posted August 12, 2005 10:05 PM              

Do lots of activities together. Museums, Paintball.

He may already be in love with you. But afraid to speak it out because he does not want to be hurt. Its just the cancer thing.
Its like "Once bitten Twice Shy" with them.

posted August 12, 2005 10:41 PM              

He pushed her away and away. She finally gave up and a few years later he came around again..they had a fling and she decided he wasn't all that.

posted August 12, 2005 10:56 PM              

*Sigh

Those were the good old days.

Ok...maybe not.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

"You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream."

posted August 13, 2005 01:55 AM              

I have two Cancers on my mind and I have Venus in Aries/5th house, Mars/1st house, and Cancer Moon. You have my sympathy.

I just got finished being yelled at by a Cancer/Leo moon/Venus in Gemini because he wants a commitment but wants assurances that I want one too, or else he will throw the flowers away he bought for me tonight. I was set to come over for a romantic weekend of talking and relating, and dinner, but he's had a long week at work.

He calls me up and immediately starts a fight about how I never compromise and I have no intention of kissing and hugging him and then he hangs up! I don't even get to talk back. Then he sent me a long email about what I did wrong to blow the romantic evening he had planned! All I said was I was tired could we talk when I got there? It's so frustrating, i am ready and he's ****** . Why?

Before I wasn't ready and he was all hot and bothered, I am telling you he's punishing me for some past sin. Or he sees me as another woman. I have told him I want FOREVER, what othe assurance does he need?

he says he wants real emotional involvement, LOVE, now, and I am right here. I am tired of calling him, pursuing, putting in....

apparently when he said he loved me (by email) he wanted me to leave work today and drive directly to his house and prove my love then and there. everything is right NOW!

exhausting stuff, exciting, romantic, but too talky, and angry. Still cancer men are hot stuff and I can't seem to shake my fascination.

The other one has a taurus moon, and he's as stubborn as a brick wall, and just as into being pursued. Very romantic, wants to hold my hand. If I don't hold his hand when he wants too....
HE PUNISHES ME FOR DAYS BY NOT RETURNING MY CALLS! I kid you not!

Good Luck, I have a cancer moon and I'm not that bad. I hope yours comes around, give him WINE!

My Saggie sister is now married to a Scorpio, but was with a Cancer for years who adored her. I asked her secret, and she said get him drunk and tie him to the bed often. Cancers love to be dominated and told what to do often.
I think she was serious, and I am ready to do that.

posted August 13, 2005 03:55 AM              

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If i could choose the worst sign for Cancer, it would have to be Aries

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my cab sis is married to an aries !!!

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Cancers love to be dominated and told what to do often.

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wrong .
though cancers might seem submissive but they are in no way the kind of people who like to be dominated or can be dominated .the fact is cancers themselves are dominating but ofcourse in a very crabby way , you will need time to understand that they are all over you , literally .
slow poison would be an appropriate phrase to describe them.

(try dominance with your cancer friend and wait......)

why they like sags , it has a completly different explantion and reasons .

first , sags's straight forwardness and can do attitude .
second, sags normally know how to carry themselves and cancers like people who are physically fit smart people .
third , sags don't normally get involved in mind games that cancers always hate .
though therotically , they are said to be uncompatible (i think the reasons are well known) they are very very compatible as friends .

posted August 13, 2005 04:09 AM              

well , about the cancer -aries relation , my own sis is married to one and shall i say it has been quite difficult to understand him for her as well as us .

i feel there are similarities in us but the means to achieve the same end are quite different .and thats what makes us two completly different people .
if it was not for astrology , i would have hated them till now , though we dont have much big difference as in case of other air or fire signs .

i would be more helpful if u could elobrate a bit more on your chemistry with him .

posted August 13, 2005 09:30 AM              

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

"You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream."

posted August 14, 2005 05:48 PM            

As for charts, here ya go:

Please go to www.astro.com. Right under the “Astrodienst Astro.com” in the blue title bar is a section called "Free Horoscopes", click on that. Under "Please select your free horoscope" choose the section headed in gray called "Horoscope Chart Drawings" and pick "Extended Chart Selection". Click on "Add a New Person" and set yourself up. Then under "please select the type of chart you want" drop-down box, choose "natal chart wheel" and click on the "click here to show the chart" button.
Once you've run that you'll have all your planetary positions (and a nice picture!).
At the "Horoscope Home" page, you can now click on "Portrait" under Astrodienst Free Horoscopes" in red. Down at the bottom of your "Short Report - Personal Portrait" is the text listing of all your planetary and house positions. Copy and paste that into here and we can begin our conversations!

