posted August 12, 2005 03:01 PM              

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

"You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream."

posted August 12, 2005 08:37 PM              

I was asked by my girlfriend's significant other (a man who incidentally went on to become a VP at Random House) to proofread his graduate school application. No problem! He came by the house. I sat down with him in the kitchen under the glare of a cheap light bulb with some very bad coffee and we polished it up in two hours. My Aqua literally blew his top, started a major fight, yelling screaming.. etc. He did not admit that his anger was at the man but it was.

He was angry that my big juicy Gemini MIND had been usurped for two hours of our precious time together. LOL. Now that's an Aqua man for you. If he had walked in on us rolling around on the floor he probably would have shrugged and walked out.

posted August 13, 2005 03:26 AM              

I was married to an Aqua/Gem/Scorp and he was a total headf***, very funny socially tho, a real jack the lad. We ended up almost destroying each other, the differences were huge!

My partner has Aqua moon - I feel Aqua men are great as friends but for me the distance between us is too great.........it leaves me feeling lonely and isolated.......my chart is full of passion, intensity and warmth........this is too much for them. Scorpio and Aqua energy doesnt mix well.

I watched some guys playing music last night and one of them was totally enchanting.....he is a Scorp/Scorp/Pisces......I saw myself reflected in him, his joy and sensitivity overwhelmed me. Everything I like in myself I saw in him, the music, the craic, the childlike enthusiasm........his wife if a Gemini LOL, I feel she doesnt see half what I do in him........strange ol life isnt it friends?

Love to all

posted August 13, 2005 04:42 AM              

Well - me very intense - wait for it - Sun, Venus, Neptune, Jupiter all conj in Scorp in 8th house, Mercury there too, Mars. Moon Taurus, Aries rising.

Cos he was so detached and couldnt be there for me emotionally, he provoked my negative side, so the more he stepped back, the more intense I became. He played lots of headgames and when it came to me leaving him, he turned really weird, made a shrine of me in our house - loads of photos, curtains drawn and stuff. One night he kidnapped me and wouldnt let me out of th house. He threatened suicide and I was living thro a nightmare for a while. I was with my present partner and I thought he might kill him. The problem was it took me years to let go......I couldnt be with him but like you say there was an allure!

Ive been away from him now for 16 years and realise how dangerous a character he was for me! He told lies, drank too much, had financial problems, sexual problems etc etc etc.

I am drawn to the Aquarian energy, but at a distance, I think is good for me.

What sort of chart do you have?

Love

posted August 13, 2005 07:59 AM              

everything you have all written is TRUE, eevry last word of it

I am now going to make my cappy girl (who is doing my head in) READ IT

i dont know why i do half the things i do,

i do know though or at least i came to this conclusion the other day:

that i find solace/comfort in the COLD..

i am tormented by angst and anguish

the best way to avoid it all is to SHUT OFF ALL EMOTIONS

:-)

posted August 13, 2005 11:00 AM            

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he wont let you know how much it bothers him.

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posted August 13, 2005 02:49 PM              

1. Intelligent, and open-minded yet sticks to their values. No wishy washies!

2. Patience. When an Aqua is quiet and isnt' giving you much, their head and heart is probably in the future, trying to figure out if this is going to work in the long term.

3. Sure mind games, just not devious ones where your emotions get hurt. We like to be challenged mentally.

4. Don't be so possessive that we dont have our space and air to think for ourselves. We are afterall an independent sign. But don't go for too long without calling or talking to us or we start thinking you're not interested. We can easily move on, even if our feelings were hurt because life goes on. Im an Aqua girl I treat people the way they treat me. Treat me like **** , and then I'll give you a taste of your own medicine...or worse.

5. I like to call myself Unique. And I reserve Weird or Odd some other Aquas.

6. It's ok to be emotional and sentiment. But if all you are doing is crying and being moody, and we cant do or say anything to change that mood...then space is a necessity. Constant moodiness from others can be quite draining. Move on already.

7. Don't revolve your world around anyone. Be your own person first. True if you are too dependent, he or she won't respect you. We didn't get into the relationship to babysit. We prefer equal give and take...spiritually, mentally, materially etc etc.

8. Friends first...and best friends always.

9. Sure, plus alot of other variables can be added here.

10. Yeah

11. Aquas seem like they're ignoring you.

12. Laugh anyways? LOL You don't have to laugh if it's not funny! lol!

13. Don't fret with overanalyzing though. You can really over do it. Just relax! But Aquas do like it when you can figure us out, without us having to spell it out for you

14. It does look Flashy and Foolish. But Aquas do get jealous like any other sign.

15. We only speak the truth. Or we just dont answer or get our way around it.

16. Testing one, two, three. Testing!

17. Yes Aquas are shy. I dont think we hate confrontations. But if we get in one we'll have to win. Hey, we're a mental fixed sign, so what do you expect.

posted August 13, 2005 03:11 PM              

the Aquas I know including my brother are quite vain, and love to groom themselves,
clip their nails
look at themselves in the mirror
stare at beautiful people
get compliments
look at themselves in the mirror during sex
not into making love
requires too much
good friends, but so vain
and very jealous of everyone

I like the list but it's all very much into how to get an Aqua man, nothing about how to be friends, and keep it cool. The best relationships with men for me with my Sag/Gemini influencess are ones where the man is not in my face about who I see and where I go every minute so he can drop in any old time.

Aquas are prone to this kind of behavior along with Scorpios, and revenge is huge.

I had a Scorpio friend whose ex Aqua g/f was so jealous she shot him while he was having lunch outdoors at a cafe in Miami Beach. She left him, but couldn't stand the attention he gave to others. As it was he barely left the house, but she wanted more, he bought her a condo to live next door and she broke it off but stalked him, abused him and his dog and finally shot him. He lived of course, but it's a typical jealousy mind game to want the other person to be consumed with the attention.

I find Uranus/Aqua influences to be very steadying and good in friendship but don't ever try to leave an Aqua, I don't even try, I just get owned, and give up on trying argue my own life. I am not ashamed to say I am an Aqua addict! but recovering.

another thing is they analyze every word you say, say the wrong word and you can bring him down. Be careful of what you say. keep your insecurities and tantrums for your other friends.

I love Aquas and I will always have them in my life as they are attracted to me, but even my brother is vain and picks his friends by the colours of their accessories..

"You walked into the party like you were walking onto a yacht
Your hat strategically dipped below one eye
Your scarf it was apricot
You had one eye on the mirror as you watched yourself gavotte
And all the girls dreamed that they’d be your partner
They’d be your partner, and...
You’re so vain, you probably think this song is about you
You’re so vain, I’ll bet you think this song is about you
Don’t you? don’t you?
You had me several years ago when I was still quite naive
Well you said that we made such a pretty pair
And that you would never leave
But you gave away the things you loved and one of them was me
I had some dreams, they were clouds in my coffee
Clouds in my coffee, and...
I had some dreams they were clouds in my coffee
Clouds in my coffee, and...
Well I hear you went up to saratoga and your horse naturally won
Then you flew your lear jet up to nova scotia
To see the total eclipse of the sun
Well you’re where you should be all the time
And when you’re not you’re with
Some underworld spy or the wife of a close friend
Wife of a close friend, and...

Natasha
Taurus/6th
Cancer Moon/8th
Gemini/7th house