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Topic: When was the last time you cried?
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j&d
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posted July 18, 2005 12:44 AM
 
Daily & nightly almost since the first
part of June and off and on in July.
Me and my boyfriend broke up.
I wrote him a long e-mail telling him
I miss him,and still love him and now
I feel totally ashamed and embarrassed
for pouring out my heart to him like that
and showing soooooo much emotion!
I am thinking that this e-mail may have
been a huge mistake because I feel so
ignorant right now and I haven't heard
from him.
He is a Libra and I am a Gemini.
We're both suppose have Aquarius .
I'm suppose to be a Gemini/Aquarius
and he's suppose to be a Libra/Aquarius.
Any advise for me anyone?IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 18, 2005 09:08 AM
j&d, I'd love to help you...
Maybe you should start a new thread on it and go into more detail so we can devote a whole topic to your problem.  I won't list everyone  but thanks to everyone who's posted and I've read what everyone's put... It's all very interesting.
Wierdly enough, I thought way more people cried as often as me... which is about once a week on average. But I can cry at anything. It's like everything's a bit too much. This morning I almost cried just remembering something I'd cried about. Has anything like this ever happened to someone? -
It was just after my parents had split up and my Dad was dropping me back off home, except there was no one in. And I had to watch him drive away as I'm left on an empty doorstop... I just had to shut the door and cry. It's sad so little people have cried with joy... except maybe that's a good thing.
Does anyone ever find after something very sad or traumatic happening to them, when someone finally helps you, you cry with relief?
When I got lost once (not going into details, but it was to do with my inability to catch trains properly ) when someone I knew helped me I couldn't stop myself crying because of how nice he was being and how relieved I was. IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted July 18, 2005 09:40 AM
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I knew helped me I couldn't stop myself crying because of how nice he was being and how relieved I was.
the child woman always makes me smile , help me cry tooo !
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Cassy
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posted July 18, 2005 10:06 AM
I cried on Friday. I was involved in a motorvehicle accident which was no fault of mine. When I eventually looked at my car's damage I cried. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 18, 2005 02:14 PM
Sorry about your car Cassy, I would probably have cried too!!
I'm way too possesive over 'things'... come to think, I have an inkling my Moon's in the 2nd house actually...  cancerrg- do you mean I'M a child woman?? Haha that made me laugh! I will teach you how to cry.
First, I need to go for dinner, then I'm going to come back and post something bound to make you cry IP: Logged |
SecretGardenAgain
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posted July 18, 2005 03:35 PM
lol MNF, you're going to post something to make cancerrg cry? err i feel bad about this  btw i have moon in the 2nd too and cried like a baby when my car got smashed like a soda can in my 1st accident. (1st..  tells u i have quite the history with cars huh. yet i STILL persist to drive them.... mad mad me  ) Love
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The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 18, 2005 04:20 PM
Haha, SG, I can imagine that will be me when I learn how to drive! Although I doubt very much I'll pass....
Yes, I'm going to make cancerrg cry! Ok, well, that was the plan but I doubt it'll work. I somehow don't think sob stories about lost puppies will work.I've actually just spent 10 minutes deleting various stuff and have finally come to the conclusion I can't draw from personal experience because a) it makes me sound self-centred and b) because people mostly cry at things that affect them emotionally. But I can tell you the saddest I tend to feel is when I think I will never be loved or even if I am, then I don't realise it because I've convinced myself I'm not. The sadder thing is when I let myself think finally that someone I like does care slightly about me too only to come crashing to reality again feeling even more stupid for ever thinking someone would like me in that way. It makes me feel like a foolish child which is what I am, but can never accept this, which makes it harder. So I've learnt I have to stop myself from loving to stop myself becoming disappointed.
Oh, well, this has turned into a personal life rant!
I was listening to Carole King earlier... some of her songs are very bittersweet, which can be cryable. Tell me, cancerrg, what sort of thing gets you sad and we can work from there? IP: Logged |
MoonDuchess88
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posted July 18, 2005 06:17 PM
I cried yesterday night, my sis was over and was watching "The Notebook", and then a song on the radio played. It all made me think about this guy  me
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moon in virgo/8th house
I also have a LOAD of planets in the 12th house(damn all these heavy placements ) *but I almost NEVER cry in front of other ppl, NEVER IP: Logged |
shop22much
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posted July 18, 2005 07:02 PM
Mutable- as you remember, im a virgo with aries moon as well...in the 2nd house too..how weird, i am very smart when it comes to money...
what is your rising sign? im very curious! we probably are a lot alike in some ways I use to have a problem when I was younger with crying, I soon learned crying never did anything, it just caused more pain because nothing ever got resolved from it. I thought what was the point if nothing good comes of it? So I stopped crying, and I stopped showing emotion, and I hide it pretty well I think, but once I blow up with pain, I cant stop...last time I cried was a few days ago, but not a real real cry, just 2-3 minute cry, because at this point I am completely drained, I have never cried as much as I have for this one man, I love...and it sucks because I havent cried over a guy in a long time...
