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Topic: What's your sex ?
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Moonshine9
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posted July 28, 2005 07:43 AM
 
I took the test and I'm 22% Masculine and 78% Feminine. Va!Va!Va!Va!Vooooom!!!!!!!  IP: Logged |
sassygrrrl
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posted July 28, 2005 09:20 AM
I'm a grrrl...er girl.  IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL
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posted July 28, 2005 09:22 AM
You ever hear that ditty: "I love being a girl?..."That's me all the way. Must be that charming Gemini meets femme fatale Aries meets cookie baking homebody Taurus..... LOL IP: Logged |
Moonshine9
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posted July 28, 2005 09:45 PM
I'm just a girl!
I'm some kind of freak!
No doubt. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted July 29, 2005 01:53 AM
Hey Free-B,I took all of those pictures of myself, except the black and white one, so I guess I like all of them. There are certainly lots of pictures of myself that I don't care for. I wish I had some pics of me on the computer as a kid. I was very cute. Little blondie. I wonder if I can take a picture of one of my pictures with my webcam(?). Oh, I can! Not the best resolution, but kinda cool. Here's me at 15 almost 16.
 No Cancer in my chart, but I seem drawn to Cancers. Here's my first Cancer love:
My only water is my Mars in Scorpio. LibraSparkle, I got carded this past Christmas before being able to sit down and play Texas Hold 'Em in Laughlin. It was great. I'm not sure that my eyes are super bright. I honestly haven't received a nice compliment about my eyes since high school.  My mom seems to always bring up how she doesn't understand why my eyes are deeply set. Maybe astrology does take part after all? Oh, my eyes are blue and green, hazel. IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted July 29, 2005 02:16 AM
that seems a good pair !what happened ? IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted July 29, 2005 03:07 AM
Acoustic God: OMG ! That's such a cool pic. It's so lovely.
I am sure you were hottie ! when you were in your schools.Right now also many girls would like to pinch your cheeks...yay you are cutie.very cute. I think that girl is also so beautiful.I can't take eyes off from those pics. I am just wondering in Cancer-Capricorn relationship.Are their any power struggle?
Is it that capricorn finds difficult to understand Cancerian moods? IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted July 29, 2005 04:19 AM
Hey Cancerrg,Glad to see you. It was a good match, but we were 15 and then 16 years old at the time. We kept in contact for a long time after. She actually got married when I was in the Navy. She wrote about her nervousness about paying bills and so forth, and was terribly concerned about her relationship, or so she said. Then, when I decided I could go see her, she withdrew noticably. I ended up going to see her anyway. Her husband seemed nice. It was clear they weren't getting along so well, but she wouldn't talk to me at all about anything while I was there. I was terribly hurt by the experience. I ended up sending her money for a time, but I never heard from her again. I found a college email for her a couple months ago, and wrote her a note, but she may not attend anymore, and there was no response. Free-B, I think there are power struggles between Cancers and Capricorns. It's really tough to try to explain that to a Cancer who is not into astrology, though. My last girlfriend, who was also a Cancer, felt like she was bossy as a child, but outgrew her need for control. I don't think that was true. I always tried to look objectively at things, but there is some strange disconnect that can happen. I want to love them, though, and my feelings for them develop quickly. I've been wondering lately if things would be easier with a Scorp. Scorps are still water signs, but it wouldn't be Cardinal/Cardinal (Cap/Cancer). I'm so drawn to the water romantism. I've always been a bit of a romantic myself, so I think it fits. I'm not sure if Scorps would be attracted to me, though. AG IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted July 29, 2005 05:04 AM
I put more pics up at the Photo Shop. There's two pages now, including my first forray into dressing in drag. IP: Logged |
LeylaLeFay
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posted July 29, 2005 05:51 AM
Leyla, you're 43% masculine... You're also 57% feminine.I have a feeling I have the worst traits of both.
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freebird
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posted July 29, 2005 07:01 AM
Acoustic God : Those were lot.
I liked many but the last one Scared in Disney just cracked me up. Poor baby !lol
Your neices also look really lovely.I read somewhere that there is power struggle between Scorpio and Capricorn but
I don't know how things work between Capricorn and Scorp.The only person I know is my cousin born on 25th Dec and is pretty wiered.I mean I have seen him growing up but that's only him. I think when he was young it was difficult to deal with himself and he is still learning I guess. I had a Pisces and Capricorn friend they would get along very well but only thing was that Capricorn was busy chasing Sag.Don't miss those Fishes. IP: Logged |
Moonshine9
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posted July 29, 2005 12:36 PM
Hello AcousticGod,
Great pics!
I just wanted to interject about the Cappie-Cannie chemistry. I noticed that Capricorn men can be very passive sometimes and maybe that's why the last Cancer lady you were with was a bit bossy. Being that your both cardinal signs can make it a tense match at times being that you both have leadership qualities?
