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lovely lioness
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posted May 19, 2005 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everyone,

I know having Venus and Mars in the same sign most likely means there is a strong attraction between the man and woman.

But what is the attraction like when it comes to each sign? Is it the same regardless or it in more intense w/other signs? I am guessing it depends.

For example: A woman w/Venus in Aries, a man w/Mars in Aries (or vice versa)? Would it be sudden? Impulsive? Instant? How would they interact with each other or how would they go about getting their attention? What would the attraction feel like? What about if it were in the same sign as Taurus? (determined?) Gemi? (flirty, chatty?) Cancer? (shy, but affectionate?) Leo? (passionate, dramatic?) Virgo? (modest?) Libra? (romance?) Scorp? (mysterious and lusty?) Sagi? (charming?) Cap? Aqua? Pisces?
I can take a guess with a few of them, but I really have to think about it.

Could anyone give examples of how each sign might behave? I am very curious and I thought this seemed like an intriguing topic. Any thoughts? I'd love to hear 'em!

take care knowflakes XXOO

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sunshine9
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posted May 19, 2005 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunshine9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hiya lioness!

I can speak for the Venus conjunct Mars in Pisces. Venus (in Pisces) acts soulful, sweet & almost demure; she can be self-sacrificing, putting others' needs above her own; she is really in her element when someone needs her! To get her, Mars (in Pisces) acts sweet & sensitive, also very soulful; he can be very thoughtful & selfless with her, to win her affections; he can be her knight in shining armor! This attraction between them draws them to each other from the very beginning, and can be like a thread or undercurrent thru the whole relationship. Even if the two are not together, it can make for a very playful, flirtatious relationship. And if they are, it can feel truly wonderful!

sunshine

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lalalinda
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posted May 19, 2005 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
good question
consider that if (a)'s Mars is in Aries and
(b)'s Venus is conjunct in Aries
the conjunction will show (undeniable attraction, Mars and Venus) but...
Mars is home and strong
and
Venus is debilitated

same thing with
(a)'s Mars in Libra (debilitated)
conjunct (b)'s Venus in Libra (home and strong.)

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lovely lioness
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posted May 19, 2005 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sunshine and lala, thank you for your input!
Very interesting. I was wondering how Venus conjunct Mars in Cancer would be (I have Venus in Cancer). Cancers can be so timid, but it could be different if their was that Venus/Mars attraction. Hmmm. (??)

Also this just popped in my head...what about oppositions?
(just some examples..)

Taurus~Scorpio

Capricorn~Cancer

Leo~Aquarius

Aries~Libra

ect...ect...

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ScotScorp
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posted May 19, 2005 06:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Lionness!

I have Mars/Venus/Sun in Scorpio, and my man has Venus in Scorpio, 3 degrees away from my Mars. (And 4 degrees from my Venus and Sun)

I don't know how else to explain it, except that it's like a magnetic attraction. We are on the same wavelength when it comes to everything. Lusty would be a great way to put it. Conscious of every move, very focused and intense. Not really mysterious, because we know each other. Physical togetherness, no matter what we're doing, is very important. Little touches here and there, usually on the sly, especially in public. I would say most people wouldn't catch us making out outside the house, because we wouldn't stop and we'd get ticketed for an obscene act!

Angela


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Scorpio/Leo/Leo

"All things are bound together. All things connect." Chief Seattle

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posted May 19, 2005 06:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Synastric Venus/Mars CJ in Pisces gives a lovely, romantic exchange...when practicalities aren't present (daily life tends to overshadow the good bits). Soft and fluffy and cuddly and snuggly - you get the idea. Curling up together away from the world.

Re: opposites: magnetic attraction (i.e. Taurus and Scorpio) - can't live with or without each other, long-lasting bond but wish they could cheerfully strangle each other. My parents have this bond both ways and my father still is married to, and sees my mother, even though he lives with another woman. They have been married 40 years.

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Deira
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posted May 20, 2005 01:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi another Scorpio conj. here. Very intense and magnetic attraction. I remember on our first date, I was blown away by how intrigued I was by him. No man has ever fascinated me so much, by just holding his hand... I was mesmerized (still am) and overwhelmed by how connected I felt to him, without knowing him all that well. Its been two years, and the feelings are still amazing.

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Marlene
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posted May 21, 2005 11:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have my Venus in Scorpio and he has his Mars in Scorpio.(anyone care to get into more details ?)

The first night we had sex,his boxers ended up on the chandelier

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alanabelle86
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posted May 21, 2005 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my venus is in scorpio and my bf, the absolute love of my life, has his mars in scorpio.

physically, we can't let each other go. being a sag, he wants his space, and i sure do need mine, but its not an option. lol, we're like magnets to one another. it's really mystifying.


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starflower
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posted May 30, 2005 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A very special person in my life and I both have Venus and Mars in Cappy. Both are conjunct in both charts less than 8 degrees.

