world...I'd check his Venus sign for an idea of what attracts him and what his values romantically though...in any case, I wouldn't take offense to his not making plans with you. How long have you known him? Sags in my experience are not usually the ones to make plans- usually other people have to pin them down because Sag's head just doesn't function in the world of "hey let me call you up and make a plan to hang out!"IP: Logged |
MertSerimer Knowflake Posts: 84 From: where the fun is Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 08, 2011 09:00 AM
I have MC,Venus, Sun, Mercury,Juno, Dark Lilith in sagittarus. As you see i am a pure sagit :PAnyway, if i ignore my moon(in pisces), i would say definitely " be close friends with him" firstly. Be funny and adventerous, sometimes make psychological and philosophical jokes and talks. Go to parties with him, do intellectual talks and always be ready to fun with him. They can be sure fickle if they have many things in sag in their natal chart as i do. Your LOOK -ESPECIALLY hair - must be messy for seduction. Give him to image that you can do anything with him especially travel and "lets go now".
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