posted August 26, 2005 11:59 PM              

Husband is
Jan. 4 1967
10:45 am
Alabama

soulmate or twin flame is
April 4, 1971
don't know time
Georgia

thanks for any help, insight..

posted August 27, 2005 06:45 AM            

How does one know his/her soulmate or twin flame anyway? Is there actually some sort of actual qualifier, or is it a matter of intuition?

Anyway, my opinion is that since Libra, Capricorn, and Aries are all Cardinal signs there will always be power issues. You won't have an automatically easier time by turning to the Aries. Your Cap may be a stick in the mud, but your Aries is rash and far too comfortable with confrontation for you to handle (this is just my opinion). It's the debate between stable and static, and unstable and exciting. You may not ultimately win with either choice.

Have you considered a nice Leo? Perhaps with a Leo you could find a nice balance of excitement and stability.

All of what I've written is completely off the cuff without looking at any of your charts. I'm merely writing intuitively, so it may all be crap for all I know. I just hope to make you think harder about this situation.

posted August 27, 2005 08:36 AM              

"How does one know his/her soulmate or twin flame anyway? Is there actually some sort of actual qualifier, or is it a matter of intuition?"

I can speak from my own experience that when you connect with your twin flame, you will know.
There will be no doubt at all.
The experience is so powerful and intense and your soul will recognise it.
A soul mate can be somewhat different, atleast the ones I have been with.
The feeling of love and peace hasnt been that intense or lasting and alot of problems and lessons to learn after some time..
A twin flame is someone who is 100% pure love and who will heal you and transform you.

funlibra, how typical for a libra to have difficulties making decisions
But is it really that confusing to you to know who you love and want to be with?
Perhaps you need some time alone and find yourself then, its not wise to make such a decision in confusion.
Also, astrology isn't something that can add anything to your conncection with these two if you don't already have it present, or know what the potential might be with each, cause it's all a matter of how you feel about them. Astrology wont end your confusion, I doubt that
Follow your heart.

posted August 27, 2005 09:30 AM              

Of course AG it is about the bad boy,, so much more exciting!!

I am out the door for an appointment, but will respond thoughtfully when I return...

thanks again, just worried about hurt feelings etc.

posted August 27, 2005 07:18 PM              

I know that Aries is my "counterpart, or other self" We are totally in synic. We can go without seeing each other or even talking for YEARS and pick up right where it left off. Lots of bad choices and hurt feelings,,,, but never any bad blood ya know. it is like water under the bridge.

the Cappy and I don't have any spark. but we have kids (the aries and I also share a kid)... so totally torn...

I am worried about the spark being too much and causing eruptions if aries and I are in close proximity. Also worried about how to work together on daily life issues. This is why I am hoping someone can give me insight astrology wise how long term relationships with these people may tend to go... oh and I was wrong on ARIES day of birth.. he is

April 3rd 1971
Georgia
don't know time.

thanks funlibra

posted August 28, 2005 04:08 AM              

I looked at your charts and I think it's interesting that you have no fire in your chart at all. You have earth/water/air but no fire. The Aries guy has a singleton in Air, his only air sign - Uranus, Libra..and the Capricorn guy has a singleton in fire, Jupiter- Leo.

When an element is missing, you tend to seek it out in other people. I have no air in my chart and I'm very drawn to air signs, mainly Gemini/Libra. My boyfriend is a Libra and he has a singleton in fire..I'm an Aries, fire sign..so it's a similar situation to yours.

I think in some ways you might find the Capricorn guy easier to be with (even though you are very different people and have completely different opinions on most everything - squaring Mercuries and suns and all) but he doesn't push you in that other area (the firey area) ..because he lacks fire himself. By "easy to be with" I mean..there is a comfort level there..He has a Libra moon and mars. He has nothing on your North Node (Pisces), but does have things in the same sign as you South Node(Virgo). When people have planets on your North Node the relationship doesn't feel as comfortable but it does drag you in the right direction, the direcion you "should be" heading in, in this life time.. whereas the South Node (which signifies past lives) might feel very comfortable and easy to be around - though maybe a bit boring, long term..

The Aries guy on the other hand might not feel "comfortable" as much as exciting, different..something you're not used to and something you feel you lack yourself (that fire).. He'd feel the same way about you becase he lacks Air..so in that way you complement each other. He also has his Venus on your NN, in your 6th.. Personally with North Node planets, I feel like the person gets me out of my comfort zone and kinda pushes me to do certain things...that normally I would've never done and that I don't even really want to do..but after I actually do them I'm pretty glad I did. So you might find yoursef in that situation with the Aries.

I think long term..what you have to choose from is comfortable, affectionate but no real mental communication (the Capricorn) OR challenging, very attractive, lots of love (though not as much comfort) and *some* mental/emotional understanding..enough to work with (the Aries)

The Capricorn somewhat understands the Libra side of you, having a Libra moon..so your overall ego, life direction etc.. but you might not feel a real emotional connection with him.. The Aries guy does understand your emotions (your moons are trined) so there's an easy flow.. when you express emotions to each other.

Though the Capricorn guy does have his good points..and that Sun/Moon conj is a biggie.. You wouldn't feel the square as strongly due to that. I know because I'm an Aries with a Capricorn moon and I've always gotten along with Capricorns.. so him having a Libra moon, he'd be used to that square energy in his own chart and he'd probably get on quite well with Libras.

