posted October 18, 2008 01:53 PM            

My moon is at 14 degrees libra and my Venus is 29 degrees cancer. Though not in aspect by orb, that mutual reception is strongly felt.

posted October 18, 2008 01:58 PM              

The Moon shows what makes us feel secure, comfortable, how we react emotionally, and how we show that we care.

Venus shows what we value and how we express our values, affection, romance and how we like to receive affection and romance.

Which means a person can be awfully confusing in a relationship if their Sun and Venus are in conflicting or at least dissimilar signs. Such as mine - Moon in Aqua, Venus in Scorpio. At least they're both fixed =) That makes it better, right? (sarcasm alert).

posted October 18, 2008 02:40 PM            

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Individuals who have Venus difficulties in the natal chart, due to sign or house placement, hard aspects or retrograde motion, may have difficulty finding a harmonious place for themselves among their peers. They are not worth less, nor are they inherently less attractive than others; they simply do not fit in easily with predominant social standards. Ideally, this can leave them free to discover new forms of love and beauty.

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Yes! This makes so much sense to me! I have a lot of Venus difficulties in my chart, and this is the way it feels a lot of the time... It's not that I can't love or that others can't love me, it's more that I don't feel that I fit in with many of the people around me!

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Venus in Earth and the Moon in Fire is a very extreme situation. Fire needs drama and excitement while the Earth is just the opposite. External calm and practicality can be expected of the Venus in Earth person. But what does s/he do with that inner need for risk, for excitement? Earth is bound up in social rules which the Moon in Fire barely understands. The law of Fire is a divine law, above that of earthly constraints.

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This is also very true for me... I tend to either attract guys who are VERY stable (financially and emotionally), but who I end up feeling are BORING OR I'll attract guys who are fun and outgoing, but I end up feeling they're CRAZY with too many emotions flying around! It's really been a hard balance for me to figure out.

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Some one with a Taurus Ascendant, for example, may be fascinated by the intensity and emotional control of a Scorpio. But, Michael writes, if we don't incorporate that Scorpio intensity or quality in ourselves, we will eventually reject the other for the very reasons that attracted us in the first place. Fascination or attraction turns to rejection when the behavior is not incorporated within us. We could say that the projection, in this case of power or sexiness, can begin a relationship but cannot sustain it.

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I've found this to be really true.

posted October 21, 2008 12:21 PM            

I thought about this the other day, "Do we act more like our Moon or Venus when we're with someone that we're attracted to...dating...or involved with?"

Is it my Scorpio Moon or Capricorn Venus that makes me seem quiet or "different" when I'm out on a date or dating a guy I like. I try not to be, but that's what I've noticed. I dont know why I do
it but I'm usually fun and talkative and energetic when i'm out with friends, girls & guys. Maybe I'm more confident in that area rather than guys and relationships and love...??? <------ well just thought i'd add that as to why i thought about the same question.

(just thought i'd share... )

posted October 22, 2008 09:02 AM              

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My moon in aries is opposed to my venus in libra and mars but I haven't had too many complicated feelings regarding my relationships so far.

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i have this combination too, as well as the all mighty awful grand square.

so i relate to that.

posted October 22, 2008 03:32 PM            

ok i guess that's good that their working together, but most times like now I just wanna not be so cautious, i just wanna let go and let love in or let love out. you know what i mean? i have been trying lately... my thinking lately is "Carpe Diem."

posted May 29, 2013 03:30 AM            

I relate with this profile more so than I do with the Venus(Water)/Moon(water) description.

Venus-Saturn conjunction(Scorpio).
Moon-Mars square(Cancer/Libra).

I have strong excitable emotions that tend to crave excitement.But, in the same breath, I also want a seasoned, grounded individual.

Mostly I attract the Venus-Saturn types; dependible, good-natured, sincere types.

And though also attracted to Moon-Mars types; changeable, outgoing, "busy" etc. I am equaly terrified of them.

I also have Juno-Mars, Juno-Pluto opposition which emphasizes this contradiction further. I do want a guy who is expressive, passionate and the type to speak his mind etc.But I am also terrified of scenes , spats or disagreements that are played out in public!!!

posted May 31, 2013 12:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Bumping this wonderful thread ~

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posted June 09, 2013 11:56 PM            

Also fascinating to me is I have Scorpio moon opposite my Venus Taurus. And concidentally I've only loved two men in my life, both with Taurus moon. Lucky for me, my current bf has Taurus moon in in his eight house and sun conj my moon by 9 degrees

It also holds true that I did and do have a difficult relationship with my mom. Her moon in gem squares my sun and inconj my moon. She has cap sun so it would only make sense that she would value me in an Taurus (earth) way. We both have sun conj Saturn in fourth house...its a nightmare...lol.

posted June 10, 2013 01:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Thanks, Randall.

I thought it was very interesting.

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