posted September 15, 2005 01:17 PM              

heard about aquas so many times , have apprehensions even today.

posted September 15, 2005 01:50 PM              

I love that crabs are very loving and affectionate. More into a relationship and the home. Very charming and sophisticated. I loved my Crab =) He was one of the two people who brought out the emotional side of me(Aquas are very guarded when it comes to emotions I think we already have that down lol).

posted September 15, 2005 02:05 PM              

I love my Aqua male. He was seemingly perfect! He was athletic, risky, open minded, and intelligent. He was fun, up for anything, has a great career, and loved his family. He'd show me things Id never seen before or give me new experiences. BUT(as Ive always told him) hes "emotionally handicapped" lol!!! Not that hes removed from feeling, rather he cannot express them and he holds them in, pushes it away. Hes a cerebral sign, and you know what happens when you think too much! End up being confused, and not being the type to be persistent just gives up.

Sthenri your right. When I ignored my Aqua man, he will do everything to get my attention, especially when Im giving my attention to someone else.

posted September 15, 2005 03:03 PM              

'flightiness' is a word that I think other elements gave air for being so progressive. Air is the fastest moving elment; many times we are ahead of our times. (although i do have a theory about libras living in the past, geminis living for the present, and aquas being the most forward looking), nonetheless on a big scale we can be very futuristic, very intellectual. to think in logical terms, detached from reality (even ones OWN reality and emotions) is really not an easy task. If we can ignore our own emotions, then you better believe that in the process, a few other peoples emotions are bound to be ignored. Its this phenomenon that other signs call 'flighty' , I call it an unfortunate side effect of being the philosophers and intellects of the zodiac.

Btw returning to the topic Aquas are fixed so they are bound to have good memories, with good memories come grudges, all fixed signs have this. I have seen, and on a personal basis too, that women are upset with Aquas so much becoz they care about thme so much too. If you really dont care about a persons behavior or opinions they eventually dont mean a rats @ss to you, this is the way Virgo men in particular are to me. I was strangely unemotional when breaking up with my ex Virgo. It was probably the easiest thing Ive done in my life, I probably face harder decisions when Im friggin shopping.

Women care about aqua men, they wnat to know that below that mysterious exterior, is a very complex men that likes them. At least that is how I felt about my last Aqua.

posted September 15, 2005 09:14 PM              

I really havent seen one purposely malicious Aqua, so i am benign towards them even when they are hurtful to me I guess

Even for libras, i can understand them even if they hurt me, i dont agree, but i do understand their motivations etc.

Cancerrg to answer ur question no i have never dated a libra and dont plan on it. Not because theyre not nice folks but because Libra men tend to lack direction in their life and i dont want a man without clear direction, ambition, a man who doesnt have his life organized, because i have been with an emotional and practical mess before (virgo) and dont want it again. I dont want to babysit my significant other, i want a truly harmonious relationship , i think i would spend too much time with a libra man teaching him things which would drain my energy

Mama Mia, just like the aquas i have met dont represent the sign maybe the ones u have met dont represent it either, becoz like u said u have a lot of aqua influence and u are not like that, so i would expect that hopefully u got a unrepresentative, bad sample, and that its also possible that even though there is magnetic attraction between u and aquas, maybe they are just not good for u in the long run? i am sorry u were hurt, i hope u find the perfect one the libra / sag u were talking about sounds promising and i hope things work out

posted September 16, 2005 11:33 AM            

Yes he was a bad representation cause even after the break up which ws his fault and I have moved on and stil remain who I am he still has mean things to say and do about me and towards me..Lets me know how he is felling..

I pray for his well being and keep it moving no weapon formed against me shall prosper..