Also about your deeply-set eyes, I noticed that's a characteristic in Capricorn men. Not all but some.IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted July 29, 2005 01:26 PM
HY AG ,
how are u?
we have discussed that cap- cancer relation in a friend - friend scneario and i am sure a lot of that applies to romantic scenario too .
apart from the power struugle , there are the mind games as well .( cancers are quite dominating thopugh they seem submissive)
i have an explanation about the way your ex gf acted but i dont have much time today though , its alraedy 11pm here , iam feeling sleepy 
i got to check your new pics too!
my cap sis is married to a cancer ( we have the same b'day) so i hope we can discuss a lot but ofcourse if u feel comfortable.
could u elobrate more on your relation with your can cer gfs.
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AcousticGod
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posted July 29, 2005 02:20 PM
Free-B,Yeah, I was wondering about a Cap/Scorp clash, too, but I don't really have enough experience with Scorps to figure out how that would work. Also, what's happening with your cousin is probably typical for a Capricorn. I'm constantly exploring myself trying to gain understanding. I've actually done a lot of those tests at Tickle.com to try to satisfy my need to get to know myself. ---------------------- Moonshine9, (cancerrg should read too) She wasn't very bossy in an overt way or anything. It was more of a subdued way. She did want to dictate, in a sense, her terms for the relationship, but she absolutely did not want to work together towards something. She wanted me to change so she could feel more secure, and have it done yesterday. She wasn't willing to stick it out, and bailed to try to find another guy who was perhaps more together. About your Cardinal/Cardinal question, I think it does cause for some difficulties. I don't feel like I have to be in control of the relationship, but at the same time I do tend to worry about losing vital parts of myself when someone else takes charge. (This Cancer was quite a bit younger than me. 9 years younger.)
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Cancerrg, I think you're right about Cancers being dominant, but seeming submissive. The hardest thing to deal with is a Cancer's not talking. Perhaps it's born of that desire to appear submissive (while calculating what they really want  ). It's always amazing to me to see a Cancer hold everything in. Being a Capricorn I'm often a quiet guy myself, but when it comes to a relationship I want to mature, and to me maturity is communicating. Do Cancers feel the same way in reverse, like Capricorns are too quiet when trying to have a conversation about the relationship? In the end, at the end, I feel like I'm no closer to understanding Cancers. AG IP: Logged |
BroodingMooodlin
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posted July 29, 2005 09:30 PM
Ahh..the old gender question. Hmph, and I don't even care for those masculinity or femininity quizzes- they're just old tosh in my opinion. I don't know, maybe because I've become very uptight about this whole gender thing and the stigmas. Although my sex is female I wouldn't think I'm necessarily feminine in the social, gender sort of context. Perhaps there is an androgynous streak within me as well. I'm not an intersexual, nor a transsexual, although I could be a transgender.I'm not ultra feminine, but I do have the curves; however, at the same time, I feel like a guy, and the fact that I don't really fit in with either of the two makes me feel unwanted and abandoned. To be brutally frank, I both envy and admire women or girls who are feminine and capable of attracting whoever they want- atleast they have some niche to which they belong to. At times, I find the whole dainty ditsy disposition quite vexing, especially the ease with which some women seem to attain approbation from men or assisstance...and that totally reminds me of what LaVey had to say about being a compleat witch/***** ! Then again, I wish I could be treasured and respected, and even...fawned *secret smirk* (<-- maybe that was my leo AS talking? ). Alright, maybe I'm contradicting myself now... but I definitely feel at odds with myself and the status quo even if I'm totally for the humanistic approach, emotional intelligence, positive self-regard, and karl Rogers.
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Mystic Gemini
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posted July 29, 2005 09:36 PM
Both. I can be a tom boy climbing fences and playing some rough basketball. being dominant and possessive. and i can be sexy and mysterious and very feminine  and emotional and sweet and clingy.I can be a big b**** also. ------------------
Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted July 30, 2005 03:23 AM
cancers act as sweet poison , if the need arises .
i think , i can say why it happens with caps but i dont agree with your cardinal sign theory .
have u ever seen a libra-cap relation .i think it has more to do with the fact they are so much alike in every aspect . cancers are quite talkative , i think among men , cancers are the most talktive men but ofcourse they dont talk when they feel , that they need to teach a lesson to someone , u might even term it a bit of emotional blackmailing ( not a full blown though) . thier silence to prove thier worth as well as let the other person know his worth too . i dont think that comes out of thier desire to seem submissive , submissiveness isn't created by them , its a part of thier character , it is more to do with thier inherent shyness , actaully .
i'll give u my example , i am normally quite silent initially in all the jobs that i have done and almost 80% of the people took me to be stupid , incapable . all of my friends said this to me . cancers normally are underestimated , if they dont open thier mouth .
