posted July 08, 2005 03:49 AM              

Personally I've had a pretty strange life that MADE me grow up fast. I find sometimes I'm too cautious with certain things and don't jump right in when maybe..jumping right in would be the right option at the time..

In all the interpretations of Capricorn and Capricorn moon I've read, they usually say you enjoy life more as you grow older. I find that I get along better with older ppl..because I tend to be very critical (though i know I prolly shouldn't be) of people my own age and the typical things they do..like go out party, take drugs, have sex with every living thing etc etc..It's just really not me at all.. A lot of my friends/aquaintances think "i'm missing out" because I'm too cautious..but to be honest I don't feel like I am.. The way I see it, they can do what they enjoy doing but don't try to pressure me into doing those same things when it'd make me feel extremly uncomfortable and I'd hate it.. I don't like loud places, loud ppl, loud parties, drugs, booze..I find it eeeeeek

I also get very protective with my friends when I think they're doing something silly like having a drink that's already been opened or that kinda thing..

Sometimes I think I pay too much attention to serious things like my career or that I am too serious overall..like maybe I should lighten up more, have a drink or something ..lol THIS is gona sound so pathetic but I've never even been drunk.. I couldn't be because the thought of loosing control scares me..I want to know what i'm doing, where I'm going etc always..and I want to be safe always ...the thing is because i tend to get critical with my friends about them (which is mainly because I'm worried about them) they get annoyed with me and think I'm ageing ahead of time lol I hope that thing about Capricorn lightening up as they grow older IS true.. I'd love to be able to lighten up and feel more at ease doing things even if they're not 100% safe..

Any other cappy stellium ppl..how do you feel about this?

Do you also find egotism in general gets to you.. I can't take egotistical ppl or ppl who go on and on about they're own abilities. I don't like ppl who are under the impression they are better than the next person for one reason or another and go on and on about how "perfect" they are.. I think you should achieve something of some worth (that is helpful to others as well) FIRST...then receive acclaim for it..Don't advertise yourself and pretend you're the best of the best when you've done nothing to prove yourself..and even when you have let other ppl do that..if they think you deserve praise instead of praising yourself..I can't stand that attitude, I find it very imature and silly..

i like humbleness in people..is that an earth sign thing..earth sign stellium?

posted July 08, 2005 04:23 AM            

Things do change over time, and that whole new life phase at around age 28 will start taking you in different directions. It's probably nothing you can do anything about. People you can trust will also make their way into your life allowing you to let loose a bit.

posted July 08, 2005 06:27 AM            

Stellium with Ven: 0Sag30'01" and Jup: 28Sco48'27" and Nep: 2Sag11'32"

Any light will be appreciate.
Thanks

posted July 10, 2005 04:53 AM              

Welcome ArtLovesDawn.. I did see your reply ages ago but didn't have the time to reply then. Thank you anyways

Cappyme lol your whole chart's cappy, well nearly.. I'm very surprised you're 14, so no wonder, all that cappy. You come accross as very mature to me and nice. I've always only had 1 or 2 close friends. And I've only lately, past 3 yrs or so had TRUE close friends who I'm really close to and can confide in.. my bf and my Pisces best friend. I also have that. not being myself prob. Maybe also because my asc is in Gemini and I'm not really gemini-ish at all but I find it easy to pretend I am.. so I act a certain way - friendly, funny..but when ppl get to know me better I think they get disappointed because I am pretty serious. It depends on the situation though. When I'm with ppl I feel comfortable with like my bf, my best friend and a couple more ppl I actually like and get along with, I feel a lot happyer so I can muck arround and be lighthearted..

Teaselbaby, I feel the same way "it's all in their attitude" ..when I said I don't like that I was reffering to the very showoffy types. I don't judge on that, I don't have a problem with them, but I can't help but reallly dislike that attitude because I'm not like that myself so I can't understand it and it bothers me.. I kinda move away, even involuntarily lol..when someone starts with that kinda thing.

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One of my aunts, a fun-loving lady in her sixties, once told me that I need to get out more

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hehe lol

posted July 10, 2005 05:58 AM            

Thank you for the compliments aries-chick . That really made me feel good. I am mature but then my playful and innocent nature is always enhanced by my aries friends, and they are so much fun (and really funny people) to be around with. I guess I get the idea, that your sort of secretive, and I know you are in actual a very friendly and empathic person, I think your a very nice and secretive person,it must be really hard, to not be yourself, not being able to do what you want, but it also shows you have control on your self and self-awareness, and that whats makes you such a good person, but you must just lack confidence, and once you get over that, people will see your greatness . Ok now, sorry for rambling as usual.

posted July 10, 2005 08:47 AM            

I find it fascinating that an "aries-chick" has a Cappy stellium, for i know Aries are supposed to be spontaneous, fiery types! Do you find yourself feeling torn between being earthy & fiery, aries-chica? Or maybe you've got a good balance going there.

posted July 18, 2005 07:15 AM              

It is tough though, always trying to be the responsible one, to express hurt or even asking for help has always seemed like showing weakness to me. I too never could stand egotistical people. Yes, Leo's made me cringe when I was younger and I was very critical.

Now I don't notice it so much, partly because life seems to humble that air of cockiness in well everyone. I've finally gotten to that point in my life where my kids are grown, a much less stressful demanding job and more time to enjoy life. I've also learned to not care what other people think. They have there own hang-ups!! You are lucky you have Aries/Sun...to fire things up. You are also wise for your years having the knowledge of the stars. I have a Taurus Sun and a Virgo Asc. to boot. (Yup, pretty earthy!) Sometimes I feel like I can't move!!

I've always kept personal things to myself, and found that everyone confides in me also. Why not, who better to tell a secret? So I not only shoulder my own burdens but have been a sounding board for years with everyone else's problems.

My advice would be to allow yourself the freedom to enjoy yourself. Lighten up a little, and remember you don't have to be everyones overseer.

What house does your Capricorn occupy? Just curious if your family or "mother" in particular heaped troubles on you at a young age? Mine did!! Thanks MOM I've had to come to terms with some of those issues too!

Anyhoo, life does get easier and I think you'll be just fine.

posted July 18, 2005 08:45 AM              

My man has a Capricorn stellium in the 10th I think. Well as you can guess he is a workaholic and brilliant at what he does too (Graphic Designer and musician). He is very modest, but quite proud, wont ask for help and I have to drag problems out of him. I dont know how to say this, but I wish at times he would lighten up a bit (Saturn in the 5th too) - he has a great sense of humour, but he aint as much up for the craic as I am if you know what I mean (but to be fair, who is)?! When we go out together lately I offer to drive and he has a few beers and a smoke and that seems to help!! Once he does get on the dance floor, he is wicked and moves in a very unusual way!!

He is one of the most open minded unusual people I met (isnt Bowie a Cappy). You would notice him in a crowd. He is unpredictable, so you dont know what you are getting (he has Moon in mad Aquarius and Saggi rising).

I love him very much but I just wish he could learn to relax more. He says since meeting me he doesnt worry so much about things (I think the magic has rubbed off on him). I often say to him, "what would you do if your work was taken away from you and you had to chill out a lot more". I always feel a fleeting look of fear comes over his face when I ask that LOL!!

One of the most interesting things I find with him is his non belief in a God - he thinks all our strength comes from within - now isnt that very typical of Capricorn (the strength thing I mean) and with Virgo sun he would be very feet on the ground. Maybe I need to lift him up so he can get a feel for heaven, but the only problem with that is.............he would probably want to take his computer up there with him!!!! :

Love to all