'Zala

posted August 14, 2005 05:57 PM              

I have a Cancer Moon (Libra/Cancer/Gemini), my niece (Cancer Sun, Saggie Moon, Libra Asc.) and nephew(Cancer/Scorp/Libra) are Cancers, and my dad (Cancer/Leo/Leo) is a Cancer.

Not a single one of us is interested in being dominated.

I will say that Cancer types respond well to loving tones, and emotional nourishment.

If you want something from a Cancer, take note of your tone... They will

posted August 14, 2005 06:12 PM              

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aka Neptune’s Mermaid, NM, WN, Nurse Neptune, Waternixie, Nepsnympe and deputy #6

posted August 14, 2005 07:10 PM            

I like the new quote in your sig -- who wrote it?

posted August 14, 2005 09:06 PM              

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra 06°12'19
2nd House Scorpio 02°42'17
3rd House Sagittarius 03°26'08
Imum Coeli Capricorn 07°11'41
5th House Aquarius 10°41'15
6th House Pisces 10°44'28
Descendant Aries 06°12'19
8th House Taurus 02°42'17
9th House Gemini 03°26'08
Medium Coeli Cancer 07°11'41
11th House Leo 10°41'15
12th House Virgo 10°44'28

Major aspects
Sun Square Saturn 5°32
Sun Sextile Uranus 1°34
Sun Opposition Neptune 5°28
Sun Trine Pluto 3°04
Sun Opposition Ascendant 6°23
Moon Conjunction Venus 4°22
Moon Square Mars 0°57
Moon Opposition Jupiter 0°43
Moon Square Saturn 4°55
Venus Square Mars 5°19
Venus Opposition Jupiter 3°39
Mars Square Jupiter 1°40
Mars Conjunction Saturn 3°59
Jupiter Square Saturn 5°39
Uranus Sextile Pluto 4°38
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°25
Neptune Conjunction Ascendant 0°54
Pluto Sextile Ascendant 3°19

and Here's His (Mr.Crab)
Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Cancer 23°40'07 01 direct
Moon Gemini 08°03'40 12 direct
Mercury Leo 09°32'48 02 direct
Venus Cancer 28°58'28 01/2 direct
Venus is technically near the end of house 1 and is interpreted in house 2.
Mars Virgo 02°35'52 03 direct
Jupiter Leo 28°03'33 03 direct
Saturn Cancer 03°20'44 12 direct
Uranus Gemini 11°29'51 12 direct
Neptune Libra 01°46'14 04 direct
Pluto Leo 07°53'49 02 direct
True Node Cancer 27°41'23 01 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 10°10'36
2nd House Leo 00°05'45
3rd House Leo 22°11'54
Imum Coeli Virgo 19°45'10
5th House Libra 25°07'48
6th House Sagittarius 04°52'35
Descendant Capricorn 10°10'36
8th House Aquarius 00°05'45
9th House Aquarius 22°11'54
Medium Coeli Pisces 19°45'10
11th House Aries 25°07'48
12th House Gemini 04°52'35

Major aspects
Sun Conjunction Venus 5°18
Moon Sextile Mercury 1°29
Moon Square Mars 5°28
Moon Conjunction Uranus 3°26
Moon Trine Neptune 6°17
Moon Sextile Pluto 0°10
Mercury Sextile Uranus 1°57
Mercury Conjunction Pluto 1°39
Venus Sextile Neptune 2°48
Mars Conjunction Jupiter 4°32
Mars Sextile Saturn 0°45
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 5°17
Saturn Square Neptune 1°34
Uranus Sextile Pluto 3°36

posted August 14, 2005 11:42 PM            

Anyway...Cancers like to do things their way...as all Cardinal signs do. There will always be power struggle issues between you (in my opinion).

I can't help but think that given the story that's been presented here that the Cancer may be using you to prop up his ego while he deals with this breakup. I understand that you may be ready for a relationship, but is the Cancer really in the right place to start the kind of love affair you're looking for?

Always speaking caution,

posted August 15, 2005 12:41 AM              

But here's the story.. My step dad's (cancer) ex wife of 20 years was, you guessed it Aries. It was the most horrible thing in the world for the last 15 yrs.. that much they both agree on. There was NO communication at all.. :edit: (soz I deleted this bit, prolly best if I don't go into details, makes it sound worse)
In the end all she got was bitterness and no warmth (which is something aries craves) and all he got was screaming and shouting when he was lucky enough for her to actually talk to him (when cancer craves bear hugs and kisses).. obviously this made him bitter as well so he went in his lil shell and completely stopped communicating..which only made HER angrier and led to more shouting and screaming..vicious circle

It was just a very rocky, psycho relationship..circus like and I would personally advice against it.. but I can't speak for you or this particular Cancer, specially if you have a water moon you could be more suited to each other.. Also you are both at a different age..so a bit older and wiser which helps. They started at 20, ended at 40..

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-was aries-chick