I hate it when I want to cry, like how i am feeling right now, sometimes i sit under my blanket and try to force it but never works, its always when im out in public and i picture his eyes looking in mine, or when I write about him.. and and tears start rolling, i compose myself of course, but always embrassing... blah IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
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posted July 19, 2005 02:07 AM
about 5 minutes ago.It's been a really tough 4 days...they had a layoff at work Friday, the axe fell (I'm a contractor for a large computer company whose name I won't divulge but their initials are HP are having a huge layoff so it affected about 50 people in my office, I'm one of the ones affected) Plus, one of the supervisors at work, Gregg who was also affected by this cutback, had a heart attack Saturday night on his way to a play with his wife and friends and passed away. He was 56. Such an incredibly nice man with two daughters, one whom he just flew back to Massachusetts to get settled to start medical school this fall. Man! Plus, I'm still trying to get over this Aqua and I've never been so affected by any man in my life - any really good ideas about how to get over someone? I really, really need it! Something. Sag Sun
Sag Rising
Aqua Moon
Scorpio Merc
Libra Venus I need kisses and hugs!
Laura
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running_bull
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posted July 19, 2005 02:22 AM
Kisses and hugs to you, Laura. Hope you will feel better after a few good cries. I know your pain, maybe we should have like a virtual drum circle or something on 21st, to use the full moon power and try to rid ourselves of whatever's holding onto us (love, regret, hurt, whatever).
anyway, I wish us both well and a wonderful week. ------------------
"Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." IP: Logged |
MoonDuchess88
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posted July 19, 2005 04:06 AM
Awww Topaz, IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted July 19, 2005 05:11 AM
I cry most days, not coz I am sad, but Im a very easily moved woman and my son will say "oh no you are crying again" and then he will say "I know mum crying is good". I dont weep all the time,but I will well up often. Last week I watched the film the Village for the second time and OMG that made me weep and wail, just something very familiar there, the simplicity of their way of life and the madness of Noah made my cry hard (he is an Irish actor, I thought him brilliant in that role). Music makes me cry all the time and looking at my son, seeing the love and innocence in his eyes. I am a real CRIER and I am glad cos I very rarely get ill!! Ive no doubt at some point today I will cry and laugh a lot Love and emotion to all Sue xx IP: Logged |
MysticScorpio
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posted July 19, 2005 07:22 AM
MoonDuchess88 I love The Notebook  , best movie I watched this year. I checked it out and Ryan Gosling is a Scorpio, Rachel McAdams is Libra...the chemistry between them is incredible, and James Marsden(her fiance) is a virgo.
Great movie, made me cry too but only coz I was watching it alone, I can never cry if theres someone watching with me.
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cancerrg
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posted July 19, 2005 08:36 AM
ah , what makes me feel sad , a lot of things actually . come to think of it , someone's pain , (it can be anyone ).
my own too but i have learnt to come out of it very easily .
when i have a feeling , i am not being loved enough .
when i loose money , the last time that i had a lump in my throat was when i lost my money that was saved over the last six yrs .
i am typical cancerian but i am not really bothered about money b'cos i have always known i can make it very easily . but that lump was b'cos these savings meant a lot b'cos it was to play a big part in my future plans , my mba course , my business etc. when i am misunderstood . when i am made wrong when actually i am not wrong . and yeah sometimes romantic or some good movie that moves u from within . the last movie that fell in that category was "the pianist" i believe . i hope i have given u a lot of ideas !
