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whiterabbit
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posted August 13, 2005 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
from http://love.astrology.com/descendant.html:

Did you know that there's a point on your astrological chart that can explain why you're attracted to certain types of relationship partners? By finding out your Descendant...you can reveal the motivations behind your attitudes toward marriage and partnership and better understand your instinctual attractions toward a particular kind of love mate. Since the Descendant lies directly opposite your Rising Sign -- the Sign that indicates the way the world perceives you -- it, in a way, represents the sort of person you feel will complete you, fill in the gaps in your life and help you to realize your full potential. It can also be thought of as sort of your alter ego, as the you that you show only to your most intimate partner.

I've been really interested in the DC in people's charts lately. I just think it makes so much sense. And more and more I am realizing how much sense it makes that I have Aries on the descendant. I also have a theory- I think there may be a correlation between your DC and the person that you um *lost* your um *flower* to. If you don't feel comfortable sharing, feel free to ignore this thread.
So, I'll start. Yup, mine was an Aries.
If it isn't the exact sign- was their personality similar to the sign on your DC? And also- do you relate to your DC- does it make as much sense to you as it does to me? I really feel like all of the men I am attracted to, even if they are not Aries themselves- have a lot of Arian characteristics. And I definitely feel like these are characteristics I lack (assertiveness, ambition, being outspoken).
So- please share!

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posted August 13, 2005 11:23 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fascinating concept, and quite possibly merits some validation?

Lets ask everyone to quote the sign of their first - you know what? and compare it to their DC ha ha ha ha

So come on gang - own up.....LOL

It really is fascinatingly spooky, as my DC is in Libra and my first time was with a lovely young girl (legally young BTW) whose name I shall not quote on the web, but began with an A and whose birthday was mid October - feel bad because I cannot remember exact date (of her birthday!!!) but in fairness, it was nearly 20 years ago ha ha

So yeah, works for me too

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posted August 13, 2005 11:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ive been wondering why mroe astrology books havent coverd Descendants more. I have Scorio DC. didnt give my virginity to a Scorp . But have always been atracted to Scorps or Scorpio like women.

When I learned about my DC it helped to make alot of sense about my more hidden things in my self. And true that these things within me where the sort of things I only show my most intimate loves.

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whiterabbit
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posted August 13, 2005 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah, it's very strange how little is written about the DC.
Well, I'm glad it's making sense to the two of you. Anyone else? Come on, don't be shy..

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posted August 13, 2005 11:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know what, I still haven't worked out what type of women I'm attracted too?

I guess it sounds odd but they all posses some sort of alure - let me think - see if I can solve this dilema here and now?

Aries - Sometimes find them a little rash but do like the sexual energiy levels

Taurus - Now there is something very holdable about Taurean ladies - very soft and sensual

Gemini - Have to admit, apart from the continual chattering LOL (only kidding) their intellect is stimulating

Cancer - The motherly and nurturing aspects are seductive but the mood swings can sometimes confuse

Leo - Arhh, now apart from the bouts of sulking and anger (which BTW can always be overcome with any flattering compliment you can think of, like 'You are really so beautiful when your angry') knocks em speechless, every time - these regal ladies really do know their lovely and masterfully exciting in the bedroom department!!

Virgo - The neatness and perfection of their appearences always attracts

Libra - I think it's the understanding aura they exude which makes them attractive to most men

Scorpio - What can I say, the intensity of the moment is soooo alluring

Sagitarius - This one is a little confusing for me, but I think the sporty energetic styles of these ladies put me off a little or maybe it's my error in thinking they will always want to move on, which keeps me away from them?

Capricorn - Hmm very swwet yet very hard too catch, well for me anyway.

Aquarius - Not really certain about Aqua girls, They have this amasing ability to be several people at a time, well for me anyway - one minute seductive and sensual, the next distant and aloof

Pisces - Too obvious for me to comment on, considering this is also my sign

Right lets see what I've got - Hmmm okay, I like them all


ha ha ha

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whiterabbit
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posted August 13, 2005 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow, viper. I'm impressed.
I definitely stick to a few "types", which probably limits my romantic experience. But I just find it so hard to be attracted to people!
Aries (especially w/Capricorn moon) and Aquarius do it for me. And that's about it. There was one Virgo.
I wish I had your ability to see the potential in everyone. I just cross people off my list sooo quickly. You're my role model. I'm going to try and make my way through the zodiac so I can really comment on all of them.