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Sun conjunct Moon
When the Sun in one chart is conjunct with the Moon in the other, there is an extremely strong indication of a powerful romantic relationship and potential for marriage. The Moon person is emotionally in tune with the Sun person. This relationship works best if the Sun person is naturally in a role of leadership. In a marriage relationship, this aspect shows a strong sexual attraction. In this aspect, there is some tendency for the Sun to dominate the Moon to a degree. In any event, the conjunction makes two people fast friends with a deep mutual understanding and appreciation of one another. The spirit of cooperation is significant.

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The Aries -

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1-4 Aries/Cancer
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign blends the determined and aggressive traits of Aries, with the sensitivity, sympathy, and intuition of Cancer. This pairing produces a unique quality that generally permits you to succeed in a variety of endeavors. Unlike many dynamic Aries types, you can "feel" out the other fellow before jumping to an immediate conclusion. The Cancer influence slows down a tendency merely to react with an aggressive response to any stimuli. You are apt to put more thought and understanding into your actions. You have a knack for handling people because you know how to capture their imagination with your flair for dramatic appeals, and your seeming concern for their general welfare. This is not to say that you are a humanitarian by nature. In fact, like all Aries, you are somewhat self-centered in many ways. But talented enough, and sensitive enough, always to present yourself in a very convincing light. Though it is unintentional, at times you are damaging to others, or hurt them, without understanding that you are doing so. Your social perceptions are so keen that you can rise very rapidly with much popular support. The ease with which you can lead is sometimes a wonder even to yourself. While you have much pride in your abilities, you may often find yourself a little inwardly unsure. You may question how you can gather the dash and excitement that permits you to express yourself so convincingly. It's important that you remember not to take yourself too seriously and avoid excesses in dramatization.

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Though if he was born late at night, he could have a Leo moon..

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1-5 Aries/Leo
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a personality that blends the Aries drive for success with the warmth, nobility, and balance of Leo. People respond to you naturally because of you are an interesting, active, adventurous, and exciting person. You pursue your ideals with great energy, excitement, a sense of adventure, and boundless enthusiasm. You love people and they respond to you in a very positive way to your magnetic personality. Self-image is all important to you, and you have a natural faith in yourself and probably a total confidence in your abilities. You respect yourself to a high degree and see yourself as a natural born leader. You need to achieve to reinforce this wonderful sense of worth, and to maintain a rightful position of leadership and popularity. Success may come because you can come up with good ideas, but more often it is because those above you and those below you both like you a lot and are willing to listen and follow you. You don't hesitate to tell people that you "need" them, because in your open and honest way, you're confident that they will respond to you and back your cause. You have a warm heart and an affectionate nature, because of a harmonious blending of individuality and personality; thinking and feeling are very much in tune. You have a talent for clear vision or for visualizing your goal or objective, concentrating on these goals and objectives, and attaining them.

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Which one do you feel suits him best?

-this is for the Capricorn

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Capricorn/Libra
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a personality that is drawn in two opposite directions. The nature of Capricorn is highly disciplined and cautious, while Libra is rash and impulsive. What tends to result is a rather positive persona, with a sort of inspirational faith in your own infallibility, a bit the eccentric at times, but generally a very amiable individual. You like people, but the driving force in your nature may be more material than humanitarian. You are not very romantic, and there is a detachment about you that belies your real need for people. You are extremely social, and like to have people around you, but at the same time, you do not warm up to them very quickly; you are somewhat proud, a bit suspicious, and as a result, you remain aloof. You have a talent for mixing socially, however, and for getting along well with your superiors using a tact and diplomacy that assures progress in business interests. You capitalize in business, or in a profession, on persuasiveness and a friendly attitude of diplomacy. You very much dislike direct conflict or hostile situations, and your instinct to do the right thing to preserve peace and order is generally appreciated by all. Your talents also feature the ability to exercise sound and impartial judgment, especially in a business environment; the ability to mentally balance things, criticize and compare. There is a certain mental foresight that lets you see the flaws in plans before they become reality and cause problems. This well-balanced mentality is well backed by serious purpose and thoughtfulness, a desire to get ahead and assume responsibility. Maintaining balance and equilibrium can prove to be the key to your success and happiness. Your interests in business are enhanced by your ability to win others to your point of view by persuasiveness and utter charm.

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From a personal point of view I love Libras and I have a great relationship with my bf who is a Libra. Aries/Libra can work out very nicely sometimes.

I also have a Libra auntie who was with my Cap uncle for about 9 years, though they never married. They eventualy broke up because my auntie really wanted to travel and see the world and she felt kinda stuck with him. He had a massive fear of getting on a plane, so the travelling was a no no.. They didn't brake up on bad terms though and I think they did care for each other..it was just a matter of differences getting to a point where it just wasn't working anymore.

posted August 28, 2005 09:59 AM              

Aries fits more with the Aries/Cancer for sure... and the Cap/Libra is right on!!

Wow this totally sums up my entire life with these two! I have been with cappy for 12years and mostly bored out of my mind. I do have a genuine love for him, but absolutely no spark.

Aries has been in and out for 12years and everytime he comes back, it is like no time has passed, and each time we grow closer and closer. very bizarre...but not really.

I think I have decided to not decide..What a LIBRA statement!! I will watch the events unfold for a little longer...though I am tempted to push the scales one way or the other...

THANK YOU THANK YOU...what you gave me was such a gift I was feeling completely insane.

FUNLIBRA