i dont want to cry just for the sake of it but for the simple reason that i dont want to create health problems for myself . btw the way , i am quite happy today , i just got the news, i have cleared the entrance (written) for the army . this is the thrid time , i was kicked out in the last pyscho/interview rounds twice , so pray for me , so that it doesn't happen again . IP: Logged |
MoonDuchess88
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posted July 19, 2005 10:00 AM
So Ryan Gosling's a scorpio, that makes sense in the movie
I would've thought Rachel's character was a cancer just cuz she was about to marry the other guy for security reasons and to please her mother And the fiance...hmmm...I would say scorpio too, but I dunno why yeah, I went to my room to cry, as I said before, I don't cry in front of other ppl IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted July 19, 2005 01:33 PM
A shaman healer I visited a few times asked me when I was gonna cry? I said to her "you must be joking, I cry all the time" and she replied "aahh I know but you cry for beauty and others and not for yourself". This is so true, so now when I want a good weep I say to myself "this crying is for me" and I really let the sobs come.Cancerrg, when you say you dont understand about crying for joy, well theres such a thin line at times between happiness and sadness, one can feel euphoric, it is like singing your heart out, crying can be like that. So if someone really moves you in a positive way and you feel deeply touched you may want to cry, or others may want to shout 'YAY' - its all a matter of releasing the emotion in which ever way you want!! Love
Sue xx
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MysticScorpio
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posted July 19, 2005 01:37 PM
I agree, Ryan Gosling's character was definitely a Scorpio too ....hmmmmmmm dnt knw abt her tho...maybe piscesIP: Logged |
MysticScorpio
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posted July 19, 2005 01:40 PM
I agree, Ryan Gosling's character was definitely a Scorpio too ....hmmmmmmm dnt knw abt her tho...maybe piscesIP: Logged |
ariestiger
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posted July 19, 2005 02:01 PM
I was crying this afternoon having a discussion w. Mr. Aqua abt. breakup possibilities etc...and the way I get in two minds abt. everything (Mon/Venus/Jupe in Pisces). I hate crying, firstly, I feel weak and self-indulgent (but I can't help myself), secondly, once I start I can't stop, and thirdly, when I do stop, my whole body feels stressed for hours. I used to cry a lot but I don't so much now. I have to be REALLY, REALLY upset to cry now. AT IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 19, 2005 02:10 PM
MoonDuchess- The person I know who cries the most infront of people funnily enough is a Virgo Moon... so maybe it is to do with the house placments?Hey shop22much, yeah, I've thought that too before, we have some similar stuff. My rising's Capricorn. Although in a weird way, I like crying, it makes me feel a lot better during and after it... it's way better than being depressed. BlueTopaz- Sorry about the grief in your life at the mo... hey, at least you have a reason to cry, unlike me! tbc... (stupid browser).. IP: Logged |
SecretGardenAgain
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posted July 19, 2005 02:10 PM
ariestiger I am exhausted after a real 'cry' too.... I usually cry at night coz I know my body cant function after that, and I break down with the sniffles and congestion and can barely breathe hehe
mystic, I always thought that the girl from the Notebook was a Fire sign, in fact I was convinced Can you see her sense of adventure, risk, her anger, her passion, her fieryness when they show her with Gosling? I thought for sure that she was a Leo or Aries. And the way she slapped him (LOL) or screams at him, or even is so sweet yet independent in love, I thought for sure she was a fire sign. She reminds me of my mom (Leo/Pisces) big time. Maybe she has some fire elements? Anyone notice this pattern of AQUA MEN. Everyone on this forum is crying over the Aqua men. lol. GRRRRR> DOWN WITH THEM! for making us cry. jk. im actually quite falling for one myself  Love
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The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 19, 2005 02:11 PM
continued....(computer's fault!) sue g- I cried watching the Village! Although more towards the end. It's a great film. I've also cried watching Donnie Darko... I adore that film so much... so tragic and brilliant. I think i've even cried watching Moulin Rouge nearly! I've cried many times whilst reading Anthony Burgess's A Clockwork Orange.... the list could go on! cancerrg- I don't think I can make you cry... .. the only person who can do that is yourself.. although everyone has their own standards so don't feel bad if you can't. That's just normal for you. As long as you're not holding it in.
Congrats on the army! I had no idea! IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion
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posted July 19, 2005 02:18 PM
MoonDuchess**I also have a LOAD of planets in the 12th house(damn all these heavy placements)**
**but I almost NEVER cry in front of other ppl, NEVER**
me too.  IP: Logged |
Hexxie
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posted July 19, 2005 02:22 PM
well, this thread made me tear up here at work (no one noticed tho hehe). i can totally relate to "welling up" sue g! It's nice to know there are others out there... this thread made me think of how i was sharing a quote with some friends the other day (from linda goodman's star signs actually!) and i teared up then too. i don't have it with me but the jist of it went like this: if you aren't "laboring with love" you might as well not be working and just accepting donations from those who are "laboring with love" until you yourself get there. that "bread baked with no love feeds but half a mans hunger..." (kalil gibran i think?!) it touched me cuz i know i am not "laboring with love" and it's frustrating! my love life is good, my relationship with my family & friends is good, everything but the job section maybe my saturn return in my 2nd house will help me with that...
wow, i feel much better for venting ------------------
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