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posted August 13, 2005 12:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer rules my 7th house. My first love (not in the physical sense) was a Cancer. My Taurus Sun (conjunct IC) and Gemini Moon are in the 4th house.

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posted August 13, 2005 02:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces on the DC for me (alongside Moon, Venus and Jupiter) - my "first" was my husband (Mars in Pisces, Asc. and Neptune in Scorpio) at the age of 23. He was my first relationship EVER and it was very important to me at the time to be intimate only with someone whom I loved, and who I felt was going to be strongly committed for some considerable time.

Now I am a little more relaxed about relationships, but I still couldn't make love with s/o I didn't love, it would feel terribly false.

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sue g
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posted August 13, 2005 04:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Libra on the DC and I lost my innocence to a ................ Libra LOL!!

Fascinating stuff isnt it and I am at times intrigued by Libras even tho they drive me MAD......mmmm....

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posted August 13, 2005 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for shop22much     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i think theres a lot of truth to your theory....interesting

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posted August 13, 2005 06:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My DC is Aries... and yes, I did lose my virginity to an Aries! He was my first love, first everything. My venus is in aries too, in the 7th house, and I'm fatally attracted to that sign. Always have problems with them though, they make my Cappy moon feel uneasy.

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posted August 13, 2005 09:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I have Aqua on my DC, and I don't think I was ever romantically involved with one. (First was Gemini though.) Sorry to throw this monkey wrench, it seems to pan out for everyone else..

I think you had another thread about DC recently, whiterabbit, or was that someone else? It was about acting within a relationship like the sign one has the DC in. And I think there might be something to that. I feel I definitely exhibit some Aqua characteristics in intimate relationships, like emotional aloofness, insistance on my "bounderies" etc. But as far as men go, I just don't feel attracted to the Aqua type at all. I may be aloof, but I don't like it when others are, LOL!

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posted August 13, 2005 10:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, I have DC in Pisces with Moon in 7th conjunct DC. I don't know what the guy I lost my virginity to was. He was a liar and a **** , and I dumped him after I found out he had been lying to me and sleeping with two other people in addition to me. He had very a sexual aura though, and tended to attract both women and men.....um, maybe he was a Pisces. LOL. Sorry, you Pisceans - his example would not speak well of you if this was true. He may have been a Scorpio. I recall him looking a bit Scorpian, but kind of Piscean too. Dunno. *shrugs* My other sexual partners have been two Aries, a Gemini and two Cancers (including the present).

This is what my reading said:

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If Pisces lies on your Descendant, you wish for a romantic partner who is as tuned into the universe's rhythms and to the joy and transcendant possibilities of love as you are. Since you've got Virgo Rising, people often see you as serious and meticulous, as needing to quantify everything and be in control, someone who enjoys being needed; you may seem like the type who views love as way to security rather than as a mystical and exciting experience. When it comes to falling in love, you are at first hesitant, cautious and businesslike, quantifying your potential partner's qualities to discern whether or not they're worth your time. But it's all quite to the contrary once you're intimate with someone; in love you're actually looking for someone with whom you can share intense emotional connections and perhaps a common spirituality, someone who can read your mind and intuit your needs. A mate whose open mind and heart will free you from fears or reservations will make you the happiest.

That last line is very true for me.

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posted August 14, 2005 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Come to think of it, I believe I gave my virginity to an Aquarius.
Well.. the first one didn't count, because he was a jackass, and it was quick and I didn't even lose my hymen..... the Aqua though.. yep, I did. A lot. Too much information? Ah, well, it's natural.
We were 'together' off and on for years.. the chemistry was amazing. He called me his 'wild thing'.
I have dated Aquarians as well.. and yes, maybe because Uranus is conjunct my Sun, I do tend to go for the aqua minded people... I like interesting views and challenges.. how out there they are. But I am definately more intense. Who knows, I don't know anyone anymore in the romantic sense...

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posted August 14, 2005 02:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
though my dec. is in libra , i dont think i go for them , none in my knowledge .

mine is more of cancer , scorp kind

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sue g
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posted August 14, 2005 05:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"mine is more of cancer scorp, kind"

Isnt SCORP all mens kind Cancerrg LOL xx

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posted August 14, 2005 11:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My DC is Aries, I typically like men that are more assertive (not bossy) and direct. I recently was involved with a Libra that definately posessed the same forthrightness, he wasn't like a typical Libra I guess. But then again sometimes people share characteristics of their polar opposites.

