posted August 10, 2005 04:20 AM            

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It may be difficult for you to receive warmth, affection, or appreciation, for you often feel that you don't really deserve it or that "they don't really mean it". You can therefore seem rather cool and aloof, much more so than you feel. At times you can be so critical of others that you drive them and their love away. You need to learn how to forgive yourself and others when you or they do not measure up to perfection. This need of yours for perfection can be quite stifling to your own happiness.

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posted August 10, 2005 01:23 PM              

I also believe this is a very introspective and examining moon, where we can learn to transcend our feelings of inadequacy by learning about our emotional vulnerable self. I often ask myself.. "Why did I just do that?" Personally, I'm ruled by the moon so I have emotional reactions that often times have no basis. It's all the 4th house in my chart and cancer saturn rising. But that;s my gig ya know. Stuff *I* have to deal with.

But it's not like you don't have the tools to overcome what it is you feel.

I you I think you are incredibly loveable and funny and REAL. Not that my words will leave an impression. You either receive love or you don't.

posted August 10, 2005 07:56 PM            

He goes deep within himself when he is hurt and sometimes doesn't see how he can hurt another person. It is apart of the reason we are going our separate ways.

We talked last night about our break up and I told him that even though I believe we have no other choice that this is the right thing to do, it is still sad.

Of course, me being a fire sign with a fire moon, I cried. I learned a long time ago that holding in your feelings only causes a person to self-destruct in other ways. He has yet to learn that. Instead he said 'it isn't a loss it is only a change and if I believe otherwise it will cause me too much pain. I can't deal with that".

I said "a break up is a loss - even if it is expected, because you never have what you once had".

He has to internalize it, analyze it and put it in a little package that goes into some lock box that only a key hidden deep within a forest can open LOL...

I have seen him do this with other issues... in the end, he gets hit with a wave of emotions and then doesn't know how to handle them.

I told him "when you act this way, you seem extremly cold and unfeeling"

He said "I am feeling more sadness than you will ever comprehend. My emotions are deep, they are just expressed differently".

posted August 10, 2005 08:17 PM              

nearly all of my ex boyfriends and lovers are friends of mine or we are at least friendly. two of which are very close with my husband even. i still love these men deeply, even though things didn't work out romantically.

so if virgo moon loves they do so very honestly and those feelings may morph to friendship but once we love, we love forever. i do anyway

posted August 10, 2005 08:24 PM              

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i still love these men deeply, even though things didn't work out romantically.

so if virgo moon loves they do so very honestly and those feelings may morph to friendship but once we love, we love forever. i do anyway
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posted August 10, 2005 08:44 PM              

you're a sweety for noticing the conjunction and 3rd/4th house

posted August 10, 2005 09:13 PM              

That's it. They are endangered, unfortunately. Fishernets, among other things. The kind that the Russian submarine got entangled in last week. I wonder if there might have been a headline somewhere in the world, in some paper "Russians turning into sea turtles, fighting for their lives.." (If not, there should have been.)

posted August 11, 2005 02:38 PM            

The only time I don't keep in contact is if the person is mean or causes hurt (physical or constant verbal) towards myself or others.