The pysical attraction is intense, but we find it hard to come together emotionally.We are both very reserved and very wary of getting in too deep.
I am very much in love with him, very afraid of the depth of my emotions, and he takes a step toward getting close and then two back.

I could say that I dont have a clue where I stand with him.

Thats not true - my instinct tells me he feels the same way that I do - but one of us has to break the Venus in Cappy reserve.

I should mention that we both have afflictions to our Venus which also makes the emotional distance more intense.

So to sum up, intense physical attraction. The feeling of wanting each other sexually for the rest of our lives, but difficult to open up emotionally.

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pixelpixie
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posted May 30, 2005 10:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a very close orb with someone I know... Mars/Venus exact conjunction ( difference of .43... yes...POINT 43.)
It is intense to say the least.
I find it is a door I have a lot of trouble closing.
I can feel its intensity even through the cracks.....
But It can't be...

It would make an interesting Astrology study though, as We also have Trining Venus/Mars, first house Sun/Moon contact, Saturn Conjunct/Saturn Opposed....
Moon opposed Eros, (his eEros in my twelfth house) Juno in fifth house, Pluto square Venus,
All these 'powerful attraction' influences....
It is seriously one of those 'fated' charts...

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted May 30, 2005 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lalalinda, I'm not sure I'm following what you were saying before about the home and strong and debilitated thing. Could you elaborate?

Can anyone tell me anything about a Gemini Venus Mars connection?

The one guy I know whose Venus is conjunct my Mars, I find really attractive... I don't know how he feels.. following this, technically- good, but I don't know!
But I do know, that last time we were in a room together I felt something... although I'm probably dellusional. It was just the sort of thing like when I looked at him or something.. well, for me, anywho.

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lalalinda
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posted May 30, 2005 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi mutable night force,

I'll answer your Mars and Venus in Gemini question first.

When you have Mars or Venus in Gemini you literally are drawn to people who are witty. Words and ideas are important, one word/sentence inspires another and it spirals from there. This is alluring, a big turn on, you are attracted to this type of interaction. Attraction is mental.

Understanding Geminis energy is important. It is ruled by Mercury which is neither feminine or masculine, its actions lean toward whatever aspects its making. example: conjunct Mars would make it masculine, conjunct venus would make it feminine.

Mars conjunct Venus in Aries is attracted by something totally different. Mars here is into the chase, winning the game is important. Sex is the prize. Venus here is bold (not a trait associated with Venus) and somewhat masculine (in that they'll chase as hard as they'll run). I have yet to meet a coy Venus in Aries. The attraction here is in Venus independant streak (a big turn on for Mars in Aries) Mars may get the prize but it doesn't get control, again because its so independant.

get it sweetie?
Mars works great in Aries (where it is home) and Venus here is in detriment (Aries is too masculine for Venus) but conjunct in any sign its giving what it wants to get.

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sweetlibra
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posted May 31, 2005 06:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mars conjunct my Sag's Venus in Scorpio.
Its a powerful attraction. The moment i saw him i was attracted to him like anything.

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aries-chick
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posted May 31, 2005 06:15 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I experienced it in Taurus well kind of.. My venus is at 29'50 somethin in Aries.. and his mars was at 2 deg Taurus (and the conjunction was opposed to both our plutos) It was a very strong, imediate attraction.

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Cassy
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posted May 31, 2005 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cassy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks LL. I have just found out why my man (Libra Sun) and I(Capricorn sun), who are total opposites seem glued together. He's got Venus in Scorpio and I've got Mars in Scorpio *blushing*

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cat lover
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posted September 07, 2008 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cat lover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anyone know how guys with mars in capricorn behave!

I have a soft spot for this guy who has mars in capricorn and venus in libra.

Both of my venus and mars in air signs trines his venus. But i was curious to know about his mars aspect.

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katatonic
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posted September 07, 2008 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for katatonic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and what if the conj were in virgo? any experiences or suggestions??

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posted September 07, 2008 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lalalinda has hit the nail on her head there about gemini and aries mars-venus conj. I have it with my partner in gemini and it is definately a mental attraction of the strongest kind. Yes words and wit are a massive turn on...

Virgo - probably the meeting of two people in the enjoyment of practical, earthy pursuits. The desire maybe to serve each other but yet be able to correct each other's mistakes. Good aspect for every day living, getting things done.

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Dani California
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posted September 08, 2008 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dani California     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ohh this is a good topic!!

So, I have venus in cancer at 2 degrees and he has mars in cancer at 19 degrees. Is that a conjunction? I can never remember to work it out LOL.

Anyway, the venus/mars in cancer thing is quite nice, very cosy type thing, very tender at times and sort of nuturing too. Aww!!

Also he has his desc in capricorn at 2 degrees which sits on my cancer venus at 2 degrees Woooo, Nice!!

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