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posted August 14, 2005 02:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Isnt SCORP all mens kind Cancerrg

sorry , didn't get u , here . devilish sue!!!

do u mean , scorps( even devilish angel ladies , like u ) are all like men ?

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posted August 14, 2005 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I think Sue meant that Scorpio women are every man's type (not just yours).
Probably true!
I'm glad this theory seems to be holding up, somewhat. I did a survey of my friends and it seems to work about 60% of the time.

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posted August 14, 2005 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think these are pretty accurate, from that website I quoted in the first post.
Air Descendants:

Gemini Descendant

If Gemini lies on your Descendant, you're searching for a partner who will help you to see the trees for the forest, someone who will deflate your rhetoric with their keen view of reality. Since you have Sagittarius Rising, you have a tendency to want to roam the world endlessly, to continuously question your life's path and explore your every whim and curiosity. Being tied down frightens you, and you instinctually seek out partners who will make you aware of the smaller picture, someone who will want to keep moving around as much you do. When it comes to love, you paint with broad strokes, idealizing the notion of love and expecting your lovers to live up to your high intellectual expectations. You'd be happiest with someone vibrant and youthful; they must mentally stimulate you yet not congratulate you for your occasional arrogance and preachiness!


Libra Descendant

If Libra lies on your Descendant, you're searching for a romantic partner with an even temperament and a sense of inner harmony. Since you have Aries Rising -- a Sign associated with aggressiveness and action -- you seem to the world quite spontaneous, bold and assertive. Beneath the surface, though, you're a soft-hearted romantic who yearns to meet that special someone and settle down. Coupledom -- even with all its inherent benefits and aggravations -- profoundly appeals to you, the idea of sharing your life with one person resonating in your soul. When it comes to falling in love, you may at first seem blasé, too preoccupied and busy with your own dynamic lifestyle. You may even warn your potential mate of your roving eye or your need for freedom; once you've got their ear, though, you'll reveal your heart's true intentions. A mate keen on marriage and building a family will make you the most satisfied.


Aquarius Descendant

If Aquarius lies on your Descendant, you aim to meet a romantic partner who will expose you to life's rich variety, a true individualist and independent. Since you have Leo Rising -- a Sign associated with imperiousness, drama and positivity -- you seem like someone who requires much adoration and attention. You give the impression that you want a mate who will coddle you and cajole your powerful ego. To the contrary, though, you're actually looking for a relationship partner who will step back when necessary, giving you a break from all the attention you're always receiving. When you fall in love, you do so with an open heart, showering your new mate with lots of gifts and affection; once you've got their attention, though, you reveal your true desires. A mate who is eccentric, active, intelligent and inspiring will make you the happiest.

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posted August 14, 2005 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Water Descendants:

Cancer Descendant

If Cancer lies on your Descendant, you're looking for a love mate who will free you from the emotional chains you lock yourself up in, someone whose warm, affectionate and protective nature will melt your chilly reserve. Since you have Capricorn Rising -- a Sign that signifies a need for control, caution and accountability -- you need a partner who gives freely of their love and their attention. You don't take much time for yourself because you're so worried about keeping up with your obligations, but you instinctually seek out lovers who pamper and spoil you, but who are also somewhat emotionally needy in their own right. When you fall in love, you tend to do so slowly and cautiously, fearful of losing control of your destiny; you'd be most content with someone with whom you can start a family and share a secure home.

Scorpio Descendant

If Scorpio lies on your Descendant, you're seeking a torrid romantic partner, someone with whom you can get very intimate. Since you have Taurus Rising -- a Sign associated with perseverance and stubbornness -- you seem to the world quite in control of your appetites and passions. Behind closed doors, you're craving intense, lusty encounters, profound and complex connections and unrestrained emotion expression. When it comes to falling in love, you put on a brave and diligent face, sizing up your potential mate, assessing their physical beauty (a high priority for Taurus Rising) and material worth. Once you've got a lover in your sights, though, your defensive layers peel away like skin off an onion, your simmering emotions and passions heating things up in no time. A partner who is somewhat possessive and intense, someone keyed into your ardent desires will make you the happiest.

