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posted July 15, 2005 08:17 AM            

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posted July 15, 2005 09:18 AM              

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I don't think he was kidding. I think you ****** off the Scorpio in him when you didn't reply. That was just a gut reaction. I am sorry you are in pain.

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posted July 15, 2005 09:45 AM              

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Wow this all sounds familiar. It's really hard being involved with anyone who has these tendencies. I gave up a really great frienship with potential in much the same way your aquas is doing with you. Coming from someone who has those same tendencies i think you need to be brutally honest and straight with him about the way he is acting and just lay it all out for him. Tell him what you want and expect.

But you must be clear about what you want whether you want to be friends or more otherwise you will be just fueling his fire and it will go on like this forever. If someone i am interested in does that to me it makes me wake up and realize how i am acting kind of like a slap in the face, then you are forced to make a decision.

Of course you do run the chance that they will say goodbye and not look back but to continue letting them torture you is much worse i think. But it is your choice you must deciede for yourself what it is that is most important for you.

Hope that helps some. Good luck to you.

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posted July 15, 2005 10:03 AM            

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OK Shopmuch much. I Know how you feel about what he did. My last guy was a Aqua with Venus in Cap and gosh was he a trip even for me and My moon,merc,venus and asc is in Aqua. But the thing with the push and pull is he really likes you perhaps even loves you and that is how they do when they really care about you they get all frosty and detatched. What you can do is continue to be his friend if that is not to hard and just try and accept that,he is this way for now.don't expect to much right now kind of just go with the flow..Build that friendship up solid tight. They are wierd guys when it comes to love most of them unless they have Mars,Venus,Merc maybe or their moon is lest say Pisces..Those guys are more easy when it comes to love..I went through what you are somewhat and it was hard on me,but I began to understand but I am a Pisces so you know how bendable we can be especially when it comes to love... Good luck if you can hang in there it is definetly worth it cause they can be not only be a good friend but also a good and faithful lover.. Also go to Liz Green section in astro.com and she will tell you alot about the Aqua man that is oh so true.. I think it is the partner section if not let me know I will find it for you.. Good luck..

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posted July 15, 2005 10:29 AM              

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I was married to an Auqua man for a long time. He loved/loves me dearly....but it was the most difficult thing in the world for him to say...sometimes I think he was almost embarassed by the overwhelming emotion. Sometimes he would say, "Surely you must know how I feel about you."
One time I found a poem that he had secretly written about us. I was so thrilled with it, that I took it to him and told him how much I loved it. He became embarassed and angry and said he didn't want to talk about it ever again. I realized that he wanted me to find the poem, but he didn't want me to talk to him about it. It was like a special secret gift from his deepest emotions...those that he couldn't verbalize.
If this guy told you he loves you...he does.
Aquas don't toss the word around. He probably wanted very much to hear it back.
He may or may not ever say it again.
Good Luck with him. They can be so very wonderful and so very infuriating!

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posted July 15, 2005 11:52 AM            

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Yes I do understand exactly what you mean,but you have to keep cool,don't let it get you way down. They can get under your skin and it is bad when that happens. Just focus on a friendship for now. When they pull away and act weird like they do not like you and stuff does not mean that it is a bad thing they are backwards ppl. They cannot handle it when their feelings get to serious..Wait it out...Just try and be his friend for now..When I was going trough what you are I was told the samething I am telling you and it works we broke up but our friendship ended bc of him not keeping an agreement we had..I will find it for you ..

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posted July 15, 2005 11:58 AM            

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posted July 15, 2005 12:27 PM            

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They are quite honest ppl but what my Aqua use to do was leave out things that he should have been telling. he would not tell it all,which to me is just as bad as lieing....They will tell lil white lies they are not totally honest but where it counts they will be.

I am ok now let me give you an example.. We were seeing each other but had not closed the deal shall I say,but we both agreed that if we wanted to be with someone else then we would tell each other even if one of us fetl bad but honesty first. Well he had started acting funny and I knew that I had not done anything to him he was doing some weird stuff kind of like your guy and I wanted to know whats up? Why are you acting like this.. He kept saying nothing was wrong ect.ect but his actions was telling me differently. So I put some pressure on him to talk to me about what was on his mind. So one night I just told him I don't like the way that you are acting ect.ect and I had been telling him if you want out just say so we will still be friends. So he replied with I think I should back off of this right now meaning he and I had alot of excuses is to why. he had alot going on me and another women who was pressuring him to be exclusive with her he was liking us both but I think that she was in his life first but they were not committed at the time I met him or they had broken or something then she came back around but he had met me already.. Anyway I was missing him so much and we were still seeing each other at this gym we both attended which is where we met. Only on certain night though we would bothe be there. SO anyway after things ended we stillhugged and he would kiss me on my cheed when we would see each other at the gym and I knew I could feel in my heart that he still liked me plus I can read him as well as he could read me. That following Sunday he asked me to come to the gym where he played ball I use to love to do that when we were dating so that was not a problem. There was so much sparks between us when we saw each other. So we had lunc after the game and he walked me to my car kissed me on my lips could'nt take his hands off me but he ended things right. Don't ask me how I knew this but I felt deep in my heart that he had moved and moved in with a female. So after we ate and stuff he walked me to my car I asked him and he told the truth he could not lie, and I was so angry cause I felt like that is why he ended things wanted to be with her but gave me some bull crap excuse, when we agreed early in our relationship to be honest about it. It is so much more behind it all to long to go all into.. But your guy he would not tell you that if he did not feel it atleast slightly. Just continue the friendship that means more to them then anything. My aqua felt like if we were not seeing each other anymore then he would have not had to tell me his situation that is why he broke it off, but it was ok but he still kept trying to see me he even kissed me on the lips and stuff and was living with this female. And he begged for me to remain friends after I found out I could'nt though not at that time... HAng in there you will be ok..

