posted May 30, 2005 11:03 AM              

I myself have the same aspect in the natal chart and the usual explanation is that you have problems in the relationship with your father. In my case it is true and the amazing thing is my father is... Gemini again. Of course I have found the way to overcome the problems and work them out somehow but I think that may be you meet people in your life with whom you have to work on all these things that are in your natal chart and which you haven't succeeded to handle properly.

I am in this relationship for more than two years with all the Saturn effect on it, having in mind that we will have transit Saturn aspecting our Venuses soon. And I can say that the change which Saturn makes in our joint life is really slow – I am waiting, and waiting and waiting for things to move... and they finally move but so slowly you can detect the cnahge only over time, actually. But may be this makes them long lasting.

Is this what is called the slow Saturn lessons? Do you have experience with Saturn changing your life in a long period of time? I just need to know whether I am going in the right direction although with this planet marking your life you don't have the choice of running away – you may try to, but you always come back to the point. Or to the person you're trying to run away from despite the inner feeling you don't want to leave him.

posted June 03, 2005 03:27 PM              

kittie -

Saturn is one of the slower moving planets, so it does take a long time to learn it's lessons. It is also a very unforgiving planet, very steady and sure of what it's doing. Think of it's symbol, the Goat climbing the mountainside. - slowly but surely...