Pisces Descendant

If Pisces lies on your Descendant, you wish for a romantic partner who is as tuned into the universe's rhythms and to the joy and transcendant possibilities of love as you are. Since you've got Virgo Rising, people often see you as serious and meticulous, as needing to quantify everything and be in control, someone who enjoys being needed; you may seem like the type who views love as way to security rather than as a mystical and exciting experience. When it comes to falling in love, you are at first hesitant, cautious and businesslike, quantifying your potential partner's qualities to discern whether or not they're worth your time. But it's all quite to the contrary once you're intimate with someone; in love you're actually looking for someone with whom you can share intense emotional connections and perhaps a common spirituality, someone who can read your mind and intuit your needs. A mate whose open mind and heart will free you from fears or reservations will make you the happiest.

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posted August 14, 2005 09:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mine was with a Cancer (right on the Leo cusp).

I have Cancer on my DC and Leo intercepted in the 7th.

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posted August 14, 2005 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorn Descendant

If Capricorn lies on your Descendant, you aspire to meet someone who is successful, honest and dignified, a romantic mate whose gifts to you go beyond flowers and foot massages and more toward fiscal security and unswerving devotion. Since you have Cancer Rising -- a Water Sign associated with emotional sincerity and the maternal instinct -- you seem to desire someone whom you can baby or dote on, someone who will only intensify your tender vulnerability. On the contrary, you're actually seeking a partner who is more mature than you (you may in fact marry someone a bit older than you!), someone on whom you can rely, someone to dote on you! When it comes to falling in love, you seem to lead with your heart; once you've got a potential mate's attention, though, you pull out your checklist of desired qualities and assets. A partner of status who is serious, established and ambitious will best suit you.

Taurus Descendant

If Taurus lies on your Descendant, you yearn for a romantic mate who can offer you a sense of material comfort and stability, someone dependable and reassuring. Since you have Scorpio Rising -- a Sign known for its obsessive and secretive tendencies -- you seek out someone whose calm and comforting nature will soothe your fears and build up your confidence. You aspire to create harmonious, affectionate relationships, possibly to deflect the mysterious and sort of dark energy you seem to attract because of your mysterious Rising Sign. When it comes to falling in love, you really only give yourself over once you know that a potential partner possesses a reliable source of income and a balanced temperament. You may even feel the urge to delve into your mate's past to make certain what they're telling you is true: And this includes peeking at their bank statement and investigating the histories of past relationships!

Virgo Descendant

If Virgo lies on your Descendant, you desire a mate who is selfless in their service and dedication to you, a lover who will provide unwavering reliability and stability. Since you have Pisces Rising, others see you as dreamy, emotionally pliable, submissive even. Consequently, you may feel you need a mate who can anchor you in reality and clue you in when you're overlooking important facts and clues. You need someone who is pragmatic and astute, alert to the world's perils and possibilities, someone who will keep you on your toes. When you fall in love, you do so with your heart open, your idealistic romantic notions bared and vulnerable; it wouldn't feel like love to you if you were guarded. Though you seem to enjoy having your head in the clouds, you're actually craving structure and security, the kind of certainty that comes from routines and habitual behavior.

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Scorpio Descendant

If Scorpio lies on your Descendant, you're seeking a torrid romantic partner, someone with whom you can get very intimate. Since you have Taurus Rising -- a Sign associated with perseverance and stubbornness -- you seem to the world quite in control of your appetites and passions. Behind closed doors, you're craving intense, lusty encounters, profound and complex connections and unrestrained emotion expression. When it comes to falling in love, you put on a brave and diligent face, sizing up your potential mate, assessing their physical beauty (a high priority for Taurus Rising) and material worth. Once you've got a lover in your sights, though, your defensive layers peel away like skin off an onion, your simmering emotions and passions heating things up in no time. A partner who is somewhat possessive and intense, someone keyed into your ardent desires will make you the happiest.

uuhhmmmmm, I think that passes accuracy test's enough to almost have me blush.

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What does it say about Sagi Decendant!?

My 1st time (it was his too) was with a Scorpio. Close (to Sag), but no cigar hehe. I am pretty much a Scorpio magnet though for some reason. Perhaps my Venus in Scorp has something to do with it!

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