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Topic: How do I make a Capricorn like me?!
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Battle of Evermore
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posted August 11, 2005 12:10 AM
  
This is so insanely typical for a Leo 7th house stellium to say...
I'm a little afraid that my Cappy bassist doesn't like me very much... not that I think he hates me, I just don't think he really likes me. Sort of a take it, or leave it kind of thing. I want him to like me though, considering we work together and everything. I'll be honest, he rubbed me the wrong way for the longest time, partly because I never thought he liked me a whole lot, and some other reasons...but some how or another I've warmed up to him, although we still don't talk very much.... I'd just like to get over it and be friends.So my question is, how do you break the ice with a Cappy? There's his chart if that helps http://www.astro.com/tmpd/achart_y1mfilet7K5qK-u1111481486.14141.6395.d2gw.pdf IP: Logged |
lovely*
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posted August 11, 2005 12:20 AM
friendship or something else???regardless, if he is aloof maybe he does infact like you more than you know. he does have an aqua venus, which opposes some of your stuff in leo right? i don't have your info. but i do know you have leo moon..virgo sun. IP: Logged |
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posted August 11, 2005 12:24 AM
No, I just mean friendship, because it can make me uncomfortable, sometimes we just sort of...ignore each other...it's so weird...Ah, yeah, I'm a Virgo Sun, Leo Moon, Aqua ASC. IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted August 11, 2005 01:17 AM
Wow, what an interesting chart. This guy's very discriminating, cerebral AND probably a little unsure of himself. He'll keep the image of a cool, aloof exterior to disguise that he's actually rather thinned-skinned and sensitive. He probably has trouble trusting other people, especially trusting that they are sincere. He also probably worries that if he shows emotions, it's a sign of weakness and the wolves will pick up the scent and come running. He's probably uncomfortable getting to know people in general, but especially in a casual way where there's little overt structure or purpose. Small talk's not this guy's forte. He'd be better in a classroom or a workplace, where the rules of engagement are clear and avoid unnessecary gestures. He'll HATE posturing and pretending, and in particualr people who try to act like their familiar with him. Give this guy his space. Don't crowd him by trying too hard to be friends with him. Caps like to feel that they do a job well and that they serve a purpose, so openly acknowledge his contributions and let him know he's appreciated (just avoid being emotional or goofy about - just cut and dry "Hey, thanks for doing this. You've helped out a lot" kind of thing). Caps that feel like they have a purpose within a social context tend to relax more and open up a little easier. When Caps feel appreciated, they're incredibly loyal, and even if they never quite act buddy-buddy with you, they will show their gratitude in other ways (like putting in 150% into every favor they do for you). IP: Logged |
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posted August 11, 2005 01:47 AM
Gem, you do a top notch job everytime. What aspect do you attribute to writting succinctly? Can't remember where your Merc is.. but I don't think its in Gemini.IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted August 11, 2005 03:34 AM
He was born at noon?I'm a Cap, and I think Gemini Nymph gave you some really good ideas. If he's friendly, and not terribly shy, just be friendly and meet him at his level. Try to find something in common. If he's as withdrawn as he's been made out to be, then starting with casual, meaningful praise will definitely get you somewhere with him. He may look bewildered by the praise, or make you feel awkward for having said it, but he really does like the attention. Being received positively is huge for any Capricorn.  IP: Logged |
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posted August 11, 2005 06:47 AM
those pesky cappies, (bein one i can say it, but no-one else can!) with their i'll only do what i wanna do, when i want to do it, including being friendly, attitudes. PRAISE is great, not direct tho' but kinda, like a question, was it hard for you to learn that? answer the q urself, nod ur head ans go yeah i bet it was. They always struggling ain't they, but they achieve in the end, nice to draw attention to that. Pointing out to cappies when to be nice to themselves, works a treat, they love that. ya gotta just be playful, have a twinkle in ur eye, twirl around a bit and show a bit of vulnerability while ur at it and they meltttttttttt. I have venus in aquarius too and i love ppl who are original, do their own thing in their own way, don't fuss too much about what others think and say, openly. Cappies and water bearers have that in common just diff' means of achieving / expressing that. but all in all, if he don't want to be nice, stuff him, he doesn't know what he's missing right? You withdraw from trying and watch him come running to the challenge, LOL have fun, either way! seagoat IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted August 11, 2005 07:07 AM
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but all in all, if he don't want to be nice, stuff him, he doesn't know what he's missing right?
I like the way you think lol IP: Logged |
Battle of Evermore
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posted August 11, 2005 01:16 PM
Thanks a bunch guys!
I'll try that, you have all given great advice. We have enough in common, it's just that he only seems open up to his close friends, and if he does decide to open up to me at all, I'm so surprised, I'm dumbstruck. I'm rather unapproachable to some people myself, and that's the problem, we aren't opposites.
He makes me alittle nervous or something, you know how some people do that. I don't feel that I can relax around him very much.
GN~ Thanks, you are just right on point! That sounds just like him.
AG~ No, he wasn't born at noon, I just don't have a birth time. IP: Logged |
artlovesdawn
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posted August 12, 2005 02:12 PM
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posted August 12, 2005 02:51 PM
Thanks so much artlovesdawn, that's great advice, and I need all the help I can get. Cappies have always been an enigma to me!IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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posted August 14, 2005 05:32 PM
BoEre: yer cappy ..
.. here's some text that may have info ..
.. 2038 k .. total .. potentialy printable ..
..1000 pixels width ..
http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/hdpics/cp/cp.pt.ii.html IP: Logged |
Battle of Evermore
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posted August 14, 2005 08:37 PM
AHHHHH!!!!  EEEK!!!
*bangs head against wall*
I just did a composite chart, and we have composite Sun conjunct Venus! I had that with sombody once before, and I was like completely mothering over them... I still think about them all the time. I hate this aspect, it makes me crazy! I knew it was something! I sent him a whole box of candy while he was in military training. I wasn't sure if I liked him at all at first, and now I've been through the whole band thing without him, and it's hell. He's the only cardinal sign there and he keeps us in check majorly considering the rest of us are mutable. Man, I felt this comming, I don't like feeling motherly. 
Ah, well anyway, we had our first show today sense he's been back, and we seem to be getting along much better... weird. I guess we just have to get used to eachother to be more comfortable.
(thanks a lot HD, reading it now!  )IP: Logged | |
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