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posted July 15, 2005 12:48 PM            

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Shop22much:
Him

Moon,Sag
Venus,Cap
Asc Gemini

Well I think that she was his ex at one time and when we met they were not seeing each other at that time,but as soon as he starting liking someone else she came back around and by then he was liking me but still had feelings for her too. So he was seeing us both. What I relize is when he and I would have a spat or I would not be available to him he would run to her and vise versa..She put pressure on him to be exclusive with her she basically made him choose and that is why he was acting so weird with me cause he had a decision to make that was killing him. He chose her,,but he still had sme feelings for me and still does now today. This all just happen liked back in January. It was hard cause we still saw each other at this gym. I told him that we could not be friends and that he decieved me he handled this all wrong I was not mad bc he chose her disappointed maybe but never mad. I told him as far as I was concerned we never happend, that hurt his heart when I said that cause he will not speak to me at all. After abotu a month after it all came out I was over it and told him so and that I forgive him for his deceitful ways,he still act so cold and distant now. I caught him peeking around this wall in the gym staring at me one time. I knew that he still had feelings for me. One of his reasons for not telling me was if things did not work out with them he wanted to leave the door open to come back..It is weird so many strange things happened after that. Har to explain. It was all a total surprise to
me especially him moving in with her..Compare the info and let me know..

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posted July 15, 2005 12:57 PM            

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well he has
scorpio rising
gemini moon(this drives me insane)
capricorn venus

ive read on one website that said:

This aspect sometimes means unhealthy sensuality. He is hard, and does not know how to express his emotions. He is frightened of showing his love, and this leads to disappointments, break-ups, lack of satisfaction. It is likely that he had problems with his mother, who did not know how to love him or give him self-confidence. He doubts, is suspicious and jealous.

this is depressing...
i know what you mean about white lies....he rarely does this but when i showed him his chart all he did was say astrology is BS...blah blah he doesnt even consider it at all...i think he was full of it...i dont think he wants to admit to his flaws...

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posted July 15, 2005 12:59 PM            

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Oh that is forsure they never want to admit when they are wrong cause basically they feel that they are always right, the decisions they make are always the best and right one. Whewww I wll tell you..

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posted July 15, 2005 01:03 PM            

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Ohhh Aqua sun/Gemini moon that is a hard one to figure out.. The Aqua man can be complicated in itself but with a Gem moon ouch!!! Gemini moon ppl can be complex too. Girl your hand are full..Whats your placements???

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posted July 15, 2005 01:05 PM            

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im a box of contradrictions...lol
i think thats why hes so attracted to me, im different from most people.

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posted July 15, 2005 01:06 PM            

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posted July 15, 2005 01:11 PM            

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Yeah I can see that,anything that does not seem sane to them is definetly an attraction..He keeps try to figure out what you mean I think..I can be contradictory too. Pisces sun two fishes going into two different directions you know. I know I do that. LOL!!!

Moon Aqua
Merc Aqua
Venus Aqua
Asc Aqua

Might as well had been an Aqua.. Thanks to my Pisces moon that allows me to be intouch with my feelings and understand them..

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posted July 15, 2005 01:15 PM            

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posted July 15, 2005 01:27 PM            

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Yes you have to stand out in some sort of way to them for them to be attracted to you. I always attract Aqua's them and Virgo's. They both are opposite to me in their own way. For instance Aqua's is ruled by Uranus which is very masculine Aqua men are very masculine most of them. Pisces are ruled by Neptune which is very feminine, masculine and Feminine are the opposites of each other. Believe me when I say this the attraction is like steel to a magnet..Plus my moon and venus is in Aqua that always brings em.. Virgo's are the exact opposite of Pisces period and I have dated I don't know how many Virgo guys they just seem to find me..

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posted July 15, 2005 01:32 PM            

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posted July 15, 2005 01:39 PM            

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Ok so she had to be either very patient,a very big odd ball,very challengeing or something maybe she had Aqua moon or Venus in Aqua or something. YOu sound better now go to www.astro.com and the click on astrology fir lovers by Liz Greene and go from there. good luck..

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posted July 15, 2005 03:13 PM              

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Still want a answer to your questions from an Aquarian guy s22M ?

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posted July 15, 2005 03:38 PM            

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yes!! please what do u think?? WHAT are your placements?

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posted July 15, 2005 04:37 PM              

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Hey this thread reminds me of my 'Moon in Aqua guy'...He's a Scorp with a Gemini ascendent!
(i HATE that f****** Gem rising in his chart!! Sorry to all u gem people but i like geminies as friends not lovers!)

Even he drives me nuts!(i am a scorpio with a very stable capricorn moon and an equally sturdy tauras ascendent)Oh how i wish he had my placements and me his for just sometime to make him se how it REALLY feels!
Man,he says all the time that he does not know how to express his feelings.he is stubborn and complte alien to romance!He is childish most of the times...He cant even talk about marriage and kids coz he says he feels strange talking bout such things!!!(though he is very much commited)

SHOP22MUCH,dearie i identify with you completely.But hey you must be in a better position.At least you have that ascdnt in Aqua too!!!

Or may be i better make good use of cold stern cappy moon and my 'wont budge an inch' Tauras ascendent LOL

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