with time , cancers actually start enjoying , gradually awing people with thier capabilities . i do it and a lot of other cancers that i know do it . IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted July 30, 2005 03:23 AM
cancers act as sweet poison , if the need arises .
i think , i can say why it happens with caps but i dont agree with your cardinal sign theory .
have u ever seen a libra-cap relation .i think it has more to do with the fact they are so much alike in every aspect . cancers are quite talkative , i think among men , cancers are the most talktive men but ofcourse they dont talk when they feel , that they need to teach a lesson to someone , u might even term it a bit of emotional blackmailing ( not a full blown though) . thier silence to prove thier worth as well as let the other person know his worth too . i dont think that comes out of thier desire to seem submissive , submissiveness isn't created by them , its a part of thier character , it is more to do with thier inherent shyness , actaully .
i'll give u my example , i am normally quite silent initially in all the jobs that i have done and almost 80% of the people took me to be stupid , incapable . all of my friends said this to me . cancers normally are underestimated , if they dont open thier mouth .
with time , cancers actually start enjoying , gradually awing people with thier capabilities . i do it and a lot of other cancers that i know do it . IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted July 30, 2005 03:38 AM
again cancers might be termed as immatures in relations b'cos of thier clinginess but believe me it s more of a water trait then just a cancers's .as far sa i have understaood cancers , they communicate a lot , that actaully makes them the best husbands .of course our interpretations are diff. i absolutely agree caps are good communicators in relations . i know it by exp. so , no doubts .
i dont know why u feel that cancers are bad communicators , they are bad , they'll go silent only when they feel that ralation can not be dragged anymore. water people have a funda for relations , they comtemplate a lot before breaking realtions but 0once its done , it done .
ofcourse , they 'll try to remain cordial always but......... what happens with caps is , for u people those mind games and a little of poking in relations might be just an ok thing but for cancers that might not be the case . thats thier form of purity of relations .
u wont ever see a cancer poking fun of thier dear ones in public in even a slightly degrading . consider the fact that they are one of the most funny people and fun also means a bit of poking yourself and others , doesn't it . but then even they dont do it , normally .
REMEMBER ITS ONLY THE DIFF IN LIFE APPROACH ONLY. in the end , i feel i am bit closer to understanding the caps a bit
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AcousticGod
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posted July 30, 2005 06:48 AM
I appreciate your reply, Cancerrg, but I'm a little drunk at the moment to reply. I need to read this in the right frame of mind. IP: Logged |
Moonshine9
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posted July 30, 2005 11:01 AM
Hello AcousticGod,
I really hate to bring up the "Age" thing but in some very rare cases sometimes age has everything to do about the relationship. You may have connected with her on many different levels but sometimes with an age gap meaning because she's younger and has less experience in relationships(I'm just assuming this, now)she wants evrything her way and is not willing to compromise.In my opinion I think that later in her life she will regret her actions.
sometimes I think back on past relationships and I wish I could undo the damage that I caused, you know?
Sometimes I'd say or do really stupid things that I really don't mean. As you know being a Cappie relationships can be complicated or some people like to make them that way.
I recently saw The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. Very good movie!
Wish you could erase bad memories!
Hope I'm not bumming you out!
You sound like a really nice person and I believe there's someone out there for you!
How cliche!Right?But I do believe that.
Find a nice gregarious Aquarius(hey that rhymes! I know a lot of Leo-Cappie combos that work out nicely! IP: Logged |
Moonshine9
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posted July 30, 2005 11:11 AM
Now I'm not Poo-pooing Cancers!
I love Cancers to death. I think they're Fun, have one of the most funniest and twisted senses of humor out of all the signs.They're certainly intelligent people.
CancerG is right sometimes they talk too much but that's ok.LOL
What I'm saying is maybe you might want to take a break from Cancers of the opposite sex? I know it's hard cause they're a sexy bunch, but try.
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cancerrg
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posted July 30, 2005 01:46 PM
i'll agree on the age thing .
i have been involved with someone who is eight yrs younger but may be b'cos she too is a cancer , it helped us in undestanding eachother . but ofcourse age can make a diff.  ag IP: Logged |
LibraSparkle
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posted July 30, 2005 01:52 PM
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Lemingtyne
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posted July 30, 2005 02:41 PM
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i dont agree with your cardinal sign theory .
have u ever seen a libra-cap relation .
What about them, cancerrg? I was in one for a long time (and a long time ago) so I'm curious. I'm a Libra female. Is there some way we could have, to the left of the posts, the option to display our sex & age in addition to where we're from? Optional only, of course. Once I start thinking of someone as being a certain age or sex it's hard to change my thinking when I learn that I was wrong! IP: Logged | |
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